Uncume, kwaye kungekudala uya konwaba. Uxolo, kwaye kuya kuba lula. Ukufuna ubomi ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye ungaze ube lusizi okanye usizi. Ukuya kutyeshelwa.
Uqhelekile? I-ducetor nganye, nganye iKhadi lesithathu lokubulisa, iBali ngalinye eliqaqambileyo neliliqela kwiNtengiso yeNtlalontle iyakuqinisekisa ukuba le yindlela oya konwaba ngayo. "Iingcinga ezinomdla!" Bazibiza.Kwangelo xesha, oogqirha bezengqondo bengcali babetha ialam. Okokuqala, ngenxa yokufakwa endaweni yentsingiselo yangoku yegama elithi "ukucinga okuqinisekileyo" kwesi siSherzar Sys .. Okwesibini, ngenxa yokuba ingcinga ikhutshwe kwinethiwekhi yokujonga okuhle ebomini kuyingozi ngokwenene ukuba impilo yengqondo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ebomini. Kuyinyani kakhulu ukuba ezona zinto zidumileyo beziziincwadi zaseAsia malunga nendlela ohlala yonwabile (oh, abafazi baseKorea abalungileyo kunye neJapan, awufuni ukuba njengabo?), Awufuni ukubakho, Ukweyisela ukuba uza kuhamba naye ukuya kukhanya nendoda.
Sifundile kakhulu ukuba akunjalo ngokutsala umnxeba "ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye sithanda ukukuxelela ngomzekelo we-gurus esixhenxe edumileyo kunye nemibono elungileyo."
Umgcini we-blowple Docelet Bonen
Umbono ubonakala ulula kwaye unobuqili kakhulu. I-bracelet ithathiwe (emfusa, kodwa ungayalela umfusa kunye nawo nawuphi na umbala), faka isandla kwaye ukhukuliseka kwiintsuku ezingama-21 ngokuqhubekayo. Kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha, babambelele kwizikhalazo, ukubonakalisa ukucaphukisa okanye ingqumbo, ukugxekwa, ukuhleba kunye nokucinga okungathandekiyo ", kufuneka ususe esinye isandla. Ukuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo
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Ukucinga okuqinisekileyo kwi-psychology ayisiyo nayiphi na imvakalelo yokuyeka nayiphi na imvakalelo engalunganga kwaye ifuna, into ezavuyayo xa kungekho nto yokuba uyolo. Ngapha koko, obu samakhono bokucinga (ukucinga ngayo) iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ubanike indlela eyamkelekileyo yokuphuma. Ikwathetha ukuba, ngaphandle kokufihlakele kuwe ngenyaniso ekrakra, unokuhlalutya imeko engathandekiyo okanye ulwalamano onalo, emva koko ufumane indlela yokuphuma kuyo okanye itshintshe ngayo ilahleko encinci kuwe, kwaye nangawo ukufumana isibonelelo.
Kodwa amandla okucinezela kwaye ufihle iimvakalelo kwaye uncume kuwe, xa i-hamat ayilunganga. Ngaba ukusinda kwakho kuxhomekeke koku.
Liz babbo noLouise Hay: Zonke izifo zingathandi, siphathwa ngamandla engcinga
Liz Burbo noLouise Hay bazithembile: Zonke izifo, ngaphandle kwesibetho, senzeka kuphela kwi-psychosomatics. Iziguli zinetyala ngenxa yakhe ukuba akazithandi. Okanye enye into. Kwaye hayi ngaphambili phambi kwakho.
Umzekelo, ukuguqulwa kokuphosa kuthetha ukuba enyanisweni, eli bhinqa alifuni umntwana. Iingxaki emva kokulahleka kwempazamo- ukuba akakwazanga ukuba akwazi ukubona nokukhetha kwakhe ukususa umntwana ozayo. URahitu ovela emntwaneni ayilomqondiso wokungondleki okanye iingxaki zemfuza kwaphela, kodwa umqondiso awusulele ingqalelo yabazali.
Ayikabi yinto engaqhelekanga? Emva koko bamba: Ukuqhekeka kombambo - umqondiso wokuba umntu uziva engenatyala. Uhambe kwaye waziva engaphumeleli wabaleka eGopnik. Okanye wawa emkhenkceni kwisitena. Ngaba icacile?
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Ebuntwaneni bam, sazama ukuqonda isizathu sokuba uMakhulu wasweleka - kungengenxa yokuba saphosa ilitye kwi-kitten okanye lafika kwi-asphalt emsukelweni, kuya kufa? Indoda endala ihlala iqonde ukuba ayisiyiyo yonke into kule ndawo ixhomekeke kuye. Kwaye nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ngomzimba wakhe.
Kodwa xa umntu engenalungelo (ngokuchanekileyo okanye kwimvakalelo yomntu), uphosa kwimibono eyongeziziyo engaqhelekanga. Umzekelo, uzama ukulawula kwaye enze indalo ekhuselekileyo, ngoncedo lwezenzo ezithile (umzekelo, ngokuxhasa i-plints) okanye isohlwayo (ngokwakhe, umbono wetyala lokungazipheliyo kulawulo lwendalo). UGuru udlalwa koku, ecinezela ityala kwiqhosha njengesixhobo esiphezulu solawulo. Ngapha koko, ingqondo yezi zinto zikhohlisayo ayikho kwaye ibiza uxanduva lwazo.
