Ukufunda malunga nokungathembeki kwentanda yakho, abafazi baziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Abanye abangalindelekanga ukuba baqeqeshelwe iihekteri, abanye bafuna ukungafumani imbangi, owesithathu kwaye bakhetha ukuthulisa ingxaki, boyike ukuhlala bodwa. Ngamanenekazi amafutshane, amanenekazi amaninzi kubungakanani beemvakalelo bakhetha umgca ongalunganga wokuziphatha. Kweli nqaku, siza kukuxelela indlela ekungakwazi ukuzikhokela, ukufumana olo thando lunothando ecaleni.
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Ukwahlukahlukana okuqhelekileyo. Umfazi uyazi ukuba umyeni uyatshintsha, ngaphezu koko, zonke iinkcukacha zenzekayo - ngubani inkosikazi, apho ihlala ithule kwaye yenza ngathi ayikho into eyenzekayo
Yithumele, umfazi oku ke wazithoba emehlweni endoda, nakowekhe. Nokuba emva kobugwenxa bomyeni wakhe, umtshato usakwazi ukusindisa, iya kubiza imigudu enkulu yokuziphatha kunye nelahleko kumfazi. Akunakwenzeka ukuthula nangayiphi na indlela!
Rhoqo abasetyhini bayoyikisa ukuba xa kuhle kwaye i-ultimatum "okanye mna, okanye", "uya kumka. Nangona kunjalo, ngokweenkcukacha-manani, ukuba umntu akamshiyi usapho kwiinyanga ezi-6 emva kokuqala kweentlobano zesini ecaleni, emva koko ukhetho lwesibini lukhethwe kuphela kwiimodeli ezi-100 kuphela ze-100.
Umgangatho owomeleleyo woyika utshintsho lwekhadinali, oko kukuthi, oku kuthetha ukumka kusapho, apho yonke into yakhiwa khona kwaye yabambelela. Isiqinisekiso siya kuba ziinkcukacha-manani ezifanayo - ukusuka kwezi zisi-8 zasekhohlo, ezi-4 kungekudala zibuya umva. Ke ngoko, akufuneki woyike le nto.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukuba, ukrokrela ukunganyaniseki kweqabane lakho, umfazi uqala ukumcinezela, cwangcisa utshekisha kunye nezicoci, ke indoda ifuna ukubaleka, kodwa ivela kumfazi ongapheliyo.
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Rhoqo, ulwazi malunga nokuvuthelwa kwentlupheko yakhe intanda 'kwizinto ezilungileyo' iza kubasetyhini. Kwaye ukuba kwenzeke oku, akufuneki uqale kwangoko - cinga ngendlela oyenzayo ukuba ulwazi luthembekile? Yakha imeko embalwa yomsitho kwintloko yakho - zama ukungaqokeleli iimvakalelo. Ngaba ukulungele ukuqonda umntu wakho kwaye uxolele? Ukuba impendulo iyodwa, emva koko impendulo kwi-venction kunye nokuhleba kokuhleba kufuneka kufanelekile. Kule meko, akufuneki uthethe nendoda malunga noloyiko lwakho, kuba isigqibo senziwe kwaye yintoni umahluko ngoku, nokuba unento enye yomfazi okanye hayi. Kulula kakhulu ukuhlala noluvo lokuba zonke ezi "zinesinelizi kakuhle" azikho kunomona, kodwa kwakungekho mandla. Liphilisa ixesha, liya kulityalwa.
Ukudibana nomntu wesithathu
Ukoyisa umnqweno wokudibana nomntu ongcolileyo kwaye wenze kube nzima kwiinwele, kodwa kuyanyanzeleka ukuba uyenze. Akukho ngongoma kule. Ukongeza, emva koko, nethuba eliphezulu, linokucingelwa ukuba indoda iya kwenye, kuba Uya kuba nemvakalelo yokuba netyala phambi kwakhe. Ngale ndlela, umgangatho oqinileyo ucwangcisiwe - le mvakalelo ibanika ukonwaba.
Ukuba umfazi onothando uhlala ekhaya, ukuba yonke intsasa yakhe wasebenzisa indoda ukuba asebenze, atyelele amazwi athambileyo kunye nokuya kwinkosikazi yakhe, phambi kwenkosikazi yakhe kunye nosapho. Nokuba ubomi obusondeleyo ecaleni kwecala luya kubandezeleka ngenxa yale nto. Kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha, izinto ezinjalo ziya kuza.
Wema ke ebusweni bakhe, enenkosikazi yakhe, wayicekisa, phambi kwakhe, uya kuyibeka ngegorha, ulidlelane. Kwaye ucinga ukuba ngubani kule meko kuya kukhetha into oyithandayo?
Iliso ngeliso
Ukuziphatha okunjalo kufana nentetho: Iindlebe zakhe ngamehlo kagogo. Kubunzima obuninzi bamatyala, kwimizamo yokuziphindezela emntwini, abantu besenza mandundu. Ukungathembeki koMntu wakho othandekayo kuhlala kuyintlekele, kodwa kumnqweno webhinqa ukuya kuwo wonke umhlaba kwaye uyalela iimpondo, italente ayinxanelwa ukuba ingabanjiswa nguye Umkelekile kwaye wamkelekile. Ukungazithembi okufutshane akunjalo akuphelanga le ngxaki, kodwa inokuyonakalisa. Kwakufika nje impindezelo, imvakalelo yokutshabalalisa iya kuvela - ukwazisa kuya kuza ukuba umyeni akazithandi, kwaye i-mver isetyenziswe nje. I-Psychology psychology yengqondo yabasetyhini icwangciswe ngendlela yokuba emva kokuba i-frietient ivele ingekaze ivele ingcinga yokuba usebenzise indoda, uninzi ngakumbi. Ke ngoko, ayisiyiyo inketho yokuphendula ingcambu ngequbuliso.Uxolelo kufuneka lufanelwe
Nokuba okuqala kuqala uthathe isigqibo sokuxolela ugqirha, akufuneki uyenze kwangoko. Ukuba uyamxolela ngokukhawuleza, uyakuqonda oko kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kuba uyabaxabisa, okuthetha ukuba angakoma, kwaye uya kuxolelwa. Hayi, kubalulekile ukuba uvelise imvakalelo yokuziva unetyala kuyo, kwaye oku kuya kufuneka udlale intsebenzo encinci, kuphela ngaphandle kwezityholo kunye nezityholo.
Unganyibilikisa kwi-vest kumama, udadewethu okanye intombi, emva koko ube nemvakalelo yokuzithemba, ukuze umnike isigqibo sokuba uza kwenza into anokuyenza ngolwalamano lwakho. Nantoni na oyithethayo, eyona nto iphambili kukuba waphinda wakufuna. Ukuqala kwakhona, uya kuvuma ukummema ukuba akunyamekele - ukhuselwe kwiindawo zokutyela, enze izipho, cula iiSerestan phantsi kwefestile, njl. Ukuba kugqitywe ukuqalisa yonke into kuqala, emva koko yonke into ifanele iqale kuqala-ukusuka kumgqatswa kunye nexesha elithenjiweyo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda lonke uxanduva lwesigqibo eso. Ukuba uyamxolela umoni onomdla wokuthanda kwakho, ngekhe, emehoko kwaye ungaphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko azikhumbuli iMfazwe yakhe, phantsi kolawulo lwehlalo. Isigqibo senziwe-akukho kubuya, libale ixesha elidlulileyo, hlala kule nexesha elizayo.