Ukuphila ngamandla ee-stereotypes, ucalucalulo kunye nocalucalulo-ubuncinci unganemi. Ilizwe lanamhlanje liyahluka kwaye lingalindelekanga kangangokuba alinakwenzeka ukuba liyilinganisele kwiiparamitha ezingqongqo - umsebenzi kaNobel ungcwele kwaye jikelele.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha phakathi kweetemprete ezimiselwe kuthi, ngakumbi ubomi esasigqiba kwelokuba sithathele ingqalelo kube kanye, njengoko kufanele ukuba ungeniswe okokugqibela. Siqokelele 8, kwaye sizihlazo kakhulu, kakhulu!
Umamakazi ngumthetho
Ewe, ndilinde kuphela umzuzu wokukrola kwiglasi yakho ye-borcht, enzonzobilayo yokuphalaza i-inki kwaye isungule iintente kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwentsapho! Kwaye njani unyana kanjani ukuba mhle kangaka, yintoni kanye kanye ofuna ukuyichitha yonke imihla ?! Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ujonge imeko ngenye indlela? Ngalo lonke ixesha, umkhwekazi ungumfazi omnandi (Vuma, hayi ngaphandle kwezinto ezingathandekiyo) onokuhlala ufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba unayo ikopi enqabileyo kunye nomlinganiswa we-premourznaya, hlamba ityhefu emhlophe kunye nebhinqa elinobomi obuqinileyo, ke vuyisa ukuba awutshatanga kuye, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka, zenze inani labafowunelwa kwi-zero. I-ruby ruby kwingcambu - awunyanzelekanga ukuba unyamezele nokusilela kwabantu!
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, abafazi bajonga inkani, kuba bengabathobeli
Ngokwemvelo: Eyona nto iphambili iyazaliseka, kwaye ngoku ungatya emva kwe-6, thatha ishawa kube kanye ngeveki, ukulibala malunga nephupha elibi kunye nokulwa kuphela kwiholide enkulu. Kwaye yonke le nto ayiveliyo ngenxa yokuba ukhahliwe kancinci umntwana othandekayo, ethi iinyanga ezimbalwa zifuna ingqalelo yakho engathandekiyo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba zizidenge, sizithembile! Ngendlela, ngokuqaphela, ukuba umfazi ufuna ukukhangela njengombingelelo we-heroine yomama, akasayi kumsindisa nakwiwotshi kwindawo yokuhlala. Ukuba akukho, ke, ngokutsho kwe-moms enamava, ulawulo lwexesha lobuchule kunye noncedo lokuthunga lwabantu obathandayo luya kwenziwa ngalo naluphi na usosikizi kubantwana kunye nenkosazana!
Kule mihla bekungekho xesha linje!
Ewe, ewe, ngaphambili kunye nemithi yayiphakame, kwaye ingca iluhlaza, kwaye ilanga liqaqambile. Kwaye iithoyi zethu zazipholile, kwaye iikhathuni zeSoviet zezona zipholileyo, hayi ngoku! Sihambe kuphela ebaleni emoyeni esitsha, sidlale imidlalo entle entle, khange iphunga i-valeng yomntwana wethu ihlekisa! Kwaye safunda ngesondo konke konke kwiividiyo ezibiwe kubazali kwibanga lesihlanu leekhilomitha zevidiyo, kodwa zivela kwi-encyclopedia ethandwayo, eziboniswe ngugogo kubudala obudala! I-stereotypes efanayo (kwaye ukuba ubiza izinto ngamagama akho-ukufaneleka kwesigqubuthelo) kubonakaliswa ngabantu abalupheleyo, kodwa kubonakala ngathi ufikile amahlanu? Sinethemba lokuba le nyaniso iyisiphumo kuphela sisiphumo se-PMS (oh, i-stereotype!), I-terreotype!), I-quaraotype! Ngaba akunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo malunga nekhulu.
