I-11 amabali okwenyani malunga nendlela abantwana abasithanda ngayo ukumangalisa

Incasa kunye nombala wobunzima babantwana njengabamakishi bahlukile. Akukho namnye owaziyo kunokuba umzali omnye okanye omnye umzuzu wokufundisa uzakujika. Kodwa iibhayisika ziyazalwa zikushiyayo, ziyasindisa.

Andikwazanga ukufumana intombi yam ukuba ndinike i-gamma ukuya ePiano edlalwe ngaphandle koh, kwaye incwina. Kodwa xa ndaya kwintlanganiso yabazali ndizinikele kwimiphumo ye-trimester, yafunda i-Amperi Matshi esuka "kwimfazwe yenkanyezi" (enye idlala phantsi kwakuqala ukuva umbundu we-nursery . Cwangcisa ibhotwe emva koko, ulwimi aluzange lujike.

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UNyana wabuya ekuhambeni kwakhe wonke umanzi kwaye emdaka, ngokungathi kuko konke puddle wayecula. Ukudityaniswa kwaye kwagqiba kwelokuba esi sisizathu esihle sokufundisa ukusebenzisa umatshini wokuhlamba.

Emva kwexesha ndabizelwa esikolweni ukuze ndivuze. UNyana wanikwa iDiploma yosindiso lokutsala. Ukuhamba ngaphandle kwesidingo kunye nodadewabo omncinci echibini, wabaleka watsiba ngexesha lokulala, intombazana yatyibilika yathengwa emanzini. Umninawa wakhe ungene oku kuzisa, kodwa wayengazi ukuba ukuqubha. Unyana kaLög kwiSodtop Sis kwaye wakhupha emva koko, kwaye le ntombazana ayizange ibhabhe, kodwa yaya kwaoko ezantsi - kulungile, ukuphefumla kwavalelwa.

Uneminyaka esibhozo ubudala. Khange ndilinde nantoni na engakumbi, kunokuyihlutha ikiti ukusuka esitratweni.

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Intombazana eneminyaka elithoba ubudala ihamba ekhaya, ngaphandle kwesitshixo. Ngokoqobo ngeyure. Ibuyisiwe, kwaye ibhegi enenkunkuma ayikho ekhitshini. Ngaba ngokwenene kukuphosa ngaphandle kwefestile? Hayi, ivule inqaba yenqaba (!), Njengakwimovie (!), Ndaze ndenza, kuba "ndinuka into", kwaye ngaphakathi komnyango nje.

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Ndihambile kumama ogulayo ngempelaveki. Ibuyisiwe, kwaye intombi inephepha le-progodi ye-progodi egumbini lokulala. Uye wathi wajonga kwi-Intanethi, njenga. Iminyaka elishumi elinambini ubudala.

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Emva kwentombazana yamazinyo, wathi: "Wowu, bendicinga ukuba ndiza kufa!" Kwavela, i-anesthesia ayizange ichaphazele ngokwenene. Kwaye bendingafuni ukuthetha noGqirha. Iminyaka esibhozo.

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Kwaphuma ke ukuba angavuki xa umntwana wayetyunyuzwe kwaye walila. Ukuvuka, wafumanisa ukuba kwigumbi lokuhlambela elihamba nge-lellows, umntwana watyiswa entsha. Umzalwana wakhe oneminyaka emithandathu akazange atshintshe ipelleri, kodwa nentombazana iwile intombazana. Kuba akunamsebenzi, andikaze ndincedile nomntwana kwaye andikhange ndibe nomdla kudadewethu, ndilungile, mhlawumbi ndilele embongo. "

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Kwisitrato, amantombazana amabini azamile ukubuza isiNgesi ngesiNgesi. Intombi yam yasondela yaza yachaza into, bamqonda! Uneminyaka elishumi ubudala!

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Imali iphelile kwiholide, intombi efikisayo iviwe kwaye yaya nje yafumana nomkhuthazi. Iiyure ezintathu ngosuku ezisasazwa ngamaphetshana, intlawulo ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye. Ubambe nje olu suku lokutya.

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Ndikhathazekile ukuba unyana wam khange uthethe nantoni na engaphelelanga iminyaka emithathu kuphela, kuphela imimangaliso nemiqondiso. Kwaye ehlotyeni watyhalela ipleyiti ngesobho kwaye wathi: "Uluhlu lwetafile, ityiwa eninzi." Njengakwi-anecdote malunga ne-finn yoMzantsi finn: "Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba kungabikho sizathu."

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Ndinike intombi yam ukuba idle kwi-cafe, kuba andiyithandi kwigumbi lokutyela lesikolo. Ngokwenyani ngenye imini ndafunda ukuba akahambi e-cafe, kodwa uthenga iimveliso kunye nezindlu kwi-microwave ilungiselela izitya ezahlukeneyo, kwanemifake yenkukhu ibhaka ngayo yonke indlela. Ziyimfama eklasini ngenxa ye-ription "ikhitshi". Uneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala. Andiyi kucingisisa kangangeminyaka esixhenxe endaweni ye-pizza kwi-cafe ukhethe ukulungiselela i-stew okanye ikomityi.

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Intloko yayindibambe esikolweni ndenza intetho ebhetele ukulandela intombi eneminyaka elishumi ubudala emva koko. Wasasaza abafundi bonyulo bathembisa ukuba, ukuba uba ngumphathi we-Russian Federation.