I-Osho: Cofa iqhosha kwaye uthanda yonke into kwaye wonke umntu
U-Osho, enkosi kwezona zinto zixhaphakileyo kwezona zicatshuliweyo, kubonakala kuyinto entle. Ewe, loo, ukuba wakugatya ukuhlaselwa, ubuhle kunye neendawo ngokubanzi. Kodwa yayiyele meko besisentliziyweni. Ekugqibeleni, unezicatshulwa ezininzi ezifuna ukuphatha kakuhle kwabafazi. Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yemagazini yesiqhelo yaseRussia, i-glossy okanye hayi, abakhweli banokubangela ukuba ungene kwi-SOBS emdaka wonke umzimba. Kodwa kuse-Osho-Umbhali wezi ngxelo zilandelayo:
"Bukela nje naluphi na uhlobo lokubandezeleka: Nokuba iqulethe ezinye izinto ongakulungeli ukuba ulahlekelwe lilahleko, okanye ithemba ngaye oxhonywe kwimpumlo yakho njengeekherothi."
"Ubudlelwane nje, busebenza okanye abasebenzayo okanye ukucinga luhlobo olufihlakeleyo lobukhoboka bengqondo. Okanye uyayisebenzisa enye, okanye wena ngokwakho. "
Kwaye koku kuya kuphuma nabani na omama:
"Isibakala sokuba ukufa akunakususwa kuwe, kwaye ukhona ubutyebi kuphela; Kwaye yintoni enokuthathwa kuyo nayiphi na, ayifanekisweni.
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Iindlela ezimbini ezithandwayo ze-neurotic "zolawulo lwendalo" -Ummangaliso wamaxhoba kunye nemibono ye-ultra-supersonal malunga nokutya.
Kwimeko yokuqala, xa umntu eba lixhoba leemeko ezilusizi okanye ukuhlaselwa kolwaphulo-mthetho, ecinga ukuba "ecinga kakuhle" efumana enye indawo eyoyikekayo phambi kwendalo engakhuselekanga kwaye ejonge ngokungxamisekileyo ngendlela ekhuselekileyo ukwenzela yena. Ixhoba nje lenze yonke into ephosakeleyo. Ayizange inxibe, ayizange ihambe ezitratweni, khange aqiniseke ukuba izakhono zokusinda ekutshatyalalisweni kwentshabalalo yePark yePark. Kwiibakaki zihlala zichaziwe-ngokungafaniyo ne-adept.
Oyena mntu uxhamle oku "kukucinga okuhle", esi sisiko elithi ngokucokisekileyo kwaye lingabonwa ngalo lonke uxanduva lwento awayeyenza le milenze kunye nezinye izinto ngokufayilisha kule ntloko.
Malunga nezimvo zezifundo ze-ultra kwindawo yokutya kwaye yonke into icacile, kubonakala ngathi.
I-Alexander Sviyash: I-Strange ukuba ayingomqeqeshi wesetyhini
Akunakwenzeka ukuthi i-sviyash ubuncinci kwinto ethile: Ndinike kancinci apha, ndimncinci apho, ndongeze indawo entle yexhoba, kwaye ndilungele i-Russian kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye ndikulungele Imali yokufundisa ukuba unxibe i-soltch efanayo- "i-gon" elungileyo kwibala leencwadi zakhe.
Ndandinceda kakhulu. Kodwa, ndicinga ukuba kufanele ukuba kubekho imeko ethile ebomini ukuze bayiqonde. Yonke into yoyikeka: uqhawulo-mtshato, uxinzelelo ... kwaye iincwadi zakhe zaye zaya kuthi ziyintoni na. Kodwa ndinikele kum oko dala, andizange ndifunde ...
Impendulo evela kwiforum yabasetyhini.
Akumangalisi ukuba iSvilla idla ngokubizwa ngokuba yi- "tectaria", kuba inkcazo enjalo (engaqhelekanga yeyo yonke into ilungelelene, kwaye ngequbuliso ibonakala ityhilwe kakhulu iithiyori, apho badityaniswa zinamahlelo. Nangona kunjalo, i-sviyashen yehlanya alikho into engaphezulu komhlaza wePavel. Uthanda nje imali kunye nonqulo olungenasiphelo. Ngendlela, umfazi wangaphambili uSvillaisha ukwangumqeqeshi wabasetyhini. Mhlawumbi idluliselwa ngesondo!
Ithiyori ye-svilais, iphuma iye kwelinye: ukuba kukho into engathandekiyo yenzeka kuwe, emva koko uncuma kancinci kwaye ayonelanga kumadoda. Kwaye kufuneka ufunde ukuthatha nabani na! Amadoda, oko kukuthi. Kwaye uncume, uncume.