Amakhwenkwe akalili
Kwaye inkosana ngokucacileyo ayiyokhe. Kutheni amakhwenkwe engakwazi ukulila, phantse akukho mntu unokuchaza ngokucacileyo, kodwa ukuba uyayiqonda ngokucacileyo, kuya kuba nazintloni ukuchaza iimvakalelo zabo nokuba i-santa claus ayikho - hayi kumanqaku). Okubangela umdla kukuba, kutheni simangalisiwe kukuba ezi zinto zineSukara endaweni yomphefumlo ayiyiqondi intlangano yengqondo yethu yengqondo? Amadoda anokukhala kangangoko afumanayo! Ukuziimvakalelo-akunantloni, ndineentloni zokukholelwa kwi-stereotypes yobudenge!
Kuphela amaxhama amnandi
Zonke ii-redheads zingamagqwirha, kwaye ngeli xesha lempumlo yefashoni ngeparridge. Kukho imiboniso nxamnye nokumiselwa kwemigangatho yobuhle obungenampilo, iinkampani ze-cosmetic zihlawula i-culls ezinkulu zokusebenzisa i-Photoshop, i-Pecychological ye-Trillies, i-Pschologists ye-Trillion ye-Trillion ye-Trillion yendlela yokwamkela ngokwakho kwaye wonwabe Kwaye mhle, kwaye usacinga ukuba ubuhle bakho buxhomekeke kwezinye iikhilogrem ze-thabatha? Uphi kule minyaka mihlanu idlulileyo?
Iqela labasetyhini sisihogo
Enye intombazana yangena kwiqela labasetyhini kwaye ayibuyi. Wothuke! Ifoto! I-Galina Petrovna kwingubo entsha yoboya. Intrigi! Uphando! Nokuba kuya kufuneka usebenze kwinkampani yabantu abaneminyaka emithathu, inqaba yentaba okanye uMartian, - yintoni umahluko, ukuba uyawuthanda umsebenzi wakho? Abantu abangafaneleki banele yonke indawo kwaye ityala lobuntu basesini njengesisiyatha njengokujonga kakhulu ukuba iQela leBhola lezeNqaku leHlabathi laseRussia liya kuba yintshatsheli yehlabathi kwi-10 elandelayo inamadoda athile apho. Ngendlela, iOfisi yoHlelo lePics liqela lababhinqili elidumileyo, kwaye, sisekuthi, sibe nothando lothando, ukuqonda, i-jazz namabingele aqinisekileyo, ngokunyaniseka.
Oku akuyi kwenzeka kum!
Akukho nto ikhoyo yokukholisa njengommelwane. Kwaye eyona nto imnandi kakhulu kukuba uzixelele: "Kungenxa yokuba unuka / osisidenge / engaphumelelanga / idiot, kodwa andiyi kwenzeka kum omnye, nam." Sikhawuleze ukuphoxekile-nantoni na enokwenzeka, nabani na, xa uthanda nanjengoko uthanda. Akukho mntu uya kuze aninike isatifikethi esinamatywina alishumi oya kuba ulungile nani okanye izithandwa zakho. Ngokwemvelo, ukuqonda kunye nengqondo eqhelekileyo kunciphisa ingozi - akumangalisi ukuba umama wakho athi "ungahambi emva kwexesha!", "Notshatini kubantwana ayizikufanelekile!", Kodwa Ubomi yinto enjalo ofuna ukuyilungisa kuyo yonke into. Kwindudumo ekuqaleni kwasekuqaleni, ikhephu lekhephu ngoJuni kunye nokuphela kwehlabathi ngoku.
Ayinikenga, kunye nempompo
Umnqweno wethu wokungena kobomi bomnye umntu kwaye ngokucokisekileyo apho, ngamanye amaxesha uphume zonke iintlobo zeziqwenga ze-upragi. Okokuqala, nokuba kukho i-blonde enomtsalane uqhuba imoto enkulu etyibilikayo. I-Subbies nge-Zombies-abantu baseMelika kunye nosulelo olunye kwaye ke I-Tacchus (iintombi zakhe ze-zombies kunye ne-lawn mower nayo) nayo). Kwaye okwesibini, kuthathwa ukuba lo mfazi akakwazi kufumana imali emotweni, ingubo yoboya, iidayimani kunye nezinye iimpawu ze "schisma yelifayili", ifanele ibe neentloni kakhulu, ngakumbi ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane yama-21, xa Iinqanawa zendawo zimngxuma ukuphakama kwendalo, kwaye i-stereotypes efanayo ibangalunganga.
