Ukuba unayo intombi enomdla kumaxesha amnandi xa amadoda ayengabo abo bakwizilonda zenene nabakhuseli, kwaye abafazi bafuna ukunxiba ikhaya labo, kodwa besazi ukuba lo mbhalo.
Inkanuko ye-Itoversu -Bire
Ikhowudi yeSpanish ye-XIII Inkulungwane ebizwa ngokuba sisixhenxe Icandelo, elenzelwe ukumkani wase-Alfonso x ukuba aludilini, ngokukodwa amaJuda kunye nemimoya. Ubulumko bokumkani, ngokucacileyo, babonakaliswa ukuba isohlwayo sixhomekeke kwisimo somfazi. Umhlolokazi okanye intombazana yesono sokuqala sahlutha isiqingatha sepropathi. Okwesibini watshisa (kunye neMaurus okanye umYuda, ityala elicacileyo). Kwakungekho nto yokususa iSpanish etshatileyo, yonke into ithandwa ngumyeni wakhe, kwathiwa isohlwayo seMALI. Unokutsala umfazi wakhe ukuba ndifuna. Ekugqibeleni, ihenyukazi okokuqala lithe labetha isabhokhwe, okwesibini, ewe, ebulewe.
Iimbambano ezinabamelwane-iintloni kunye neMacania
KumaXesha aseYurophu eYurophu, ukungaziphathi kakuhle kwabasetyhini, okwabizwa ngokuba nguMphathi we-proixatrix okanye i-welded, yamkelwa. Ukuba umfazi wawufudumeza kakhulu nabamelwane bakhe, wagwetywa isitulo esihlafunayo. Abantu ke bathanda ukuzonwabisa, bejonge ukohlwaywa, ukuze umfazi ahlonele ulonwabo wonke umntu watsalwa ngokuhlala. Emva koko baqala ukukhupha ubukhali emanzini kwaye bakhuphe umva. Abanye babulawa ngenxa yokothuswa. Kwimithetho yesiNgesi, esi sigwebo silondolozwe de kwangowe-1967! Kwaye ixesha lokugqibela lasetyenziswa ngo-1817. Kuyinyaniso ukuba, apho ichibi laya kuba litty, kwaye lo mfazi kwakufuneka evumele. Njengenketho, kwigumbi lembambano ungabeka i-cap enehlazo-imaski yentsimbi enegag. Ukufumana ubudlelwane nabamelwane ngenxa yokupaka iqashiso, cinga malunga nolonwabo olufanayo, ukuba luzelwe kwixesha lethu.
Ukuhlonitshwa-ukunqunyulwa impumlo kwaye uthathe imali
Ukuvula isohlwayo sabafazi, abantu bexesha elidlulileyo babonisa i-fantasy. Kwamanye amazwe, baphathwa, kwabanye baxhonywa. I-Aristocrata ingathunyelwa kwimonki, kwaye yamkelwa apho, umzekelo. Ndikunye noFrederica II, abafazi baseSicilia abangapheliyo banqumle iimpumlo (nakwiindlela zabantu, ngendlela, bengazange basike nantoni na). Kwaye kuyo yonke indawo, naphi na apho bahluthwe yonke ipropathi nabantwana. Ke ukuba kwenzeke ngaphandle kwesigwebo sentambo, kwathi ulwaphulo-mthetho lwahlala lwahlala lwambini: ubusela okanye ubuhenyu.
Ngenzaliseko yetyala losapho-ukuqukumbela
Ngokwesiqhelo, abayeni babukele iimbopheleleko zabo zekhaya kwimisebenzi yabo. Ke ukuba umfazi wemqambile ukona, wakhawuleza wanceda umntu. Umzekelo, kwi-Barcelona, umzekelo, kwi-XVIII Ikhulu. Kwakukho indlu yoluleko yabafazi ababi. Iqulethe amaqela amabini abafazi kuyo. Elinye lamasela nabahenyuzo luqukwe, kwabanye abafazi, abatshatileyo abanakubanjwa ngendlela yabo. Umzekelo, baxelela malunga nenenekazi elivela kwelona luntu liphezulu, elalikhokelwa ngandlela thile kwaye likhokelwa ngokungafanelekanga - usapho lwadlula lokuba noluleko. Kwindlu yoluleko, abafazi abazila ukutya, bethandaza, basebenza ukusuka ekuseni ukuba batshone ilanga kwaye babephantsi kwezohlwayo.