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Indlela yokubala umntu onxaniwe yimali yakho: Kubonakala ngathi yinto ekhethekileyo kwi-psychology yakho. Akukho lwalathiso lunjalo lwe-psychology.
U-Valery Sinlnikov: amandla engcinga efanelekileyo
Omnye umthandi wokuxelela ukuba u-Samdavinovat kwaye wenze imali ngale nto. Imele ugqirha. Sicacisa - ulihenyukazwe. Izimvo zayo aziyonto intsha: Indalo iphela, kwaye kuya kufuneka wakhe ubomi kumnqophiso wamandulo amaRhini, ethi, ngokobuqhetseba "ukusuka eValyaeva nabanye. Lawula indalo kwaye umzimba wayo uyimfuneko kumandla engcinga efanelekileyo. Khange isebenze? Akwanelanga kancinci. Hlambulula kwaye uncume ngakumbi. Ngokubanzi, i-Sinelikov - inzame yokuba yi-oshosi yaseRussia kunye ne-Esoteric Version yeSvilla.
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Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ongathobekiyo wemeko njengoko kunjalo, iyimfuneko. Xa ungenamandla okutshintsha into, nokuba ungasebenzi iimvakalelo ezimbi ezivela kule meko. Umphefumlo wakho ubonakala ngathi ulala kancinane, kude kube yi-nquw okanye akayi kufumana amandla.
Kodwa iimeko ezifuna umonde kwaye azikho nto, zinqabile kakhulu. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ngoku ubanyamezele ngoncumo, awuyonwabanga. Kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha, ukuqokelelwa okufihliweyo nakwizimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo kuya kuba netyhefu kwaphela. Nangona kunjalo, kunjalo, ukuba awunandawo yokuya ku-Muha-Tira ngoku, kubalulekile ukuba uzigcine kwaye uyondle ubomi, ukutyhubela imisebenzi encinci yokucamngca. Kodwa oku akuyonto ithile malunga nenyaniso yokuba "oochwephesha bezengqondo." Esi sisihloko esinzima kwaye sahlukane kakhulu.
I-AMESEMES: Ulawulwa kanyatho - isitshixo kwindalo iphela
Iimbono ze-Symalon (Ngubani owakhwaza "kwakhona?) Kulula kakhulu ukuba bathatyathwayo ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwi-psychologist eqhelekileyo okanye i-pisochoanitik. Asiboni zonke iinkqubo kwindalo iphela, ekhokelela kwenye okanye kwesinye isiphumo. Kwaye kuba andiboni, kubonakala ngathi kubonakala ngathi akukho ngqiqweni kuthi, ngokungabi nangqondo, phantse kwikhonkco leziganeko. Kutheni ungaxeli iingcinga ezingenangqondo, ezingekho ngqiqweni, ezingenangqondo, ezingakhethwanga kwimicimbi yokufumana kwindalo iphela?
I-Simonov yindawo entsha yemilingo yolingo, yokucinga. Kuphela kuxa ukucinga komlingo kuphela kusekwe ngokusesikweni kwemiqondiso ethile evela kwizenzo zezenzo kunye nesiphumo esifunekayo, ke ngembalelwano, imbalelwano iqeshwa ngaphandle kwento oyifunayo kunye nento ofuna ukuyifumana . Sibhalisa isiketi se-bananana kwindlu yangasese kwaye sifumane inzuzo yemali. I-Pouch Panties kwi-chandelier, kwaye inzuzo iya kuba inkulu kakhulu! Abanye bayanceda. Ngaphakathi kwethiyori eqhelekileyo.
Ngendlela, uzazi inkcazo elula, kutheni indalo iphela, ngokungathi kunjalo, usinike imiqondiso? Umntu nje onomdla wokuqaphela, okokuqala, into ayifunayo. Ukuba iingcinga zakhe zibandakanyeka kumnqweno wokukhathaza ukuqalisa iprojekthi entsha, ukwazi kwakhe kuya kuhamba kwiibhodi zentengiso kunye namagama egraffiti efana "Ewe! Phambili! " Kwaye "umngcipheko yinto entle." Ngeli xesha, iBhilidboard exhonywa apha ngaphambili, kunye nemibhalo emalunga nomngcipheko wekhulu leminyaka kwisidlo sasemini. Kanye ngaphambi kokuba babengafuneki, ngoko ke bahlala bemvelaphi.
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I-Psychosomakis ikhona, abantu banobuhlobo obuninzi kwabo banobuhlobo kubo, kodwa akukho esinye isitshixo sendalo iphela. Izifo ezininzi zenzeka kwintsholongwane, intsholongwane kunye nokuqhekeka kwemfuza, ukwenzakala kufunyanwa kwiimeko zobusi, akunangqondo ukuba nobuhlobo bebhokhwe, kwaye ibhokhwe nayo ayinakwenzeka ukuba iphendule kuncumo lwakho olunamandla. Le ndlela yokucinga yeyokugqibela ithatha le nyaniso ibukhali kwaye ... ukuya ... ukuya ... ukuya ... ukuya ... ukuba lonke ulwazi.