Umyeni wakhe Indoda yakhe yeyona nto imbi kakhulu ebomini bomfazi wonke. Eli linyathelo izolo inkqu nesona sabantu sikhokelela kuqhawulo-mtshato nangokutshutshiswa ngokupheleleyo kosapho. Ingathi inkanuko - i-chord yokugqibela kubudlelwane, kwaye ayinakuqhubeka ukuqhubeka. Umda wokuthemba, uthando, ubudlelwane buhluthile kwaye buza ixesha lokuqalisa ubomi obutsha.
Kodwa, eyona nto inomdla, ngexesha lethu, sele injalo indalo, obu bomi butsha emva kokuba bephembelele kwaye baxabana, xengcutheka, nangona umtshato osemthethweni wonke unomntu osemthethweni. Iinkcukacha-manani zithi abantu basetyhini baqala ukuxolela i-curcy rhoqo kuneminyaka engama-20, kwiminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo. Kutheni le nto isenzeka, wonke umntu obhinqileyo unempendulo yakhe, kodwa eyona nto iphambili ... ukuba iboniswa njani iintombi ngendlela eyenzekileyo kwaye ungaphenduli okufanayo.
Masibonakalise ...
Ukuvukela, abameli besiqingatha esiqingqiweyo babemi abanxulumene nabafazi babo baqwalasele ukungazi. Abasetyhini Lo msitho ubonwa kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo, kutheni impendulo ihlala ihamba kunye nokukhwaza, iinyembezi. Malunga namanenekazi akuyo nayiphi na iminyaka, ukungcatshwa kukungcatshwa okwenze owona mntu usondeleyo nomnyezela. Ke ngoko, ingqumbo nengqumbo, nto leyo ishiya umfazi. Kwaye kubo, kubo bonke ubulumko babasetyhini kunye nobuqili, bhela entliziyweni ixesha elide kunazo naziphi na ezinye iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo.
Ukubuyela kumyeni wakhe kwaye ukuzalwa kwabantwana akusoloko kuwuphathela iimvakalelo ezomeleleyo ezikwazile ukwakhanya gadalala yindoda. Kwaye yiyo loo nto, abafazi banokungcwatyelwa ngonaphakade, baphindezele. Mhlawumbi le ayisiyiyo eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuvuselela usapho, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha inkanuko yabasetyhini njengempindezelo ikuvumela ukuba ubuyise uthando opholileyo kusapho.
Impindezelo yabasetyhini yoyikisa
Le phenomenon ifumaneka ngakumbi kubomi banamhlanje. Abantu baseMyem bahlala bephendula nawaphi na amagama okanye iintshukumo. Umzekelo oqaqambileyo wempindezelo yimpendulo yokuvukela komsindo kwendoda. Kukwimeko enjalo eveza ibonakalisiwe eluzukweni lwayo. Umfazi, ukona, ukujika abe ngubuqhetseba, ukubala umyeni ongayinjongo- mzise iintlungu zokomoya kunye nentuthumbo. Kwaye, akukho nto imbi kunalo mnandi kwaye inomtsalane kwakade kube ngumtshakazi, ngoku ngoku kuyimpindezelo.
Ukuze umntu obhinqileyo athathe isigqibo malunga nenyathelo elifanayo kwaye aqalise ukuziphindezela, ufuna indoda kube kanye wenze impazamo enkulu.
Umthandi njengesixhobo sokuziphindezela
"Okanye mhlawumbi ndifumana isithandwa?", "Abafazi bahlala becinga ngenkupho yomyeni wakhe. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ukuvutha komsindo kwabasetyhini kunokunceda umfazi ngokwawo kuphela kwiimeko apho
- Iya kubuya umfazi ukuba azithandele aze ahlonele;
- Ugqala irestic kuphela njengesini esilahlayo;
- Ibhinqa liyaqonda ukuba ukuvutha komsindo nje kukuphindezela, kwaye akucwangcisi ukuqalisa ubudlelwane bothando.
Ukuba imeko yahlukile, ke olo ubudlelwane obunjalo luya kuqhubeka okwethutyana. Ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba amanani, kamva abafana baphindaphinde uvukelo, bafundile ngempindezelo yomfazi wakhe, nabafazi baphithizela okanye baya kumbona.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuxolela nokubuya? Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kwanele nje ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wexesha lokuba yonke imihla uza kubona umntu othe wakubethe, zilungiselele izitya zakho ozithandayo kunye nehempe yokukhumbula. Akukho mntu uza kunyamezela uvavanyo olunjalo.
Kwaye khumbula: Amadoda awamxoli ngentlonelo!
Kubo, kuphela umbono wokuba ibhinqa labo lingangcangcazela nge-hypothetily bangcatshe- sele liyothuka. Kwaye ke, ubushushu babasetyhini rhoqo kunamadoda ngamadoda agqiba ngokuphathelele kwisibini. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuziphindezela kunye nokungcatshwa kwawo nawuphi na amaqela ukutshabalalisa izinto zomtshato.
Ke ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba wenze inyathelo lokuvutha kombuso, kufuneka ucinge kakuhle, nokuba lufanele ukuthambeka kunye nezithuko, ukubeka ikamva losapho lwakho kwimephu.
R.S. Kwaye ... Ngaba utshintshe umyeni wam? Ayifanelanga ikona. AWUKHO wedwa. Kwaye nokuba ubuhle be-hollywood bangenakukutywina inyani yokuba bayalahlela abayeni babo abathandayo kunye namakhwenkwe.