Ukungavunyelwa kwendoda yenyosi-ukubetha intonga
Imithetho yamafutshane ye-Wales yamisela ukuba umyeni wayenelungelo lokubetha umfazi wakhe ngenxa yokuziphatha gwenxa okulandelayo: ukuthuka iindevu zakhe, umnqweno wehadi yakhe, umnqweno owonileyo yipropathi yakhe. Ngokwemithetho yokubetha umfazi wakhe, inokwenzeka kuphela intonga engenanto yesithupha kunye nobude besandla sakhe. Kwacingelwa ukuba kuqhubekise iifles ezintathu kuyo nayiphi na indawo, ngaphandle kwentloko. Ixesha lokugqibela kulo mthetho womthetho oqhelekileyo, umgwebi waseBritane wabhekiswa kuye ngo-1782, ngendlela, emva koko wabiza "umgwebi" womnwe "waza wagculela.
Ngombhobho wendlala-udlwengulo lokutya
IBritish Sulfur ekuqaleni kwenkulungwane ye-XX. Urhulumente wazama ukuqhubela phambili kwisigqibo. Lilonke, malunga newaka labafazi batyalwe. Iintshukumo zilwa ukuba zithathwe njengezingafanelekanga, kunye namabanjwa ezopolitiko, kwaye xa babekhanyela, baqhawula ngoxolo - benza ukuba kubekho indlala. Okokuqala, bakhululwa, kwaye ngequbuliso ngubani omnye umntu oza kufa. Kodwa emva koko bagqiba kwelokuba baye kwenye indlela. Abafazi baqala ukondla amandla. Yayingumtshutshisi wokwenyani (eneneni, i-UN ngoku itshutshiswa kwaye iyaqonda). I-PREBE YOKUTYA yaziswa njengomgaqo, ngempumlo. Abafazi bagcinwa, baxhathisa, iityhubhu azizange zize apho, zakhawuleza zangena kwi-mucous membrane, uninzi luye lwaba yinyumonia okanye lukhuni. Yaqhubeka de kwangowe-19113, xa iPalamente yamthabathela umthetho, ivumela ukukhulula eli bhinqa lasentolongweni kwaye libuyisela emva kokuba eqala ukutya kwakhona. Lo mthetho obizwa ngokuba "ngumdlalo kwi-cate-mouse".
Ngothando lwabantwana bakhe - umgubo kunye nomyeni wakhe
Ingcamango yokuba abantwana bangcono nonina, batsha nje. Ngaphambili, abantu babengacingi impilo-ntle yomntwana, kodwa malunga nokuba ngubani na ukuba abe yipropathi exabisekileyo ngendlela yomntwana. Cacisa ishishini- utata! Ibhinqa elinde kakhulu, nokuba bekungayi kuba njani na ukuba umyeni, afumane icawa uqhawulo-mtshato, abantwana bahluthwe. E-UK, umyeni akazange abathathe kuphela abantwana kuye, kodwa banokubangawuva umonakalo umfazi wangaphambili ukuba asondele kubo. Baninzi abafazi, ithemba elinje esekhaya, nokuba umyeni walwa walwa, unxila, wamthabatha imbeko. Kuphela ngonyaka ka-1839, iBritane yenza ukuba ikwazi ukushiya abantwana phantsi kweminyaka esi-7, kunye nabadala. Kwaye ukuba lo mfazi wafumana imvume ekhethekileyo evela kwi-Manceslor kwaye wayenomsindo. Isiko lokwahlula oomama nabantwana bafudukela esikhanyisiweyo, kwaye, nabo, kwafuneka bathathe amanye amaqela abakhusela abafazi.
