Intombi yethu, i-Anna Port, yayisabelana nathi ngeembono zayo kumalungelo angabazali nenkululeko, kunye namava okuphuma (okanye endaweni yoko, engawanga) kubukhoboka boomama.
- Ewe, yonke into, inkululeko yakho iphele. Ukususela ngoku, awuyom, - undixelele ngolwaneliseko olufihlakeleyo lwezalamane (kwaye ngakumbi izalamane), ngelixa ndikhulelwe unyana wam.-Ngoku ubomi bakho bonke buya kuba yi-app kuphela ebomini bomntwana wakho. Yiba ngumama-khonza, uyazinqabela. Ngayiphi na imeko, inyanzelwa iminyaka eliqela malunga neminqweno yobuqu. Yonke into yomntwana, yaqhubeka. Yongezwa. -Bantwana lulonwabo.
-Bantwana, "utshilo, ukuncwina, ummelwane, ukudiniwe ngunyana wabantwana abathathu kwabathathu kwabathathu.
Ndinethemba lokufihlakeleyo ukuba ndiza kuba nesidalwa esifanelekileyo, kwaye ngesiqhelo sinokuhlala sivunyelwana. Nokuba sisidalwa esincinci esifanelekileyo. Khange ndifune ikhoboka. Akukho mntu. Kwanonyana wakho.
Andinamava amahle kakhulu kwiintsana ezikhulayo, ndinonyana omnye kuphela. Kodwa ndenze ukuba ndingabi likhoboka kuye, ndingamenzeli ikhoboka.
Umama kuqala
Bonke abantwana bahlukile (njengomama), kodwa wonke umntwana uyazi ngokukhawuleza, apho i-my mug my bili. Ewe, loo mama engenantliziyo afanele ukuba asabele kuyo yonke i-squeak, isikhalo, isicelo segama kunye nemfuno yosana, phosa yonke into! Ngapha koko, kunzima kakhulu ukuzinqanda. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iyimfuneko.
Kufanelekile ukuba ipapashe kancinci kakhulu kuneyenye yangaphambili, isandi - kwaye ubuso bukaMama obothusayo buvela phezulu? Ndikholelwe-Uyayikhumbula ngokukhawuleza, abantwana bayakukhumbula ngokulula oku. Kwaye basebenzise ngokungafanelekanga. Abanye bakwazi ukusebenzisa le nto kumhlala-phantsi. Hayi kumama-yedwa. Ke ngoko, zama ukuba kufutshane, ukulawula yonke into, kodwa ungathathi umntwana iiyure ezingamashumi amabini anesine ngosuku. Myeke aqonde ukuba i-algorithm - ndabizayo, kwabonakala umama phambi kwam, ndilinde imiyalelo-ayisoloko isebenza ukuba ungaphezulu kweenyanga ezintandathu.
Inkunkuma yentloko
Hayi, asiyi kudlala ibhola ngoku, kuba sele sisebusuku, kwaye iindebe ziyalwa. Kodwa sinokuzoba ibhola endaweni yoko. Kwaye kwakhona ukufuphi, kwakhona. Kwaye ngoku ibhola iya kutsala iindlebe ezinkulu, imilenze enkulu kunye ne-trunk-kwaye iya kufumana indlovu. Hayi, andizukuthengise le toty, kuba sele unayo ngokufanayo, kodwa andinamali. Hayi, andikwazi ukudlala nawe kwi-locomotive egumbini, kodwa unokwenza i-sap kwiitapile ekhitshini, apho ndilungiselela isidlo sasemini.Akunakwenzeka, akunyanzelekanga, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uvumelane nomntwana. Kodwa umntu uyabalazela unokuguqulwa abe sisigwebo. Ke umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba ayizizo zonke iicarnival zemoto, kodwa le khati ithanda kwaye ikulungele uthethathetha naye. Ungalibali ukuba umntwana uyakhula, kwaye ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. Kwaye oku namhlanje uxoxa ngoqeqesho, kwaye kwiminyaka embalwa kuya kufuneka thethane ngenani lemali yepokotho okanye i-parachute. Kwaye ukuba ubusoloko uvumile ebholeni, kwaye kuloliwe, nakwinto entle, kwaye emva koko bathi "hayi", ke umntwana akakuqondi.
Jonga epokothweni yakhe - kwaye kwintombazana yakhe yepokotho. Oko kukuthi, Mama
Xa umntwana wazalwa nje, yena - umhlaba wonke. Kwaye ihlabathi liphela nguwe. Kodwa, ndiyakhumbuza, umntwana uyakhula. Kwaye ilizwe lakhe likhula kunye naye. Sukuzama ukuthatha lonke ilizwe lakhe. Kuya kufuneka abe nembombo yakhe, indawo yakhe apho ungakho khona. Kwaye kukho imvisy yakhe, imidlalo yakhe, ithamsanqa kwaye woyisa (ewe, kwaye uyakoyiswa kakhulu!)
Lo ngumntu osisinye, kodwa umntwana akasayi kukhula, ukuba yonke indawo yehlabathi lakhe iqeshelwe intanda yakhe, ukhathazeka, umama onjalo, ukuba amehlo akhe amlandela. I-Britane ithi abantwana kufuneka babonakale, kodwa bengeva. Ke abazali ngamanye amaxesha akufuneki baviwe. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ayibonakali. Yiba nguThixo omncinci, owaziyo wonke umntu owaziyo, kodwa bambalwa ababonileyo. Ulawulo kumgama. Ngaphandle koko unokubona umfanekiso endiwubukeleyo nomnye umhlobo wam. Unyana wakhe oneminyaka emithathu ubudala wadlala kwigumbi elinye apho sasihlala khona. Kwaye ngandlel 'ithile, ngaphandle kokujika intloko, wasolula isandla sakhe waxelela ithoni eqhelekileyo - umlingane we-blue typewriter! Kwaye unina watsiba wabeka umatshini wokuchwetheza oblowu kwisiphatho sakhe! Kwaye kamva, wathetha ithoni efanayo - isiselo! Kwaye wazisa iglasi yejusi. Kwaye akazange ajike. Kwaye ungakhange ubonwe.
Umda woxanduva-Indawo yenkululeko
Kwanomntwana onokuba ngumsebenzi. Ilula kakhulu. Umzekelo, uqokelele iithoyi zakho. Kudala kuya kuba - kwiimeko ezingaphezulu kufuneka zibonakale kuzo. Kwaye ngokwakhe wenza isigqibo. Ufanele abe nento encinci, kodwa abe namandla.
Akukho mntu uthanda ukunika amandla. Kwaye umntwana ungaphantsi kwako konke. Kananjalo unebala elincinci (kulungile, ukongeza amandla phezu kwentliziyo yakho nengqondo, kwaye ngokubanzi, bonke ubomi). Kwaye ke imisebenzi, engaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, yenza ukuba umntwana akhululeke. Kwaye wena ngaxeshanye.
Imfihlo oyintloko
Kodwa eyona mfihlakalo ibaluleke kakhulu yokukhuliswa yayikukufundisisa kakhulu ukufunda unyana wam. Iminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ndiyabulela kuThixo, wakuthanda lo msebenzi. Kwaye kule nto indikhuliseko yam, ngokubanzi, yaphela, kwaye ndandinexesha elininzi lamahhala, endiye ndaphela, ndifunda kakhulu, ndifunda kakhulu. Unyana wafumana amanqaku okuphangalala. Kuphela lonke ixesha elifuna iincwadi ezintsha. Kodwa kwakungekho ngxaki yile.
Emva koko wakhula.