Kwiminyaka engamakhulu amabini eyadlulayo, umama olungileyo wayethathwa ngulowo wazisa umntwana ukuba amoyike uThixo aze athobele. Kwiminyaka engamashumi amahlanu eyadlulayo-enye, owondliweyo, esempilweni kwaye enxibe iimpahla. Kule mihla umama ogqibeleleyo uthathwa ngumama olungileyo.
Umama ofanelekileyo ngulowo unomntwana, usempilweni, unxibe ngokucacileyo, enkosi kakuhle kwinkuthazo kunye noncedo), eziphethe ngokuzolileyo kwaye enoyolo, eqinisekile, enokuphumelela, eqinisekile, onokuphumelela. Lo ngulowo ubeka iliso kwaye nangaliphi na ixesha unobuhlobo, ugcwele amandla kunye nolwazi kwiindlela zakutshanje kwingqondo yabantwana kunye noxolo lwengqondo, kunye noxolo, uloyiko, umsindo funda abantwana kunye nokuqhekeza umphefumlo wabo.Iingcali zengqondo zingaphaya kwe-alam: Izigidi zabafazi bahlala rhoqo, i-alamu, zonakalise iimvakalelo eziyityhefu zetyala kwaye zihlazekile ukuba zingabamanzi ababi, emva koko, akukho mfuneko yokuba kuhlangatyezwane neemfuno ezidwelisiweyo. Phantse kuphela ababhinqileyo bomphefumlo womntwana ongcolileyo bazolile, kunye nokuzaliseka kwemisebenzi yoomama, kukukhathazeka kangako.
I-Pics.rg kunye neengcali zengqondo zinenjongo yokukholisa ngeendaba ezilungileyo. Ngapha koko, ungumama olungileyo. Sazi njani le nto? Kwaye wena uyazijonga kwizinto zethu.
Uyondla umntwana
Ewe, oku kuyimfuneko. Kwaye ewe, ukuba uyayenza, ungu mama olungileyo. Kuba oomama ababi abakondlanga kakhulu abantwana. Kwaye ukuba awukwazi okanye ungayazi indlela yokumnandipha umntwana ngechiza elitsha neluncedo kakhulu yonke imihla, kodwa enye i-Porridge-potato-i-potatos-pasta ngohlaselo endaweni yoko, i-on-on 'Mna unina. Umama ongendawo akanalokuhlaselwa. Siza kuphinda sikuxelele. Ungumama olungileyo, nokuba umntwana wakho "uhlala" esebenzisa iitshipsi kunye neekuki. Ayenzi ukutya okuphambili. Ayisiyonyani yokuba iikherothi eziphathwe ngamayeza okubulala izitshabalalisi, esinikezwe njengomntwana ebuntwaneni (kwaye yeyiphi ngoku ubeke umzekelo njengesampulu yokusebenza kakuhle yomsebenzi wabazali) kwakuluncedo kakhulu kune-chips. Kwaye nguwuphi umama wakho ngenxa yezi phetho-kubi?
Unxiba usana
Ukuba umama akamgxothi umntwana, akalunganga? Apha. Ungqungqa. Kwaye unxiba ntoni kwaye zingakanani iinkcukacha eziphawula inqanaba lakho kwisikali esivela kumama olungileyo ukuba afezeke. Kwaye ukuba ngoku ubakhumbule abantwana abanobutywala obungapheliyo kwiidrama ixesha elide bengahlanjwanga ngamaqhina, khumbula kwangaxeshanye unxiba abantwana abangalunganga. Phakathi 'njengegazi "kwaye" njengosapho oluhlelelekileyo "Kukho amanqanaba aphakathi aphakathi, nokuba nantoni na emiselweyo, sele ibonakalisa ukuba ngumama olungileyo.Yongeza kugqirha ngexesha
Ewe, mhlawumbi awuzange ubaleke, kwaye umntwana waphuma, okanye wenzakalise, okanye wathabatha uhlobo oluthile losulelo, okanye wavutha isandla. Ngapha koko, oku kwenzeka rhoqo nokuba nabazali abalungileyo kakhulu. Akunakwenzeka ukulawula yonke into kwaphela. Ayibalulekanga kuphela ukuba loluphi amanyathelo owathathile ngokuthintela iingozi okanye isifo, kodwa nokuba uncedo lwakho luchaphazele umntwana wakho. Umama olungileyo akanguye othathe inxaxheba yonke into ngaphambili okanye wagqiba kwelokuba alawule umntwana endaweni yendalo, ukuze angakhathazeki kwaye ayokuthatha inyathelo ngokuchanekileyo Iingxaki eziphakame kwaye zithathele ingqalelo iimpazamo zawo sele zisele zikho. Siqinisekile, sikuwe.
