Iingcebiso kwiimagazini zabasetyhini ziyabhideka. Kwingxaki nganye kubudlelwane bunikwe izindululo ezichaseneyo, kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha-indalo iphela.
Okanye ukuqonda yonke into, okanye kwangoko ukuphosa kwakhona-radication yeengcebiso zenza uzive udidekile? Ewe, nantsi isikhokelo esincinci esinokunceda.
Nazi iimeko ezine xa i-porridge yendoda ikhulile.
Andazi amazwi othando-kodwa uyathetha ulwimi lwemicimbi
Kukho amadoda abonakala ebanda. Abayazi indlela yokuthuthuzela, musa ukubukrokrela amazwi anothando, kodwa "ndiyakuthanda" kubo ukuba bakhuphe kuphela imincili kuphela. Ngakumbi amatyala aqaqambileyo, akakwazi ukuba ngowokuqala ukugona, alandele intloko, aye banikine isandla ngexesha.Mhlawumbi akanamdla kuwe kwaye nje into esetyenziswayo. Okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba unengxaki yokuthetha ngeemvakalelo - kwaye emva koko izinto ziya kubaxelela yonke into kuye.
Indoda enothando ayiphumi nje ubuncinci izibophelelo zabahlobo kunye nezihlobo ngokunxulumene nokudibana ekuseni kuloliwe okanye zingenise iti kunye neti. Uya kuhlala enyamekela amaqhinga, apho imeko yentuthuzelo ikhula. Uya kukhumbula ukuba yeyiphi iti oyithandayo, ayothengayo kumsitho we-pastries yakho oyithandayo, ngaphandle kwezicelo zokuthenga ezintsha (okanye ubuncinci bokulungisa) iibhutsi ezindala.
Ndikujikelezile ngokungathi lonke ixesha uqhuba kakuhle? Unokuqiniseka uthando lwendoda yakho.
Ayinakuma ecaleni komntu kwimbambano yakho kunye nonina
Ukuba uhlala noninazala, kwaye uphakamisa isandla sakho phezu kwakho, imini yonke emva kokuba yonke yonke ingcikivo okanye isuphu ihamba, isuse uMntu wakho, kunjalo, ngokunjalo, ngokunjalo, ngokunjalo, ngokunjalo nolwaphulomthetho. Kwintsimi yomnye umntu ongenakuzikhusela ngokupheleleyo, umyeni wam kufuneka akubonele ngokhuseleko, ubuncinci ukudubula ngokwahlukeneyo ngokwahlukeneyo.
Kodwa ukuba awuvumelani nomamazala wam ngaphandle kwezenzo zobutyazeli okanye uphila ngokugqibeleleyo, ke ngoko umntu, njengaye nawuphi na umntu, oqhele ukuzama ukuhlala unxibelelana kakuhle nabantu ababini kufutshane nabantu ababini kufutshane naye. Kubandakanya nokwala ukuthuthwa kwimbambano yabo. Ibonakaliswa kakuhle yindoda ukuba ifuna ukuba ngamnye amaqela angatyhaleli icala lesibini ebusweni bakhe.
Kodwa ukuba ukuzithethelela kwakhe kusebenza kuphela koomama, ala, phantse umntu omnye umntu.
Utyikitywe ngabantu abatshabalalayo
Umzekelo, kuba bakwiirhasi zesondo, ubuhlanga okanye i-anti-semites.Kwihlabathi eligqibeleleyo, umntu wakho uyadlula ecaleni, kodwa kwinyani akanakuba liphiko kwaye abhiyozele yonke into efana nokuba ebuntwaneni okanye ebutsheni bakhe, kunye nokungabi nakukhulisa ubuchopho ukuba Iminyaka yokuqala engamashumi amabini ananye.
Into ecacileyo, asithethi ngamatyala xa indoda iFrextan Bonke aba bantu babangelwa kukunqwenela izinto ezinomdla kunye nokujonga kwisihloko (HAYI) solingano lwabantu kwiimpawu zengcaciso.
Akancedi kubomi bemihla ngemihla
Amakhwenkwe amaninzi kusapho ngabom okanye i-i-Istia ayifundisi inkululeko. Ngaphambili, imbono ethile yolawulo lobomi inika umkhosi, ngoku uninzi alusebenzisi okanye, kuxhomekeke kubudala, bakhonza ngaphandle kokuthunga komninimzi nokucoca amabala.
