Akukho mthombo uthembekileyo wobulumko babasetyhini kunabakhulu bethu. Omama ahlala elandela amagama, kufuneka abe ngabazali abalungileyo kwaye anike umzekelo. Kwaye umakhulu wam unomvavanyo oluhle ixesha elide - kwaye unokuphumla.
Amabinzana amaninzi kagogo badidekile okanye wasinyanzela ukuba sinomsindo xa sasincinci. Kodwa ngoku sikade sikhulu, kwaye apho bendihlala ndibona umxholo wothusayo kwaye ndothukayo, ndafumanisa i-folklore yobudala kunye ne-Zen. Siza kwenza ntoni ngaphandle kwesayensi!
Umakhulu wasifundisa ukuba sikhokele kwiingxoxo. Umzekelo, xa sinxibe kwaye sanxiba izihlangu ezintsha ezisondeleyo, satsho: "y! AKUKHO BONA! Nasendleleni, asinanto yokuchasa le mpikiswano.
Abakhulu bathembisa ukuba nentiyo esempilweni kwindlela "entle". Nangona babecinga ukuba ukulihlazisa kwagwetywa, kodwa sazi ukuba ngubani na kwi-Intanethi uthi: "Nangona sisenamehlo, yithi, Ngumkhulu kaThixo."
Xa umama efuna ukuthanda nokugqibelela kunye nokuzingisa kuthi kuyo nayiphi na, nokuba sisithukuthezi esidala, kwaye asiyongxaki kwaye singeyongxaki yesifundo, Umakhulu wasifundisa ukuba sivavanye umlinganiso womzamo kunye nesiphumo : "Awunako ukunqanda, musa ukungenela i-esile." Sifundile ukuba yonke into inamaxesha ayo:
Khawuleza ulungile kwi-duarie!
Kwaye ezo lahleko zizele kwaye azinakulunga. "Iinwele ayizizo amazinyo, zikhule" umakhulu athi, xa safumana i-ters yokuqala (edityanisiweyo!) Imodeli yokufikeleleka kwenwele yaguqukayo malunga nobomi obunzima babasebenzi.
Abakhulu babesazi kakuhle ukuba ungazithumela iiNkcazo kwi-Intanethi : "Ingxaki ye-Alien ngezandla zokubuyela." Omnye wosuku lwam okanye ugqirha wengqondo, abantwana okanye uTrendy Jonga ... kulo naluphi na uluntu oludumileyo, ingcwele elandelayo! Kodwa ootayezi ngokwabo kwaye ikhompyuter ayizange ikwazi.
Umakhulu wasifundisa ukubamba : "Wasindisa, wadla!",
Ukuba awukufa kwangoko, uya kuphila ixesha elide!
Kodwa kungengakho: "Kwaye i-shit kwifosholo ayifuni ifayile yethu Nat?". Kwaye ukuthobeka nenyaniso yokuba abantu abajikelezileyo bangenjalo sifuna ukubabona. Kodwa isenelungelo lokuphila, kuba "ukuba uphume, awuyi kutsiba umva."
Oogogo basinika isigqibo malunga neziphumo : "Musa ukulinda iintathu ezintathu, shit kwi-esile ezintathu?". Kwaye amagama athi "angenzi ufelwe kwi-P ** de Deeveve" atshiswe ngokoqobo ezintliziyweni zethu njengomnxeba ovuthayo wokuthobela ukubaluleka kwendibaniselwano kunye nemigangatho yobuhle.
Umakhulu usibeka ubuso ngobuso kunye nokungazithembi : "Bukela ufuna ukuqaqamba ibhulukhwe." Kwaye uphendule kwiinguqulelo ezingalindelekanga: "Yintoni omele uyenze! Susa ibhulukhwe yakho kwaye ubaleke. " Sisalandela eli cebiso. Kuyinyani, ngokunxulumene kuphela ne-run. Ujikeleze.
Akukho mntu wayesazi indlela yokusingela njengabakhulu nje. "Nditsho nomdaniso webhere wafunda, ngandlela thile kwaye uya kulawula inaliti!" Apho, apho, khona, ibhere yokudada, sabuza kwimincili. Kwaye abagogo abasithembisisile ukuba sibonise xa sifunda nakuphi na. Ngendlela, indlela yokungakhathali, uninzi lwethu nalo nalo nalo lufunyenwe kuAdammoma.
Kudala ngaphambi kokuba zonke iintlobo ze-psychology guru Umakhulu wasifundisa ukuba sixhase ukuzithemba
Ungayidumisi, uya kuhlala njengokungena
Wasifundisa ukuba siphathe ngokunzulu izimvo ezithandwayo: "Izidenge zineengcinga!"
Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo, umakhulu wasifundisa ukuba zimbalwa izinto ezisehlabathini, ezikhathazekile. "Akwaba kungekuphelanga" -Cinga ngeli binzana, kwaye ngoko nangoko ndiyaziqonda zonke ii-suss.
Enkosi, ootatomkhulu. Umhle. Hlala nathi ixesha elide. Wamkelekile.