Kwingxoxo yehlabathi kukho izihloko ezine ezithengiweyo: ezopolitiko, inkolo, impilo, imali. Kuba kwakamsinya nje phakathi kwee-canapes kunye neeglasi ezihambahambayo, uxela ukuba i-Trump okanye yoyika uMntwana ongowesithathu inyanga i-sinusitis, i-buffet iyayeka ukuba yisweshe. Abantu abanekrelekrele, bafuduselwe ngotywala, bebonke, bephela bodwa, kwaye banobubi - banelisekile yi-balagan.
Ndicinga ukuba ixesha lifikile ukwenza iseti engavumelekanga ngomnye wabantwana. Awu, besingafundanga ngokuzolileyo, singacacanga kwaye sithethe kakuhle nabantu abangaqhelekanga malunga nabantwana nabo bonke abanxulumene nabo. Kungekuphela nje kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, kodwa kubomi bokwenyani.
Kwaye nokuba sikwazi ukugcina ubuso obucwangcisiweyo, sisakroba kwezi ngxoxo entlokweni yam, iza neempendulo ezintle kwaye malunga nawe ngamanqindi. Ndizifumene kumhla wokuzalwa komhlobo, owagqiba kwelokuba abhiyoze Kwivenkile yokutyela ebalulekileyo kwaye ngaphandle kwabantwana. Oku ngokubanzi ngaphandle. Kuba intombi, amakhwenkwe-molo-imozulu, ephupha nje ngokungcangcazela usuku oludala emva kweminyaka emithathu ubudala "kwindlu yezindlu ezininzi" eluntwini abaphosakeleyo kwisuphu kwaye bengadlali iimoto zokutya.
Umnyhadala othenjiswe ukuba ubelula njengonga intwasahlobo. Iholo yeholide yayihonjiswe ngothando ngeenyibiba. Iiglasi ezidume kakhulu. Kwisitya esihle kakhulu se-salmoni.
Amantombazana abonakala enomtsalane kwaye ufown, uqengqele, rusting ngesipho kunye ne-boqueets, wakhwaza "usuku lokuzalwa olumnandi!" Kwaye hugsty hugged. I-champagne, ukuhleka, i-humus, itamatisi eyomileyo. Umgibe wokudlala malunga ne-milanerde. - Kwaye inyathelo lam laya kwiklasi yokuqala! -Ukuxela ngekratshi kwingubo ye-pea. Intombazana yentombazana ixinekile. Emva kwengxoxo yeyure yesenzo "Abantwana ngaphandle kweentyatyambo", nto leyo eyahlulahlulahlulahlula iinkampu ezimbini ezihlangeneyo, le ndodathandazela: "amantombazana, masingathethi malunga nabantwana!".
Kodwa umatshini we-Housing sele usungulwe kwaye waqengqeleka amatye okubukrofaza, apho ubuhlobo bomfazi kufuneka bunxibelelwane ngobusuku bonke, kunye nokukhanya kokufudumeza, kunye nophahla lwe-moscow ngophahla lweMoscow.
"Ucinga," Gorokhovavaya "azange zenzeke. -Klasi kunye ne-steppe ifunda i-creeppy hooligan! Bamba, i-spit, ibaleka ijikeleze iklasi. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba abantwana abanjalo kufuneka bodwa eluntwini. Sele ndiyibhalele umama wakhe kwincoko, ngoko ke wandithumela kwidilesi eyaziwayo. "Ndingakuthumelela kwindawo yalo mama," intombi yam yenkululeko yayime umama ongaziwayo. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye kuya kushenxiswa kwingxoxo ye-spittsky. - Sigqibe kwelokuba asizukuthetha ngabantwana, - ndatsho ngokungqongqo .- Ukuba, mantombazana, ayilongeli inomdla wokuthetha malunga nabantwana bethu, kutheni bezale Kodwa, umhlobo womhlobo wakhe wavela kwezona zintle ze-fivarbs ehlekisayo. Amantombazana angcwatywa. Kwindlela yokuthumelela icinezeli, i-cutlery ayinabuhlobo. "I-Pea" nentombi, idle ethe cwaka.