Ubhenela kugqirha wakho
Nokuba ngamanye amaxesha hayi ngexesha. Kodwa ukuzama. Kwaye ukuba andizami, kungenxa yokuba ndingazi ukuba yayingengolwaphulo-mthetho kwaye yayingelilo ixesha elixabisekileyo, enzelwe umntwana, kwaye ngokuchasene nomzimba wakhe Ukuba amakhosi exabisekile akazange ahlukane neyaseyisa kwaye axoxa, kwaye wena nomntu wahlala. Ngokubanzi, okanye uye kwagqirha, okanye ucimekisiwe malunga nokuzingca kwephulo, kwaye ke ayisiyonto yakho, enye ikhuthazo. Oomama abahlwempuzekileyo baneenjongo ezintle-kunjalo. Aningabalulekanga.
Wenza naye
Ndixelele, ungazigqaba njani nzulu umama ombi, i-troo esenza njani? Intoni? Ngaba awuyo yonke imihla, kwaye kanye ngeveki okanye phantsi kwemozulu? Kwaye apho iceliwe, kubhaliwe ukuba, ngaphandle kweeklasi zemihla ngemihla, abantwana beminyaka emithathu baba zii-idiots ukuya kwiminyaka emine? BUSUKU. Kwaye uyazi ukuba kutheni? Abayi kuba.Awukhe wenze naye
Uyabona, ubuchopho bomntwana bucwangciswe ukuze ubomi busoloko bufunda - kulungile, ukuba sele usempilweni, kwaye ungabekwa kwiimeko zokunqongophala kwezinto kunye nolwazi. Inqaku lesibini ekungekho mfuneko yokuba sibeke umntwana kubuhlwempu ngeenkcukacha ezibonakalayo zegumbi, apho kungabikho nto ukubambisa, kwaye akukho nto yokuva ngaphandle kokuphefumla. Kuzo naziphi na ezinye iimeko, uya kuphakamisa ubuninzi. Ukhona kwiiklasi zakhe ngolwazi lwehlabathi okanye hayi, into yeshumi, ukuba inyaniseke, ngakumbi malunga neminqweno yakho kunye nendlela yakho yonxibelelwano kunokuphumelela.
Uyamema kuye kwaye ungahlali ungonwaba
Kulungile, masithathe isigqibo, ngaba uyanxibelelana nomntwana kuphela kwimibala ephezulu okanye amaxesha ngamaxesha? Okwesibini kuye ngamnye kunokwenzeka ukuba bangeyiyo kwiitafile ezinomdla. Ewe, kwaye akukho nto imbi kakhulu ukubhenela emehlweni omntwana ocaphukileyo, ongothusayo, enomsindo, kunjalo. Ngapha koko, umama ngumntu ophilayo, oko kuthetha ukuba uneemvakalelo, kunjalo. Kwaye zimbini - zisisizathu esihle sokubonisa umntwana, njengoko unokwazi ukujamelana nale mvakalelo, njengoko unokukhathazeka kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ungazama ukwenza into ngokukhawuleza. Eyona nto iphambili ayisiyo yokuba umama unomsindo ngamanye amaxesha okanye hayi, kodwa yinto yokuba nakwezi meko umntwana ehlala ekhuselekile kwaye enokuqiniseka ngaloo nto.Uyayikhusela
Umzekelo, umzekelo, iifilimu zezinto ezoyikisayo, iisayithi ze-porn, zilangazelela ngokuhlwa ngendla, ngenxa yemeko yabo embi-yinto oyifumana kuyingozi kumntwana wakho. Nokuba uthe cwaka nangokuthambeka, kwaye ungavakali kwaye uphulukane ne-t-shirt yasekhaya esifubeni sakho, usenawo umama olungileyo. Umzekelo, ukukhokela ingozi- nendlela yokukhusela.
Uthenga kwithoyi ye-supermodic
U-Potaky, u-Inbulge, wehla kwaye ubuyekeza ngobuso bakho ubuntwana kunye neetyhubhu ezibethelelwe phantsi - ukuba kuphela ungathethi ebusweni bam! Ewe, nangayiphi na imeko, le yindlela yakho yokuqhubela phambili kwaye ndidlulise uvuyo kumntwana. Ukuba kwaye omnye umnqweno luphawu lomama olungileyo. Kwaye ukusuka kwi-ropemmodic toys ngokungathi akukho mntu unokufa.
