Ewe, kulungile wonke umntu aqonde ukuba asiyi kutshisa esihogweni sokuphuphuma amalungu esini. Kwakungekho bungqina bokuzibonela. Onke amantombazana namakhwenkwe ayenzayo, Malume, noMama, nkqu nooMama, ootata, ootatomkhulu, mhlawumbi ukuba awukhwele iibhedi elizweni. Ngenxa yokuba ungabanjwa-hayi i-onnist! Kodwa nantsi amabali abo bayenzayo.
Ulonwabo ngomlomo
Ndandineminyaka eli-14 ubudala, ndandiqala iseshoni "yeseshoni yombane epholileyo, ukuba uTata wangena njani egumbini. Khange ndiyifumane into yokutsho, ndivale amehlo am, ndafaka: "Phumani!". Ndamva emveni, ndihamba ngokuvakalayo: "Nkosi, ndiyathemba ukuba ayiyobrashi yam." Ngoku ugcina ibrashi yakhe ngokwahlukileyo kwaye akafakwanga kwindebe yonke.
Halala! Le yibhanana!
Ndandimalunga ne-13 kwaye ndandinomdla kakhulu. Olu lwazi lwalukho, kodwa indlela yokusebenzisa, andazi. Ngamafutshane, ukuze 'konwabe, "ndabeka i-bana edikiweyo. Kwaye isiqingatha se-banana sasala kum. Kwaye kwafuneka, phantse "izele" indawo enamathi.
Ikrele
Ngaba ubusazi ukuba isidoda siyakhanya ukukhanya kwe-ultraviolet? Yaziwa kum eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala, xa sasine-tusque nabahlobo.
Kanye kwigumbi lokuhlambela
Ndandineminyaka eli-11 ukuya kweli-12 kwaye ndafumanisa kuphela i-charms yokuzivalisa. Kwakungcono ukuba kwenzeke kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Ndiyazi into malunga nokungena, ngoko ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiqhubeke nothando ngaphandle kwaye ndizama ngesandi esivela kwiShampoo engena nzulu kakhulu. Andikwazanga ukuzisongela. Ke ngoko, entlokweni kunye neenyembezi zakhawuleza zaza kuMama. Ubuso bakhe babuhlukile: ivakalise umxube woloyiko, ukucekisa, ukugculela kwaye kwangaxeshanye umbuzo othi "Ungumntwana wam kanye?". Malunga nemizuzu emihlanu, ebeka i-cap. Ukususela ngoko, ubudlelwane bethu bomelele kakhulu kwaye izalamane.
I-Guacamole kubo bonke
Nje ukuba ndilungiselele i-guacamole ngepikinikini enobuhlobo kwaye emva kokuba ndongeze i-khallapeno kwaye ndigqibile ukupheka, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndisebenzise impikiswano kancinci. Ha! Ubufazi "ubanjwe umlilo" phantse ngoko nangoko. Enoba ndifuna ukuxelela ukuba ndiyiphosile ipikniki kwaye ndichithe lonke ixesha kwibhafu ebandayo, kwaye xa ndiphuma e-Ices ndigcina iphakheji nge-pubic.
Isigcawu
Ndiyakonwabela ukubopha. Kwaye kwelinye lala maxesha, umzalwana omncinci wangena kwigumbi lam. Kwakufuneka ndicacisele ixesha elide kakhulu ukuba yayinjalo.
Uphawu lwegazi
Ndandineminyaka eli-11 ukuya kweli-12 ndaye ndaphathelela ebhedini xa ndigqibile, ndabona igazi kwiminwe yam kunye namashiti, ndacinga ukuba ndiphelelwe ngumkhuhlane. Kwavela, kwakuqala ngenyanga.
Isandla eside somthetho
Xa ndandisekholejini, bendibizile ukuba ndidibane nabahlobo, ndandingafuni ukuya ezinyaweni, ndaya kummelwane ndicela ukuba andiphose emotweni, kwaye ngelo xesha yayikukutyhileka phantsi kolona chiko " Umthetho kunye ne-oda "ngelo xesha.
Amaphupha amanzi
Ndikhe ndakhanyisela le shishini kumgangatho wegumbi lokuhlambela, xa ndandingena ngequbuliso umama. Ke kusasa wathi wayenephupha elimangalisayo.
Isifundo sobugcisa
Sasinomntu ongaqhelekanga kwisifundo somzobo, ngalo lonke ixesha sagcina isandla phantsi kwedesika. Kwabonakala ngathi kum ukuba ndingaqhelekanga kwaye ndabanjiswa kwidesika. I-dude yayisoyikisa kwaye iphelelwe yiShirina eyaphukileyo eklasini, inkcenkceshela isidoda sayo yonke i-aisle. Utitshala akazange aqaphele nto konke konke de wonke umntu aqalise.
Phawula
Ndihambe nesikolo kwinqaku eligulayo. Iiyure ezine ndaliphatha izihlandlo ezili-14, ndiphantse ndazijikela ngaphakathi ngaphandle de igazi lihambe. Umama wabangela i-ambulensi kwaye wandisa esibhedlele.
Sukukhawuleze, Gratu
Ndizolile kakhulu kwigumbi lam xa umakhulu wam wangena ngequbuliso. Wandijonga ngokomzuzwana, nangona kwabonakala kum ukubaphakade. Kwaye wathi: "Owu, uxolo, hayi ngokukhawuleza." Baphuma. Sangazange sikhumbule.
Imbeko
Abahlobo bam bahlala benditsalela umnxeba kwaye batsalela umnxeba kwenye indawo xa ndikrokra. Kwaye ndilungile nje: "Ewe, yintoni? Ndixakekile yile shishini. " Kwaye baphendula ngoko nangoko: "Kwaye kutheni emva koko uthathe ifowuni ?!". Ewe, andikwazi ukuphendula umnxeba.
Ividiyo yasekhaya
Ngamafutshane, xa ndizibhale xa ndithe cwaka kwiteyiphu yevidiyo. Andikhumbuli ukuba ihamba phi ke. Kuyabonakala ukuba, kwakusekusetyenzisweni ngandlela thile, ukubhala umntu. Kwaye, kwiminyaka eli-10 kamva, umfazi wam wagqiba kwelokuba akhwaze ividiyo eyenziwe ekhaya. Zonke zinomsindo zaqala ukubukela. Kwaye embindini wevidiyo, ngequbuliso kwi "ping Ling" ndivela nelungu elinamathela kwinkqubela phambili. Ubuso bukamama kunye neendwendwe kunzima ukuzichaza. Andizange ndibaleke ngokukhawuleza ekhaya.
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