Ndazijonga ndacinga: "Ayiyonto ingaqhelekanga. Omnye ukhawulelwe kumagumbi okuxoxa wabazali, enye ilula ngumfazi ongcwele. Kwaye amabhulukhwe yabamba kakubi. "
Emva kwebhotile ye-champagne, amanenekazi ayonwabisa, kwaye incoko ingene kwibhedi ekhuselekileyo: Iifilimu ezixoxiweyo, iifilimu, umsebenzi, amadoda, amadoda. Kwaye emva kwesosibini, bakhumbula, bacela uxolo ngobulumko kwaye bagqiba kwelokuba bafihlekile kuhlaselo lweMoscow kwaye bengathethi kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba bahleli entlokweni yakho imini yonke. Kwavela ukuba "ipea" inobukrelekrele kakhulu kwaye iyayazi indlela yokugcina i-oven ekukhohlisweni okungathethekiyo ngeklabishi. Kwaye "umfazi ongcwele" walungelelanisa isiseko soncedo sabantu abadala kwaye siqhubela phambili amakhaya abongikazi-sicula iingcongconi. Wayeculele naye. Phantsi kwegitare.
Ndaba neentloni ukuba le yindlela, ngenxa yebinzana elinye labhatala ngaphandle kwabangaphandle.
Kwaye ukwazi kwethu okuqhelekileyo, ongekafiki inzala, bekuvuyelwe ukuba, kamsinya nje ukuba inkampani, ivele kwi-probe yomnye umntu, uziva unomnqweno wokuhamba ngepati ...
Vuma Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba kwimicimbi yemfundo yabantwana ngamnye umama anoluvo lwayo . Kuba ngumntwana wakhe, usapho lwayo, ubomi bakhe. Yenza okanye ungabi nakukwenza ugonyo, nokuba unxibe i-sling ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu okanye uye kwigadi ukuya kwisiqingatha, esondla i-purde ye-purde ye-purdene ukusuka kwi-broccoli okanye i-hamburger- olukhetho lwayo noxanduva lwayo.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokuchanekileyo kwicandelo lokuya kubeleka ukuba nayiphi na imbono ephosakeleyo kwiimbono rhoqo kunokuba ndingathanda, kubangela ukungathandeki kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo kumntu ocinga kwaye wenza ngokwahlukileyo.
Kodwa khawufane ucinge ukuba, umzekelo, thanda ikofu, kwaye intombazana eyayikwisitulo esilandelayo kwindiza - iti. Ayizukucekisa kuphela kuba kuya kubakho ibhegi yeti ngamanzi abilayo. Kodwa umfazi okwenza ukuba ubulele umntwana ngogonyo kunye nesosi - ngokuqinisekileyo.
I -maule nje mama ayisiyo kuphela amava anemvakalelo kubomi bomfazi. Kukwangamava obuqu kakhulu, okusekwe kubuntwana obusebabuntwana, kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kosapho, kunye nomnqweno wokufumana ukonwaba kule ndima intsha kubo.
Yongeza apha ukuhlaselwa kolwazi kwiincwadi zengqondo yabantwana, izixhobo zabazali, intengiso kunye namabhunga oogxa babo kwiinkundla - kwaye zonke izinto zamkelwa, i-neurosis.
ke ngoko Masingayichukumisi esi sihloko de sifunde ukuphatha isikhundla somnye umntu. Kwaye ungayeki ileli ukuba inyanzelise eyakho. Kwaye kumbuzo othi, "Hayi indlela agqiba ngayo i-Deub" ukuphendula ngokuthe ngqo: "Enkosi, ulungile." Kwaye akukho mazwi. Kwizithethe ezizona zibalaseleyo zoluntu lwasehlabathini.
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