Umzekelo waseMelika uqinisekisile ukuba, umzekelo, ukrokrela. Ukufakelwa kwabazali "Ukwilizwe layo yonke imayile" ayisiyo isempilweni ehlabathini kwaye isongela ingxaki yokuphelisa i-chade yakho exabisekileyo.
Ngokutsho kolo phando, iziphumo zalo zapapashwa kwijenali esemthethweni yeSayensi yeSizwe yeSayensi, abantwana abatalente kunye neempawu bangaphindi baneminyaka eyi-7 ukuya kweli-11, kamva bafumana amanqaku amaninzi kumhlaba we-narcissim. Ngamanye amagama, ikhule inkukhumeni efanayo, iqinisekile ukuba yonke into inokwenziwa kwaye yonke into kufuneka . Umqeqeshi onelayisensi yosapho uSarah unika imigaqo eyi-7 eya kuthi incede abazali ukuba bazise imvakalelo esempilweni emntwaneni, ngelixa bengayiguquli ibe yidropot encinci.Thanda abantwana njengoko benjalo, ngazo zonke iintsilelo zabo
I-pelility yabantu-i-narcissus kukuba emphefumlweni baziva bencinci kwaye belusizi, kwaye babonakala ngathi bafuna kakhulu kwaye bangamakhulu. Le meko inokulumkiswa ukuba uyabazi abantwana bakho ilungelo lokufaka iimpazamo kunye nokungalunganga kwaye ubathande yonke i-acne kunye nemathematics. Ukutsala abantwana, ngaphandle kwesizathu sobuchwephesha kunye neentshatsheli, abazali bakhulisa umntu okhe wabonakala ebonakala ngathi, kwaye ungabi njalo.Idumisa ngokuthe ngqo nangokungqalileyo
Into oyithandayo ngakumbi: "I-jemssisela, Halala" okanye "Zonke izinto ulungelelanise yonke into, kodwa ngencasa endiyenzayo, kuya kuba yimfuneko yokuqhubeka ukwenza ngokwesicwangciso sakho"? Ukudunyiswa kwekhonkrithi kuxabisa apha ngasentla kwaye kukhuthaze ukuqhubeka kwithambo elinye. Abantwana bayafana.Ukudumisa abantwana ngento abayenzileyo namhlanje
Amabinzana ohlobo "Uhlala ucocekile" okanye "ntombi yam engaze yanelisa umnxuwa" ayimkhuthazile umntwana njengoko beyinxiba. Ukongeza, baphosa ixabiso letyala elisenziwayo ngoku. Kungcono ukuthi: "Wowu, wena, yonke into iyakhazimla, indlela owenza ngayo ngokugqibeleleyo!" Phaya, into yokwenyani yaqatshelwa.Dumisani ityala, kodwa ungaphoswa yindumiso
Ngapha koko, abantwana abadingi inyathelo ngalinye ukuba lihambe kunye nehlombe. Ukunyuselwa rhoqo kakhulu ukuphulukana namandla abo. Okanye, kulungile, umntwana unokuqala ukuthintela onke amabhaso amatsha kunye namatsha amatsha. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukubashiya abantwana konke ngaphandle kwe "mnandi" - abantu abadala abangahambelaniyo baya konakalisa kwi-psychoanalyst. Le yeyona ndawo inzima - landela ibhalansi.Indumiso yeyona nto inzima
Abazali bahlala bephosa ngokungakhathali ", ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba bavavanywa. Kungcono ukujonga imicimbi yaBantwana. Masithi, Huvidelweni ngenxa yovavanyo ngalunye oluhle kwaye lungelulo oluphezulu, oluyi-wonke umntwana abeke umzamo ngakumbi.Fundisa abantwana "Umthetho weGolide"
Umthetho uyaziwa: Ziphathe nabanye abantu njengoko ufuna ukuba baziphathe nawe. Lo mbono uza kumnceda umntwana angabi nakuye umntu oqinisekile ukuba umhlaba ujikeleza kuye. Sebenzisa lo mthetho kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, ukonakalisa indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu kule ndawo.Fundisa abantwana ukuba bazibeke endaweni yabanye abantu
Uvelwano, amandla okuzibeka endaweni yenye, va intlungu yomnye umntu, usizi, ubuchule bomnye umntu, ukungafikeleli kwi-daffidis. Ebhetele Sinokucacisa abantwana ngendlela into ejongeka ngayo into kwimbono yabanye, kubunzima ngakumbi buya kuphuhlisa imvakalelo engalunganga yokuphakama kwabantu. Ilizwe laseNtshona lijika lingayixabisi nje ubukhulu bomntu, kodwa kunye nolwalamano olusenyongweni eluntwini, oko kukuthi, akukukholelwa kwinkwenkwezi yakhe, kodwa kukuqonda ukusikelwa umda. Ukuba usacinga ukuba ivela emntwaneni kufuneka uyityhalele "inkosazana encinci" kwihlabathi liphela, yimbono ephelileyo.Ngokuka-Shasicton Post.