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Ngaba iya kungxama ngokukhawuleza ukukhusela i-chad? Kwaye ngequbuliso umntwana ngokwakhe wahenyuza? Ngaba uyamnqanda umntu ekugqibeleni kwiqela kunye nootitshala? Kwaye ngokubanzi, kufuneka kubekho indoda yokufunda indlela yokutshabalalisa iziganeko zakho! Mayibe njalo? Asinguye na lo mngcatsheli? Inkxaso? Kwaye yintoni kanye kanye? Ukunceda? Kodwa kanjani?
1. Fumanisa ukuba ilula kangakanani
Hayi "xa uqala ukuza," Unexesha elingakanani kwingxabano, kwaye ngenxa yoko. " Kwimbambano kunye notitshala - "ukusuka kulo mzuzu owonakalise ubuhlobo." Umntwana oqhelekileyo uza kupeyinta yonke into enje: "Uyekile", "uyayalela", "uyahleka." Sichaza ukuba kwakuqalwa ukuba kwakuqala. Hayi kwisitayile esithi "Uwuse njani nale mfazi ingcwele, ukuba uqalise ukuba ufumane isiphoso kuwe?", " Ingxabano entsha inokuxoxwa kunye nokumisa ukuba umntwana akaceli uncedo. Ukuba umjikelo ungaphezulu kweentsuku ezintathu, kwaye ayizinzakalisi ngokwayo - kuyimfuneko ukuphazamisa.
2. Mamela inenekazi leklasi
Ootitshala bahlala beqonda ukuba kuyenzeka eklasini. Izifundo zokuxhuzula (i-oratis yesikolo)-kwiimeko apho wayengengomqali ngokwakhe, uhlala ngemvume ethe cwaka kwabantu abadala. Kwaye ke ukukhetha "andikhange ndibone kwanto, andazi nto" - olona loyiko lukhulu. Kunye notitshala obodwa kwaye baya konwaba ekuthatheni inxaxheba, kwaye baya kunceda.
3. Mamela ukuba ngubani oxabana
Nakuphi na ukungqubana kukungqubana kwembono kumcimbi. Ukuba wonke umntu uyavumelana, akuyi kubakho kungqubana, kuya kuba "sinengxaki apha." Nje ukuba kukho ukungqubana kwaye wolula, ke umntwana owayexabana nenye imbono. Ke bonisa ukuba ufile kwaye uqonde, hayi kwindlela "yeindlebe zonyana wam." Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho ufumanisa iimeko ezintsha. Ingxoxo eyolileyo "kwindalo enqabileyo" ecinyiwe kwisithathu seengxabano. Icima? - Kulungile. Khange ihlawule-yiya kwinto elandelayo.
4. Chonga iindawo zoxanduva kwaye uzame ukulungisa iimpazamo zakhe nomntwana
Ukuba awunguye umzalwana (Thelekisa ukubonakaliswa esipilini kunye ne icon. Imifanekiso edityanisiweyo? Awunakukwazi ukuqina, ukuba awunguye, mntwana wakho iKosyechit. Kwaye kule ngxabano, iyayeka, nako akrokrela. Nge-1%, nge-50% okanye i-98% - ukhetho lunokwenzeka. Kwaye nantsi indlela yokubandakanya "Imo yentsapho yosapho"! Kwaye mna, ndikwiminyaka yakho! Ukudibanisa iwindow, kusinda kumazwe aphesheya kummelwane, watshisa eli phephancwadi, wafaka imbiza, usike itshathi, watya imouse kwaye wabonisa imouse. Unokuphendula ngeenkcukacha zentliziyo.
Apha umntwana uhlala eyeka ukulila kwaye ethandabuza ngovuyo- yayiyintoni umakhulu wakho ngenxa yoko? Uthethe ntoni utatomkhulu? Kwaye abahlobo yintoni? Ke ngoku? Wenzeni? Nantsi kuwe kunye nokulungela ukuva ukuqinisekiswa ngamava IBhunga . Kwaye ngaphambi koko - omnye umbuzo, siya kuxabisa nayiphi na icebiso lakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, wena, mama, ebesoloko eyintombazana elungileyo. Uyazi phi! ... ngoku, (ndiyavuyisana!) Ingozi. Sisonke siza kusebenza, sicele uxolo. Wonke umntu uyenzeka, cho.
5. Ewe, omabini amacala anika izithembiso ezinokwenzeka.
Akunakwenzeka ukuthembisa ukuba ungalwi konke konke. Mabathembise ukuba bangabethi ubuso kwaye bangakwazi ukukhaba. Akunakwenzeka ukuthembisa ukuba ungaze uthathe izinto zabanye abantu. Mabathembisa ukuba bangathathi ngaphandle kwemfuno. Akunakwenzeka ukuthembisa ukungafungi. Ungakuthembisa ukuba ungabizi. Ngakumbi, ngcono.
6. Ukuthinjelwa njengoko omabini amacala afezekisa izithembiso
NjengeLizwi- Hlala! Nantsi kwaoko yabona ngokukhawuleza ukuba ngubani na owenzekileyo. Ezona zithembiso, ezo zithembiso, ezona zicocekileyo, ekubuzeni ukuba zingabambanga. Kwaye abo, ngokungafaniyo "balungile bobabini, ihlabathi alizithathi, 'ukuba lingaziguquleli.
7. Yonke le nto kunye nabantu abadala azinobungozi bokujonga, eneneni.