Ukukhulelwa kwaphela-Ukwahlula umntwana, nendlu ephambeneyo
I-Bhritane nabantu baseMelika ayikho kumanyaxa athile enkulisayo, kwaye malunga neminyaka emithandathu kwaye iminyaka engama-70 eyadlulayo bakohlwaya abafazi ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwabadala. Ngelishwa, ngokungathi kunjalo, ukuba kungafihlisile "ihlazo", kwathunyelwa kwizibhedlele ezizodwa. Akukho sidingo sokucinga isibhedlele sanamhlanje. Kula maziko, ukhulelwe, umzekelo, mihla le iphupha mihla le namanqanaba aphuphayo, ahlambe yonke i-lingrie, ekhusela imithandazo emadolweni. Ukuba abafazi babekhokelele ecaweni, babenokuba neenqwelwana ezixabiso eliphantsi ukuze babonakalise itshatile. Kodwa, kunjalo, babeyazi yonke loo nto kwaye bebonke babonisa umnwe wakhe: Apha, amantombazana amabi. Abantwana bathatyathwa baza bathumela ukuba babe ngowakho. Ukuba unethamsanqa. Ukuba awunathamsanqa, umntwana unokutshabalala ngenxa yomxholo ombi. Abaguli abahlwempuzekileyo bahlala bebambelele kwisibhedlele imamaguli ixesha elide, kuba banyanzelekile ukuba basebenze kwiinkonzo zayo zexabiso. Kwaye inxenye yeminyaka emininzi isuswe apho ukuze iphaphazwe ekhaya, kuba oogqirha bezezingqondo babhengeza oonyana abangatshatanga ngabantu abangatshatanga.
Ngomsebenzi oyindoda-kulungile
Akumangalisi ukuba, abafazi abaninzi abanomona bajonga amadoda. Kwaye hayi kwizityebi ezithile okanye iinkenzi, kodwa zishukuma, amajoni okanye ababuthi besele amasele. Ngamaxesha ngamaxesha, abanye amaJane okanye uJuliet weza engqondweni ingcinga yokutshintsha iimpahla ukuba abe yindoda kwaye abhalisele, umzekelo, kwizithuthi. Kwaye, ewe, ibingavumelekanga. Bakohlwaya aba bafazi abanjalo ngenxa yenkohliso, ngenxa yokufaka impahla yabantu. Kodwa isohlwayo sasithambile: Abafazi bahlukaniswe ngesohlwayo kunye nemfuneko yokunxiba ngokundilekileyo. Uninzi lwenzeka, le nto yayikukuba abasebenzi, amajoni nabahambisi bawo baphuma bahle. Ukusebenza nzima, okuncinci kunye nokusebenza ngokugqibeleleyo.
Ukuzalwa komntwana onempawu - ukwahlukana nomntwana, isitampu se-Fascist
Ukuze ungabi sazi isigqibo sokuba onke la mabali ziziintsomi zenzulu yenzulu, zixelele ngesityholo, esithe namhlanje asisuswa ngokupheleleyo. Kwiminyaka engama-50 yenkulungwane yama-20, oochwephesha bezengqondo baseMelika bacebisa ukuba ku-Amelele noSchizophrenia, abazali banetyala, ngakumbi, oomama ababandayo. Imbono ibixhaswe kakhulu ngenkuthalo yesayensi ethandwayo nenesityholo brunoheim. Waseka iziko eChicago, elalifakwe kunyango lwabantwana ngeempawu, kwaye wapapasha incwadi yefashoni, eyathembisa oomama babaguli bakhe ngenkampu yoxinaniso. Iminyaka engama-30 yayisebenza isikolo sayo. Kwaye xa i-betelteheiim yaziphathe ngequbuliso, yavuma ukuba imbali yakhe ithandabuza, umsebenzi wesayensi awuqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo, itheyisi yayisisiseko samatyala abucala, kwaye eyona nto iphambili, isikolo sasisoyikisa, kwaye wasoyika.