NgoFebruwari 16 Kwi-Orthodoxy-i-Orthodoxy-Ikhulani yoSanna ikhula, umfazi osele ekhulile owadibana noMaria nombulelo uYesu nabathetha izinto ezininzi ezintle ngaye nomntwana.
Ngelishwa, kwizibhedlele zethu zihlala zijikeleze amagama athi "okuninzi" kubalulekile ukuba ubeke iikowuti. Ukubonakala kuziva ngathi uyaziva. Ibhinqa elizalelayo okanye elalizale kuphela umntwana lidla ngokuba sesichengeni kwaye liziva lingancedi nto phambi kwenkqubo engakwenzi yonke into engenzi nto. Okwangoku, amazwi amaninzi abonakalisile ngabo, kwaye isibheno esijongene nabo.Siqokelele amabali okwenyani malunga nokuba ukuthuka kakhulu ukukhumbula oomama.
Ngokwakho ngandlel 'ithile
Sasinethamsanqa lokuba sibe nentombazana evunyiweyo kwiwadi. Ukuba ibingeyiyo yedwa, ngekhe sazi ukuba senze ntoni nabantwana ... kuyo yonke imibuzo, umongikazi waphendula wathi: "Kungoku ndiza kuxelela umntu ngamnye! Ungamashumi amane, ndindedwa. Ungahamba! "
Isihogo
Mna ukusuka emva kokukhohlela kwiSebe lePathology labafazi abakhulelweyo, kwiwadi, apho babesele bekhona abafazi abalele ... I-Bad Babe yayindim kuphela! Xa kwaziswa kutya, kwamehlo amathathu Amehlo avuthayo, andithiya kwintlungu oomama basijongile, kwaye kwakusebusuku nje. Babenamabele apheleleyo obisi kwaye kwakungekho bantwana ... andinamazwi okuchaza uxinzelelo kwiwadi. Yayisisihogo kunye nabo, nakum.Imfundo ethile yezonyango
Iqhutywa ngecandelo leCesarean. Ngaphambi kokukhutshwa, intyatyambo yomyeni, endandiyinika lula. Saphosa i-postopeative kumgangatho wesithathu ngaphandle kwesinyusi. Iphelile ukuba ndifuna eli phepha kwigumbi elinegumbi ecaleni kwazo kwaye ndizisele ngokwakho.
Ukuhanjiswa kwiTroykova
Ngokukhutshelwa kwabantwana, bambathisi, kwaye umntwana wam wakhutshwa, ebambe ngaphantsi kwengalo. Intloko yayiyintloko. Ndabaleka ndinesikhwama ukuba ndisuse.Ibhinqa, kwaye sinendlela!
Ndatyalwa ngenkani, ngaphandle kwento yokuba ndincancise, akunakwenzeka ukuba ndondle ngenxa yentsebenzi yebeleko yebele. Emva kokuguqulwa ngokutsha, ukuguqulelwa ngokutsha, uhambo lwalowo nalo lonke lwaqala, ukusuka koogqirha ukuya kwi-sweethe ukuze basikhumbule isifuba sam. Ndiqale ukuxhathisa, kwaye emva koko nje imikhosi iphelile. Ngenxa yoko, ndiphakame ndaya endlini, ndinesifuba esiluhlaza, iintlungu, apho ndandingafuni ukuphila kwaye ndingoyiki i-lactostas. Kwicwecwe kwi-lactation kwisibhedlele sokwamama, bayala: "Musa ukulula", nangona amabala amahlanu esifubeni abonakala ngamehlo. Ke iingcali ze-mammologists ezimbalwa ziqinisekisile ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ndiyondle.
Kutheni kufuneka wazi into?
Xa ndazala umntwana, ndaxelelwa ukuba ngenxa yokuhamba kwamanzi emntwaneni, usuleleko nokuba idluliselwe kwi-neoaaatogy yelinye icala lesixeko. Baceba ukuguqulela ngengomso, kuba bathatyathwe kwiidiliya ezingafakwanga njengezigadi, kwangaloo mini kwakungekho ndawo, ndazala ngokuhlwa. "Thatha ngomso. Ebusuku kwi-Ving eyahlukileyo iya kubanda. " Ngentsasa elandelayo ndibonise umntwana, baphendula ngelithi engenguye ... kwenzeka ntoni kum, kunzima ukuyichaza. Ndagqiba kwelokuba wafa ngobusuku bonke. Kwaye yajika ukuba umntwana athathwe izolo kwaye akazange andithande ...Umthungo
Kwigumbi sibathandathu, omnye ulinde okwesibini. I-Seam Seam evela kwi-cssarean yokuqala. Iincoko: I-Caesarili ngoNovemba 7, kwiminyaka embalwa eyadlulayo, ugqirha wayenxila. Wahlala egqogqa, yayiyingcwangu. Kwaye xa wenzayo, wayesemsebenzini kwaye wamjonga. Uyabuza: "Kwaye ngubani owenze ntoni?" Cwaka.
Amashumi amahlanu kancinane
Bendingenathamsanqa kakhulu kunye ne-anesthesiologist. Ukuzalwa kwaqala ngokuhlwa, ingcinezelo yayiqhutywa ngamandla kwintlungu. Banikela ukhuphelo lwe-anestheral, bathi uxinzelelo luya kubuyela kwisiqhelo, kwaye ndavuma. I-anesthesiologist ilele, ngokukhawuleza inamathele kwinaliti yakhe kwaye ishiywe. Andazi ukuba wakwenza njani, kodwa kanye kanye kwisiqingatha somzimba savunywa. Khohlo. Ngasekunene, kukuhlukumeza ubuhlungu. Emva koko waphinda wabizwa, kwaye waphinda wavuma kuphela isiqingatha sasekhohlo somzimba. Kwaye emva koko ... Ndilibele ukutsala inaliti kum, kwakufunyanwe xa ndandikwizinkomo kwipaseji emva kokuzala. Kwaye xa ndibuze ukuba inaliti isusiwe.
