Apha, phantsi kweli nqaku, uPavel Zygmantovich, ngekhe satyikitywa ... ukuba kukho izibetho. Kwaye ke qaphela nawe. Nantsi iNgcwele iyinyaniso.
Iingxaki ezininzi kubomi babantu zenzeka entloko. Iingcamango ezingaqhelekanga zihlala entlokweni, xa zisebenzisa abantu, ziphila ubomi. Iingcamango ezinjalo kufuneka ziqhagamshelwe entloko kuzo zonke iindlela ezinokwenzeka, ngaphandle, ukuphepha.
Umzekelo, amanye amadoda entloko ahlala umbono onomdla - ukuba umfazi uhlala nabantwana ekhaya, emva koko iphumle iwotshi kwaye iphumle.
Ngale ndoda ilindele ukuba umfazi adibane naye emsebenzini owonwabileyo kwaye angaphumi, intsha, ihlekisa, kwenye indawo nokuba ndidinwe kukuphumla. Dibana, kucacile, isidlo sangokuhlwa esifanelekileyo kunye nokushiywa kwemilenze, kwisiko lamandulo lesiGrike. Kulungile, ndikhuphe imilenze yam, kodwa kwezinye-hayi.
Kwaye umntu unokuqonda kwenye indawo. Wawela emsebenzini, uninzi lwemali evela kweli Groove ungenza ngokwakho, kodwa umfazi wayo nabantwana bakhe, kwaye uyakholelwa ukuba uPits kwinkosikazi yakhe. Apha, ucaphula: "Kunzima kangakanani kuye, okanye yintoni? Ndifike ekhaya - ndicela, njengoko kufanele! "
Kwaye ekubeni lo mfazi akakwenzi nanye kwezi zinto zingasentla, indoda ekrakra kunye nokudideka. Indlela yokuphuma enokuba lula kakhulu ukujongana nayo: "Akandithandi, akandixabisi, akukho thando kule ndlu!" Ewe, ke-inkosikazi, uqhawulo-mtshato, ubunzima ekungakheni abantwana njalo njalo, njalo njalo.
Konke oku kunokuphepheka ukuba ujonge emhlabeni nge-sorberly (okanye, ngendlela eyahlukileyo, faka isithintelo sengqondo).
Imbono ephathekayo iya kusibonisa amaxesha abalulekileyo. Ngokwabizwa ngokuba sisihlalo kulo mmiselo luvavanyo olunzima, lunzima ngakumbi kunokusebenza.
Oko kukuthi, ubuncinci izizathu ezine:
1. Awulawuli kwanto. Ukonwaba, umntu ubaluleke kakhulu ukulawula ubomi bakhe. Ukulawulwa kobomi babo (ukugxininisa kuye okuchaphazela ngqo impilo, ulonwabo kunye nobomi bokuphumelela komntu. Yintoni ulawulo? Oku kukwamkelwa kwezigqibo zakho kwaye uzilandele.
Ibhinqa elihleli kwikhefu lokwamama kukukhetha kakubi kwamathuba okwenza izigqibo aze abalandele. Ke wacinga ngesidlo sasemini, ngelixa umntwana elele, yenza imithambo kumaphephandaba. Nomntwana wamaxesha ama-R-Times, akalalanga. Kubonakala ngathi uhambe, kwaye utye - kwaye umntwana akalali, ngokwakhe uye wonwabile.
Okanye, "ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibize umhlobo, ngelixa umntwana esenza amatye. Yaqala kuphela incoko, njengalapha - fuck! Bika! Into eyaphukileyo, umntwana ngokulila, kufuneka usindisa.
Oku kubomi bomfazi okwisigqibo kuninzi ngakumbi kunendoda emsebenzini, kwaye oku kuyidiniwe.
2. Awunampembelelo. Emsebenzini-isivumelwano, sibanjiwe ngolwaphulo-mthetho, indlela ejijekileyo, indlela yokuhamba, nasekhaya- akukho nto. Eli bhinqa lahlamba izitya - emva kwesiqingatha seyure, intaba yayiqokelelekile ekuhlambelweni kwemoto. Umgangatho we-prothella-kwakhona abantwana baphalaza iplastiki kunye neflethi. Ayikho iziphumo.
Ngapha koko, ibhinqa lingabi nako oko linokuyizisa lo mbandela. Ndifumene indeberwerwer eorokini, andinalo ixesha lokubola-kufuneka utshintshe i-diaper. Nditshintshe- andinalo ixesha lokubuyela eLingerie, kuba umntwana ubuze apho. Ugxile- umntwana ucela ukuba adlale, ungala njani? Ekugqibeleni, uLingerie ulele kwi-pelvis, idris, njengoko enako.
