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Enye yesoyikiso esisigxina yabazali lulwaphulo-mthetho ngokwesondo nxamnye nabantwana. Ungaqonda njani ukuba umntwana udibene okanye unokuba ne-monster?

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Akunakwenzeka ukukhusela i-100% ukukhusela, kodwa kufanelekile ukuqwalasela ezi nyaniso zilandelayo.

Umdlwenguli okanye ukuphazamiseka phantse- kwindawo esondeleyo

Kukho iimeko apho abadlwenguli (amalahle e-maniacs, i-serial mansiacs, ishumi elivisayo, njalo njalo) ihlasekile ezitratweni okanye ekungeneni kwezindlu, isetyenzisiwe ngengozi ukuba ibe yedwa.

Nangona kunjalo, kangangokuba umntwana uba lixhoba lesizalwane, umhlobo wosapho, ummelwane okanye ngutitshala. Ukongeza, ukuba umntu ungena kwisangqa sonxibelelwano somntwana, uya kuzama ukubonakala ethembekile kwaye enomtsalane. Ukusuka nje umntu oqhelekileyo onokuthenjwa kwaye onomtsalane ukwahlula.

Ke ngoko, kufanelekile ukubalazela inyani yokuba umntwana uxinekile ngenkangeleko yesihlobo okanye umhlobo, uyathintela unxibelelwano naye, kwaye ubonakalisa uphawu lwabantwana abanamaxhoba okuhlukumeza okanye ukudlwengula, umzekelo, ubusuku, ubusuku, bubusuku I-enchelis okanye intabalala ye-chics kunye nemidlalo yaseburhulumenteni.

Ootata abababetha abafazi babo, amaxesha amane ukuya kwathandathu ukuya phambili rhoqo baqhelisela phambili

Esona sizathu sokuba kuyingozi ukuhlala nezandla, ukunyibilika-umngcipheko ondikhulayo wobundlobongela okanye izityalo ezichasene nabantwana.

Ootata-abadlwengulo kubantu bamanye amazwe banokuba krwada okanye bathande, akunandaba. Ebo kunye nabanye bamanyanisa isimo sengqondo kumfazi nabantwana bakhe njengento eyenzelwe yona, kunye notyekelo lokugxeka umntu obathandayo.

Oomama-Unogonyamelo badibana kangako, kodwa bafana nokuba nomsindo, banoburharha, isimo sengqondo somntwana njengepropathi.

Ukusuka kwi-Erivesments kwinxalenye yabazali bezinye izini zenyama zibandezeleka ngakumbi kunamakhwenkwe.

Umzingeli wabantwana kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo uya kwaziswa ngumntwana okwishumi elivisayo

I-perters idlala kuqala kumnqweno wokuthathwa kwabantwana abangathandekiyo ukufumana, ekugqibeleni, umhlobo onjalo, njengakwiimovie, emva koko uloyiko isohlwayo.

Bamele abantwana, njengomgaqo, isini esifanayo kunye nobudala, nxibelelana kuqala "ukuze bafumane umdla", thumela incoko, guqula incoko, gxotha iimfihlakalo ezahlukileyo (iigaraji esikolweni, ukutshaya iigaraji) .

Ke iimfihlakalo ze-blackmail ukuba zenze ukuthumela iifoto ze-niked, kwaye zinokwabelana ngethuba lokufumana i-Skype (njengommiselo, kuba i-ruber incinci, kuba i-ruble ye-reatine inokuba sisityebi), idlulise ze. Ividiyo evela kwi-Skype iphinde isetyenziselwe i-blackmail, kwaye umntwana uyancipha ukuqinisekisa ukuba yaqala ukubonelela ngeenkonzo ezisondeleyo kubomi bokwenyani.

Ngokubanzi, iinkcukacha zenkqubo zingahluka, kodwa iifoto ze-bladmail kunye nezempilo ziya kuhlala zithatha inxaxheba kuyo.

Uthintelo olufanelekileyo yincoko yabantwana malunga nokhuseleko lwenethiwekhi. Akunakwenzeka ukwaphula ulwazi lomntu, ukusukela kwidilesi yokuphila, kwaye uthumele iifoto zakho ze-niked, nokuba uthelekise indlela ophulukana ngayo okanye ovuthiweyo.

Nje ukuba umntu aqale ukukrasela ngemfihlakalo ngemfihlakalo, yonke into iqengqeleka kwixhoba elibi ngakumbi eliza kukhawuleza kunesohlwayo sikanina ngenxa yecuba lakhe. Umntwana ngamnye kufuneka azi le nto ngokuqinileyo.

Ulutsha oluhlaziya i-porn

Uphononongo lwe-waves lolona phulo lokufikisa kwi-UK lubonisa ukuba umnqweno wokuxelisa i-Porn-i-Cusn Custentscents (rhoqo amantombazana), abahlaseli kwabantwana abancinci kunabo. Ingozi ekhethekileyo yolwaphulo-mthetho kukuba, ukuqonda okuncinci kwesini esijongeka ngesondo okwenzeka ngokwesini, abantu abakwishumi elivisayo benza ixhoba, masithi, amaqhinga ahlukileyo.

Ixhoba leshumi elivisayo linokuba ngumntwana ngalo naliphi na inkanuko, yanele ukuba ibonakale ngathi ayinaziphako phambi kwakhe.

Ngabazali abakwishumi elivisayo kufuneka banikele ingqalelo ekuthinteleni ezolwaphulo-mthetho, benika abantwana babo ukuba baqonde ukuba iphonografi sisikhokelo esibi sesondo, ukuphinda-phinda ijoyine kuyingozi nje, kunye nenxalenye eyimfuneko yesondo Unxibelelwano.

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