Ukuba indoda emva kwengcaciso yokuba isidlo sangokuhlwa ingabizi, ioyile ngokwayo ayibonakali kwaye iikawusi azibonakali, iqala ukufunda ngempumelelo ukuqhuba intsapho, emva koko usenokuba yintsapho ngayo. Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba i-worher icinyiwe, kwaye ubudlelwane kunye nolwalamano luyadingeka ukuze ingumfazi kunye nekhitshi ejikeleze iwotshi ejikeleze iwotshi emntwini omnye, emva koko unxibelelane neparasite kuphela kwaye kuya kubakho icawe kuphela.
Ungayiqondi akukho ntoKukho iimeko ezixolelwayo-ukuqonda iyingozi ngempilo nobomi kwixesha elizayo.
Ukubetha
Akuba etshilo emva koko, wazi, amava obhinqileyo aphantse angawazi amatyala xa indoda ifumene ukuba ikwazi ukubetha kube kanye, akunokwenzeka ukuba iphinde iphinde. Ngakumbi ukuba umbulelo kuxolelo lwakho, uyazi ukuba yintoni enokuhlawula, i.e. ukubetha ngento efana nenkonzo ehlawulelwayo.Amadoda amaninzi abonakala enyanisekile xa esenza i-honeymoon entsha njengokuxolisa, kodwa kungenxa yokuba bawucingeli ngokunyaniseka kumjikelo wonke weemvakalelo ezibukhali kunye novuyo kwinto awayeyifumana kwakhona. Kwakhona, uthanda ngokuchanekileyo umjikelo wonke, ngaphandle kwenxalenye yokubetha, akasayi kuphinda ayiyiphinde. Sukuphinda awukwazi ukuba nazo.
Uhleka kwiindaba zedlwengulo
Kwaye uyathanda ukuphawula malunga neendaba malunga nokubulawa okanye ukubethwa kwabafazi emoyeni "Kifunelwa njani ukuzisa umntu?" Oko kukuthi, uqwalasela umbono oqhelekileyo xa umyeni engayithandi into kumfazi wakhe, ukuba angayi kuqhawula umtshato, kodwa ukubetha okanye ukubulala. Into acinga ngayo ngodlwengulo, sele ucinga. Elona gama linamandla lolwaphulo-mthetho olunjalo kwisigama sakhe "lingenzanga."
Ungazenza uhlone ukuba uyiNe neakaya kwaye uya kuhlala uziphatha ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa uNadezhda akazange ayonge nawuphi na umfazi.
Ngendlela, nikela ingqalelo ukuba amadoda alo mhlobo asonjululwe ukubulala okanye ukubetha okukhohlakeleyo xa efumanisa ukuba umfazi ubashiya. Ke akunakwenzeka ukuba uthembeke kubo. Shiya ngokukhawuleza, b) ngaphandle kwengcaciso kunye nezilumkiso. Emva kokukhathalela, zama ukungakhuphi iindawo. Ngelixa ulwaphulo mthetho alwenziwanga phezu kwakho, umthetho awukukukhusela.
Ukophula izinto ngomsindo
Kwaye, ukuba uyandijonga, ihlala ihlala izenzo zakho (ngokukodwa izipho zakhe kuwe, ezo nene aziqhubeka ziqwalasele nepropathi yakhe).Okokuqala, kufana nokwenza ingcinezelo yasekhaya njengesenzo soyikiso. Okwesibini, abaninzi abayeki kwizinto, ngenxa yoko kuhlaselo lomsindo wakhe banokwaphulwa impumlo yakho.
Okanye uyayiqonda ngaphandle kokuziphatha kwakhe ngaphandle kwezizathu zokuziba kwaye abuyise umva (kwaye akasaphinde aphinde aphumelelise ikhaya), okanye anqwenela ukuyisebenzisa ngokupheleleyo njengeenyawo zasekhaya "aziyi kuba nomonde.
Ukuthatha iqhekeza lesonka
Indoda leyo iqala ukumangalisa ukuba uyayivusa ngokugqibeleleyo (okanye wena nomntwana), kwaye eqinisekile ukuba anikele umsebenzi, ngoku ke wayikhathalela ngezicelo zeFama , iitights, i-gasket kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko kwaye ungakulibali ukukhumbuza ukuba utya kuphela ngobumangala? Ubanjiwe kwangaphambili. Wayebalelwe ngegunya lakhe, yena amandla asisichiza.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba yeyiphi impahla nayiphi na ichiza? Kude, iidosi ezinkulu ziyafuneka. Ke iRulatureArcoman iya kukhangela iindlela zokuziva ngathi (kunye nomntwana) amandla kunye nokunye, kwaye iindlela ziya kuba yingozi ngakumbi.
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