Kwaye ndenze i-EPISOTORORTY kwaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndingaphenduli, nditshonile. Bambeka unyana osandul 'ukuzalwa esifubeni, bathi, Aziyi kuyilahla endlebeni yakho. Imizuzu engama-30 yanyikima ngenxa yoko, andizange ndisasaze, ukuze ndingasoyiki umntwana.
Kulungile?
Ndaziswa namanzi akhutshwayo nge-33. Ngokwamkela, ndadibana nomongikazi ngamazwi: "Yintoni? Khange akhathaze? "Nasemva kokuzala kwakufuneka abizelwe ukuphathwa gadalala emva kwe-Episiotomy, kodwa elityelweyo. Ngamaxesha athile, ndiye ndaya kulungisa kunye nemiyalelo, kuba kwafuneka ndinyamekele umthungo wendlu ngokwayo. "Kwaye uphi kanye kanye?" Ndibuzile. Umongikazi waphendula wathi: "Ndazi phi?" Ewe, ukuba andiphendulanga ngemvano-siphelo, ndinolwazi olunjalo kwaye ngaphandle kwawo.
Umfazi into oyiqondayo
Kwakukho isoyikiso sokuchitha kakubi, ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha. Usozulu wafakwa kwi-cervix. Bendilele kulondolozo. Kwiiveki ezingama-32 ndidlulisele amanzi. Ndaye ndathi, Ndaziva: "Mfazi, ayongawo amanzi. Oku kuyandwa! " Ngokungathi kunzima ukwahlula amanzi kunye noThrish! "Thatha i-smear, ngoMvulo kuya kuba sisiphumo." Ngeli xesha, ngoMgqibelo, entanyeni ye-Seam, andijonganga. Ndabekwa phantsi kwe-dropper-akukho lula ukuchaza, kodwa ukuthatha umlo ukuze ndingazukubenzanga kolu tshintsho. Okulandelayo kwintloko yakhe ibanjwe, i-Seam yaqala ukudubula. Babeka i-fenatatali, kwaye ngokulandela ngokungqalileyo ... kwaye andikwazi ukubiza nabani na. Ekugqibeleni, ndacela ukuba ndinjalo kwaye kutheni unwele lwam alususwanga. Babesithi ngoko bendingaphambi kokuzala, babona ukuba intloko yomntwana esele inyibilika. "Ukubaleka etafileni!" Ke, ngentloko ezalwa, ndahamba ngeenyawo etafileni. Kwakukho iintsuku ezilishumi kwi-Ivl kunye nezinto ezininzi. Ngoku kwintombi ye-cereral palsy.
ukuhamba
Xa ndabelake okokuqala, ngo-2002, ndenziwa ngemilo evela kumgangatho weshumi elinesithathu ngeenyawo ukuya eRodzal. Yayoyika kakhulu.
Kanye apha
Ukulala kwi-pathology kunye nomntwana wokuqala. Ingxaki yayikukugqibela kwe-gustosis yamabhinqa okhulelweyo. Uxinzelelo, iprotein kumchamo, ukudumba. Intloko yeSebe (kwaye kwangaxeshanye ugqirha ongugqirha), inenekazi liseti enkulu, ngalo lonke ixesha, ukuya kwiwadi, landixelela ukuba ngobungqingqwa bam, kuba amanqatha am Umntwana njalo njalo ngamehlo. Oku kunjalo ngaphandle kwento yokuba ukukhulelwa yonke into into yokuqala, ndandiyifumana kwingingqi ye-7-8 kg.Kwaye uqhubekile
Xa ndazala unyana wam ngo-2008, yonke into yahamba kakuhle de ndaba nethamsanqa ebhedini kwiwadi. Isitulo esinamavili saba ngaphezulu kwebhedi, andikwazanga ukukhwela, kwaye i-sudishka yandizala, ndingoyiki. Njengokuba, ndisisidenge kwaye nakuphi na ukukhula. Ndiviwe. Kodwa ndidiniwe emva kokuzalwa komntwana, ukuba, xa, ekugqibeleni, ndaye ndawaqhuba nomzimba wam, ndalala nje.
Ewe, ntombazana!
Uxolo ngeenkcukacha ezibuthathaka, sonke sinike i-laxative emva kokuzala. Ngaxeshanye. Ngomnye, uxolo, indlu yangasese kwiwadi kunye nokungakwazi ukufika kwenye indawo. Ukunyamezela emva kokuzalwa komntwana, nayo, ngandlel 'ithile akunjalo.
I-P.S.
Umntu othile uya kuthi ngala mabali: kwaye oko, wonke umntu uzale. Kodwa xa silungiselela eli nqaku, kuba ngamnye wamabali othuleyo (kwaye kukho okungaphezulu kubo, phambi kwakho kuphela-kuphela) kweza amabali anesithukuthezi okanye iimpendulo: "Uxolo, kodwa andikwazi kwanto ndichanekile nam ".
Ke ukuba into efana namabali eyenzekileyo, ayisiyo "yonke into ihamba kakuhle" kwaye hayi "yonke into yokuzala." Bekubi, ngokungachanekanga, ububi kwaye unelungelo lokucaphuka, jerk, khumbula ulwaphulo mthetho. Uburharha abuqhelekanga.
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