Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zigcwele i-stroculor premmididetors presidetors ngathi "ungaseli! Ungatshayi! Ungumama ozayo! " kwaye i-di-gravels yeebhokisi zabasetyhini. Kodwa ukuba ngendlela elungileyo, eyona nto iphambili kwimifanekiso enjalo kufuneka ibe ngamadoda.
Kwaye kukho unobangela wesithandathu.
#Nye
Ikamva lezempilo lomntwana lingama-80% lixhomekeke kumgangatho we-samberge katata kwaye ingama-20% kuphela evela kwiqanda. Akwanelanga ukuba utywala bubonisa isidoda ngqo xa sisetyenziswa, ngokuhamba kwexesha, "ukuchitha ixesha," indlela yokuphila engaphakathi yendoda), kunye nomoya onesiphene kwinxalenye nganye yesidoda ngakumbi kunye nokuninzi. Kungenxa yoko le nto, umzekelo, ukubakho kokuqonda komntwana nge-Autism engaphezulu kotata okhulileyo. Ewe, amakhwenkwe, impilo yomntwana edlulileyo ixhomekeke kwindlela yakho yokuphila.# 2.
Ngelixa i-intanethi izele ziikowuthi, ukuba i-bade yobudala mfutshane, kwaye indoda eneminyaka, njenge wayini, ingcono kuphela, sibona ntoni ezitratweni? Abantu abaneminyaka engama-20 ubudala ngentlonelo nge-tummy, i-30 eqandukayo eqaqambileyo, edadayo kwizambatho ezihlekisayo, kwaye ngawaphi onke la magorha ebhedini - ukutshicela kwaye kudideke. Indoda yaseRussia iyothusa kwangoko, umaleko wokuhamba-hamba ngokuhamba kakuhle kwaye igxininisa kuphela umfanekiso opheleleyo. I-Beer Bursicismzy, uphephe imfundo yomzimba kunye nokutya okunempilo, ukuphefumla komphefumlo-kunye ne-voila, sinayo. Kwaye oku kukwilizwe labasetyhini abamangalisayo.
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Utata unxila-intaba entsatsheni, eboniswe kumanani eenkcukacha-manani zokubetha nokubulala abafazi nabantwana. Akukho nto siyithethayo, abagcini bohlanga kunye nabagcini bosapho bafunyanwa kubafana, sele beneminyaka engama-25 ubudala befumana umkhwa wokuchitha impelaveki. Oku akubalwanga indlela ukonakaliswa kohlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho ukuba uthenge utywala kunye nomonakalo kwizakhi ezinxilisayo zezinto ekhaya. U-Drunkad Tay-i-anti-prolighter!#four
Amadoda ayafa kakhulu phambi kwabasetyhini. Ngenxa yokuba? Utywala buxhaphakile kunye nemiphumo yobomi obungenampilo. Abafazi bahlukile kakhulu, kufuneka ubasindise. Ewe, apha, ayicacanga ngokupheleleyo ukuba leliphi ilizwe enamadoda amadala amaninzi-ootatomkhulu ubuncinci kwaye bakhulisa ukusinda kwesinye isizwe, oko kukuthi, banegalelo ekusindisweni kwesizwe. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu ngokwabo bafanele banomdla wokuphila ixesha elide, hayi?
#Ntlanu
Ikhoboka lokusela likhokelela ekungabi nakubi. Kungekudala ndaqala, zonke phambi kwayo yonke into.# 6.
Ngendlela, malunga nezesondo. Abasasazi abaphambili be-HIV kunye nolunye ubumnandi ngaphandle kwendawo eneziyobisi kunye nehenyukazi ngamadoda. Kwaye, oko kubonakaliswa ngabafazi kuphela kunye nabantwana abazayo, kodwa bona ngokwabo bayakhunjulwa. Zibethe, amakhwenkwe. Musani ukuthoba.
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