Kwaye xa kungekho siphumo, akukho "uqinisekiso lokuqiniswa kweDopamine" lenzeki. Ngamafutshane, umzimba awufumani urhoxiso lomsebenzi wabo, kwaye inkqubo yakhe ayithandayo ayiyenzi. Yintoni, ukuba, inciphise inkuthazo kwiimeko ezinjalo. Kodwa kuyanyanzeleka ukuba yenze njalo, nokuba yeyiphi na inkuthazo. Oku kucinezela kwaye kunokuba negalelo ngokulula koxinzelelo lwendalo.
3. Emsebenzini-umbulelo, nasekhaya- akukho nto . Ewe, xa abantwana bengaphezulu okanye abangaphantsi kwabantu abadala kwaye banokuqikelela ukuba umama kufuneka abulele. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo? Umbulelo umntu ngumntu obalulekileyo wokuqiniswa (kubandakanya neDompamine ekhankanywe apha ngasentla). Akukho usindi-akukho kukhuthaza ukwenza into ngakumbi.
Ingakumbi ukuba umyeni akaqaphe ukuba umfazi okwintswelo makama-mama makabe nombulelo kathathu kunesiqhelo. Oku kongeza iimeko zokuvela koxinzelelo.
4. Ixesha lokusebenza-ngaphezulu kweeyure ezilishumi elinambini. Ummiselo kungenxa yokuba kungekuphela nje kubantwana badlala kunye no-Aunt. Yindlu yekotoni - ukupheka, apho, ukucoca, ukuhlamba. Ngaphandle koko, ikwasebusuku ukuba avuke, kuba umyeni uthe ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ulale (kwaye oku ngenye indlela, nangona kunjalo). Ke ngoko, kuyavela ukuba usuku lomfazi osebenzayo kummiselo lude kakhulu kunelo ndoda. Yintoni, njengoko ndibonayo, ngokungalunganga.
5. Ukunciphisa unxibelelwano nenkxaso. Ibhinqa kummiselo lunxibelelanisa kancinci. Kubonakala ngathi uneenqanaba olubanzi lonxibelelwano-imibingelelo enye kwindawo yokudlala. Ngapha koko, imeko ayisiyonto ingaqinisekanga. Ibhinqa, lisiya kwikhefu lokuya kubeleka, liwela kwisangqa esiqhelekileyo sonxibelelwano kwaye, okokuqala, okwethutyana ukuguqulela le meko, kwaye, okwesibini, ayinakufana ngokunzulu, njengento ngaphambili. Ukanti, ababhinqileyo kule ndawo abayi kuhlala bevumelana ukuba bancokole nge-Frank kwimiphefumlo.
Ke kuyavela-unxibelelwano, kubonakala lukhulu, kodwa umgangatho walo lunokuba yi-chrome xa kuthelekiswa nento eyayikho (mhlawumbi, kunjalo, kuyenzeka).
Wenza ntoni umntu ngayo yonke le nto? Ewe, zikho iindlela onokukhetha kuzo.
1. Ukwazi ukuba umthetho uluvavanyo olunzima. Sele inyani yolu lwazi inceda ukubaphatha ngokwaneleyo bonke ubunzima kunye nobunzima beli xesha.
2. Ukuqhubela phambili ngobomi bomfazi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ewe, indoda emva komsebenzi ndifuna ukuphumla, ke, umfazi lowo ufuna ukuphumla. Kuya kuba ulungile ukuba omabini umsebenzi uya kuba ixesha elide apho wonke umntu esenza khona kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Lo ngumzali, baby, apha - ngolu hlobo.
3. Khumbula ukuba inkosikazi idinga enkosi kunye nenkxaso, kwaye inike yonke le nto kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
4. Ukunika rhoqo umfazi "ukugxothwa" ukuze kuhlangatyezwane nabahlobo okanye ndihambe nje epakini (ukuhamba nje, ngendlela, ayisiyiyo eyona ndlela imbi kakhulu yokunyusa indawo yolawulo ebomini bakho - kwi Ubuncinci bokuhamba, okungenani iveki, kodwa ulawulo!).
5. (kuba abasetyhini) banike umyeni wakhe ukuba afunde le nqaku. Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo, andizukuvuma, kodwa ke, xa yonke into ibalwa, iya kuza kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Kwaye ndinayo yonke into, enkosi ngengqwalaselo yakho.