Xa, esixeleyo kuthi, umntu ubi ngokucacileyo, siqala ukukhwaza: "Kukho ugqirha apha?" Ukuba umntu wenzekile ebomini ebomini kwaye "ukutshisa" inkqubo ye-nervous, akukho sidingo sokuba nediploma yengqondo. Ukunceda uncede okuqala, kwanele ukuba ngumntu ophilayo onamandla okuvelwano.
I-snug kukuba ukuba izifo ezibonakalayo sisifo, ukusweleka komntu esimthandayo, ingozi-bayaqondakala kwaye kuyabonakala, ke akukho kucaciswa ngokupheleleyo. Kulapho umntu eqengqeleka into, Dollllyalo - kwaye ekugqibeleni uZadolbalo. Kwaye iisise ziba lusizi, kwaye isivalo siqala ukutsiba kwibilini. Kwaye awukwazi ukuyichaza imeko ephambili ngeliso elingeyo. Kodwa iliso lingayilo indlebe ngokulula. Ke, umhlobo wakho ubanjiwe kwaye ubambe uxinzelelo kuxinzelelo lwakhe lwe-PAR ukuba phantse izinto ezinjalo zaqwalaselwa kuye.
imeko
- Zintathu iindidi zokuphendula kwi-shake eqinileyo: "Unyawo kwirhasi", "unyawo kwi-brake" kunye "nemilenze kwiziseko zombini". Oko kukuthi, kwityala lokuqala - umsindo, umsindo, ukukhala, iinyembezi. Kwisibini - eyona nto iphambili kakhulu kunye ne-rostporescence: Umntu ungene kuye njengeaphu endlwini. Kwaye kwesithathu - xa umkhenkce uphumile ngaphandle, kwaye uyangcungcutheka ngaphakathi. Eyokuqala iphawuleka ngakumbi, yesibini neyesithathu kwaye iyingozi ngakumbi.
- Ngoku usukelo-"nangaphezulu" yindlela awasabela ngayo. Kwimeko yesiqhelo, masithi, Uphendule waphendula wathi: "Ewe uyahamba!", Kwaye ngoku inokufundisa nale ndawo enye. Izinto ezifanayo ngoku zinzima kwaye zibangela ukuphendula okukhulu-ukuzala, okanye ukothuka, okanye ukreqa.
- Umntu unciphise imvakalelo kaHing. Ukuba akananzondelelo - kwaye ngaphezu koko, ngokucinga ngenene- i-curnings yakho ye-rubbady kunye nepenshini, eyokonwaba kakhulu kwigxalaba nge-goricustic : "Dude, ewe, ewe, wena, ungaziqondi iziqhulo ?! Ngoku le ndlela ayisebenzi.
Iimvakalelo
- Ukucaphuka kwaba ngaphambili kuqatshelwe ngaphambili kuvela kwinqanaba elinjalo kuvela, ukuvutha, ubukhulu becala.
- Ayikwazi ukuphumla, ngalo lonke ixesha ixinekile, njengentambo eyoluliweyo.
- Kubonakala kuye ukuba uwedwa kulo lonke shabane omhlophe, akukho mntu ufuna-kwaye ngokubanzi njengalooSarla, 'ombi kunabo bonke. "
Indlela yokuziphatha
- Kwintsimi yokutya kunye nokulala abantu kunokuhamba kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo. Abanye bafumana uxinzelelo, elinye iqhekeza emqaleni alinyukanga. Abanye abanakulala, enye imini yonke i-creawl kunye ne-sliggish, nasemva kwexesha okanye ngaphezulu kokulala. Emva koko isalathi sisikali kunye nexesha lokuphambuka.
- Abanye bazama ukuphumla ngoncedo lwangaphandle "lwee-cruches" zangaphandle: Ukusela, icuba, njalo njalo. Ingxolo inokujongana nentloko, zilahle zonke izinto, qala ukufuna ukusindisa uGuru. Konke oku kuxolelwa kwaye ngenzondelelo engenampilo.
- Imikhwa yentlalo yokuphazamisa. I-Kombiniy Comrade iqala ukusika ifowuni usuku, inoxanduva - ukufumana amanqaku kwimisebenzi nezithembiso. Ewe, ayikhupheli umzimba ngoku.
Intloko
- Ngoku ucinga ukuba zibi kakhulu kunesiqhelo. Inkumbulo, ukusabela, uxinzelelo, ukuYila Ubuchule-Ngesi siliphu semali.
- Iingcamango zihlala zingaziswanga kude kwaye zitshabalale endleleni.
- Ihlala ihleli kwi-negative. Ujonga i-kitten kwaye ifa, kwaye kwingcinga yomhlobo oxinzelelweyo, sele ephantsi kwemoto.
Ukuphendula komzimba
- Uxinzelelo lwenziwe ngephaneli yomzimba. Ngapha koko, njengommiselo, hayi kwigumbi eliphezulu - ke umzimba uhlala unomdla kwaye ulibele "ingcambu. Kwaye xa ingena enganyangekiyo - i-boqueet ihlala iphuma ...