Awuthenganga i-supermodic toys
Hayi, ukuzama, ukusasaza i-transformer-enye okanye i-dollyny dollyny ... oh, enyanisweni, ifuna abantwana banokumnandi, kodwa bayakonwabela ezinye izinto. Zikhumbule-ngokuqinisekileyo uphuthele nge-babibore okanye uhlobo oluthile lwepony, kodwa ngexesha lomdlalo nge-barbie yaseTshayina okanye intaba yenkobeni yakuthanda kwaye ivuyisane nePony.Uthi kwaye udlale naye
Ukuba ukwenzela okuninzi kwaye uqhubeka kakuhle. Ukuba kunqabile, usenzile. Isiphumo siya kuba sinyanisekile, malunga nokufanayo. Kwimeko yokuqala, umntwana uyonwabela kancinci (uqhelekile emva kwayo yonke), kodwa rhoqo. Kwimeko yesibini, kunqabile, kodwa yiyo loo nto ininzi kwaye igxile. Kwimeko yokuqala, umntwana uyayifumana imilinganiselo yakho kuba bahlala beva. Kumzuzwana-kuba utshilo kwizimo ezizaliswe ziimvakalelo ezizaliswe, ezinqabileyo kwaye iwotshi yomntwana igcina njenge-gewel enkulu. Nayo nayiphi na imeko, uya kufumana eyakhe, kwaye uya kuhlala umama olungileyo. Umntwana uziva evinjelwe xa umama elayishe kakhulu ukuba anxibelelane naye rhoqo, emva kokuba ebona ukuba angamnika ixesha, kodwa kutheni engafuni.
Uyifundisa ukunceda indlu
Ukuba nje umntwana akaphili endaweni yakho kwi-Sport Plations ngelixa uneeglasi ze-martini kwi-ship kwaye ithetha i-Whip, oku kungafundisi, kodwa ukulungiselela ukubanjwa kunye nabantu abadala kunye nabantu abadala. Ngubani ongazange awele umgangatho wobomi kumthendeleko kwihostele yomfundi? Kwabo bafana namantombazana afundileyo ukugcina uqoqosho ekhaya. Ukongeza, ithutyana elikhutshiwe ngoncedo lomntwana womntwana, unokuchitha ekunxibelelaneni nomntwana, ezinye "kwaye" ukuhamba "kwipaki ekufuphi). Inani elikhulu labantwana linceda iNdlu kwaye akukho ntlekele ingakhathazeki. Ke awuzikhathaza. Zonke ngokugqibeleleyo.
Awumfundisi ukuba ancede endlwini
Mhlawumbi ivila kwaye i-Whitefish iya kukhula. Okanye mhlawumbi akunjalo. Oku kuxhomekeke ekubeni umntwana wenze into ejikeleze indlu njengomntwana, nokuba bekuya kumnika na ukuba akhulule abajikelezileyo xa wayengumdala. Kwaye wathandana nabanye ukuba bakhwele. Inani elikhulu labafana kwaye ngakumbi amantombazana athe cwaka afunda ukusebenzisa umtshayelo kunye nesitovu esimdala, esahlula kubazali babo. Umntu akaphulukanga nethuba lokufunda, akazange ankqonkqoze ezulwini. Ngaphandle koko, umxholo wokufumana imfundo ephezulu awusekho.Uziphatha ngokungafezekanga
Uninzi kakhulu, abafazi baziva oomama ababi kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke xa abantu bebukele, kwaye umntwana, njengoko wabizwa, iimpahla ziya kuqalisa ukuqhuba ivenkile ... kuba izitrato zikho Igcwele i-curile yomama kunye neRivkanem. Ke, iikhwanyana kwaye intambo ikwenza umama ombi kunesiqhelo uninzi lwabantwana, ukwanela nokungazi kwezinye iinkalo zokuziphatha ngokubanzi okwamkelwa ngokubanzi. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uphile ngebala de kube sekupheleni kobomi "Ndingumama ombi, ndakhwaza emntwaneni osesitratweni." Oku kuthetha ukuba lixesha lokuba uyeke ukwenza njalo. Kuba ungumama olungileyo. Sikholelwa kuwe.