- Enye yeempawu zomzimba eziqhubekayo ziintlungu. Uninzi lwathi, umva, intamo, intloko ithwaxwa yi "Noshi" kwi "NOSTI".
- Intliziyo evela esifubeni itsiba, kunzima ukuphefumla "-Ungasoloko ingumfanekiso. I-ROFF kunye nentliziyo yentliziyo kwakhona ithathe idabi.
Ngokwenyani, iimpawu zoxinzelelo, okokuqala, abaphelelwa ngamandla, kwaye okwesibini, yonke into ayiqwalaselwanga. Zichonge kwaye zithelekise-ziingcali nje. Kwanele ukuba sikwazi ukuqhubela phambili ukuba utshintsho olubukhali kunye nomehluko ofanelekileyo kunye nokuziphatha ("wayengenguye oko!") Ezona zilungileyo. Ngoku umbuzo olandelayo ngu- wenza ntoni, xa isidalwa esisondeleyo, siye safumana uqhawulo-mtshato, ukugxothwa okanye isiphene esikhulu, ihempe, i-rozi okanye i-rozid okanye igquma kwimonki.
Ke indlela yokunceda umhlobo ukuba wayenoxinzelelo olukhulu?
1. Musa ukufihla kuye
Uninzi lusoyikisa ngokubanzi ukuzibonakalisa xa umhlobo enqabile. Uxinzelelo lwayo lubangela uxinzelelo lwakho-kakuhle, kwaye emva koko kusenziwa isangqa kunye nesangqa esikhohlakeleyo. "Thixo, ndinokwenza ntoni kanye- Yonke into iza kuba sisidenge kwaye ayilunganga" ... "Ngokuqinisekileyo akakho kum" ... mhlawumbi akunjalo. Kwaye umntu obangela uxinzelelo uya kudida efumanise ukuba ayihoywa. Sukuyeka ukubiza, ubhale, yiza. Ayisoyiki njengoko kubonakala. Ukuba ufuna isizungu - qiniseka ukuba uya kukwazisa.
2. Sukuzama ukuyigcina
"Khange ndishukume, ngoku ndiza kukutsalela!" "Le yenye into engqongqo eyahlukileyo kule 'kwaye into endinokuyinceda apha, kungcono ukuhlala ezihlathini." Kunye nempazamo enye. Kuphela kwiintsomi zeenkqubo zamanzi ngokufanelekileyo zifile kwaye zihlala amanzi ukuze avuselele nabani na. Akukho mntu akanakukhupha nantoni na kwiinwele. Uhlala kuphela kuphela. Oku akuthethi ukuba awudingi ukuba uncede. Ukunceda nje-oku akuthethi ukwenza yonke into komnye. Igama elichanekileyo apha alinalo "uncedo", kodwa "inkxaso".
3. Yiba ngumhlobo, hayi ugqirha
"Uxinzelelo olungapheliyo, ndifunde inqaku - kwaye ndimamele into ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze usebenze ngokwaneleyo" - oko akusebenzi. Shiya nolwazi lwakho oluxabisekileyo. Sukufumanisa kwaye ungaziniki iindlela zokupheka. Unganika ingcebiso-ukuba ubuzwa. Kwaye-kunye nokubhukuqwa okubuhlungu kakhulu. I-panacea yabahlobo abavela "kwimouse, ibe yi-hedgehogs" yenzekile kwingqondo ephelileyo uxinzelelo.
4. Buza kakhulu
"Ndiyoyika ukwenzakalisa, kuba andazi ukuba ndifuna ntoni ngoku - ndiphulaphule ukunceda ngendlela esebenzayo - okanye ndilungiselele kwaye ndicele! Njani? Ewe, yindlela oziva ngayo kwaye. "Uyazi, andikwazi ukubona into oyifunayo ngoku. Kodwa ndikulungele ukwenza njengoko uza kuba ngcono. Ufuna ukuhamba, masithethe ngeti. Ufuna ukuba yedwa - kulungile, ndiza kukubiza ngeentsuku ezimbalwa. Kwaye ukuba loo nto-biza nangaliphi na ixesha, andikho apha, uyazi. "
5. Yiba kufutshane
Njengokuziqhelanisa nemisebenzi, kubahlobo abafumana uxinzelelo, hayi uncedo olungaka kunye neengcebiso njengobukho. Ukwazi ukuba kukho umntu osecaleni kwakho, uyaphila, unawe, ubomi babungami (nangona kubonakala ngathi ubaleka ekholeni), kodwa uyaqhubeka. Ke ngoko, hugger, bamba isandla, ukuze sihlale kufutshane - zihlala zininzi izinto! Oku kunika amandla. Kwaye uyayifuna ngokwenene. Ukuze uthathe inyathelo lokuqala: Ukuhlanganisana nomoya kunye neengcinga, qonda ukuba kuya kuba yimfuneko ukumba-kwaye uqalise ukumba. Yedwa, ewe. Ngoncedo oluncinci kubahlobo bam.
