Ezinye izinto kuya kufuneka zilumkise malunga nosuku xa wacwangcisa umntwana kuphela. Hayi, ngaloo mhla, xa uqhelanisa nenyani yokuba ngenye imini, mhlawumbi uya kulawula umntwana. Ekunene esikolweni okanye kwi-kindergarten.
Kuya kufuneka uqale uhambe nomntwana wakho, nayo yonke into, umzuzwana ngamnye uqala ukuhlekisa malunga ne-nanny entle. Nangona ucheba. Nosana, ngendlela, luyimimandla. Ewe, mhlawumbi awukakwazi ukujamelana kakuhle ... kodwa uyavuma "Owu, utata omncinci!" Kuya kukunceda uhlangabezane nemeko.
Uya kuDizzy uhlala uncuma amantombazana amahle. Kodwa akukho ngqiqweni ukomiswa. Le yinto abasabela kuyo umntwana. Uyi-app kuphela. Xa uyiqonda le nto, ukuzithemba kokuzithemba ngephanyazo, njengoko ivukile ngaphambili.
Ijika ukuba yonke into ilinde ubuchule bakho kwezona zinto zingalindelekanga. Ngenxa yokuba uyindoda notata. Umzekelo, ukuba uya khetha ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye ubeke izinto ukuya kwi-cottage. Kwaye hayi, musa ukuthembela kwizakhono zomdlalo wakho kwiTETRIS. Akukho nto kwinto yokuba kufuneka ugungxule esitratweni, ayibonakali ngathi yi-cubes ecacileyo ye-cubes, kwaye, nangaphaya koko, akukho nto izayo ukuwa kunye nokukhululeka kwindawo elandelayo yeengxowa kunye neephakeji.
Ngaphambili, akukho mntu unokukubetha ngokungakhathali? Ulibale. Phambili iminyaka emininzi xa kufuneka udilize imihla ngemihla. I-sublight inamathela kweyona ndawo ikufutshane emhlabeni. Ngelixa lo mntu akafundi ukugcina umkhondo wezandla kunye nemilenze yakhe.
Okokuqala ngqa kwiminyaka emininzi uya kuqaphela indlela ezoyikeka ngayo ezothusayo zoluntu. Malunga nonyana wakho oya kuba minyaka le.
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokunxiba eBabu Yagu. Okanye iTepusik. Okanye inkosazana. Kwaye awuyi kufumana into engaqhelekanga ngayo.
Uya kuphindezela ngequbuliso ngokuthenga. Kuba zininzi kakhulu iithoyi ezipholileyo kunye nevenkile yomlingo ophupha ukuba ubuphupha ubuntwana! Ewe, ewe, kulo mfanekiso-iqela le-metallic ngohlobo lwabalinganiswa bepaki esemazantsi. Ewe, ewe, kwizilayidi. Sele uziva ngathi ungumntwana osilelayo kwisilayidi?
Ngoku iya kuthetha ngawe: "Owu, data joke!" Ngengqondo ongayithandi kakhulu. Kwaye inyani yokuba ukuphela kwe-joke yakhe ayithandayo ihlala ichaza i-chorus kunye nawe kunye nemvelaphi engaqhelekanga ngokubanzi kwaye ayilunganga.
Nayiphi na ingxaki endlwini yingxaki yakho. "Utata, kwindlu yangasese!" "Tata, umntu uphefumlela phantsi kwebhedi!" "Bawo, ndizihlambile, ndihlambe, kwaye ngequbuliso kwaphela i-crane, nasemanzini yokuhlambela." Kwaye ewe, iimeko ezimbini zokuqala ngoku nezibangelwa yokwenene, ngokuba abantwana ningoyiki amanzi. Babenezikhephe ezikuyo, bengekazifumani ukuba akuyi kuba kubi ukukwazisa nge-crane.
Ngaba Ubomi Benkcubeko? Imatshisi yezemidlalo? I-Drips Naphi na apho? Ukususela ngoku, 40% ye-mali kunye nexesha iza eyachithwayo kuthengwa soda, uzila ukutya, kwakhona soda, kwamalweyile imanzi, kangangokuba ubuso kunye izandla wakowenu emva kokuba soda aba flip izibawu, ezinye isalfure, iminqwazi kundikhumbuza baseball, soda kwakhona kunye yangasese. Ke wena uya kuya ngasese kwemizuzu engamashumi amabini emva kokuqalisa umdlalo, ukusebenza okanye ifilimu. Yiya, hamba, ungathandabuzi. Sele uyazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni xa uthatha isigqibo sokubonisa ubunzima kulo mbandela.
Uza kufunda ukwakha ubuso engaqhelekanga kwaye wenze izandi engaqhelekanga. Kumangalisa kakhulu ukuba sineentloni zokubonisa.
Kuya kuba nzima ukunxibelelana nabahlobo abangenamntwana. Akukho nto ichazayo. Ukuba awutshata, awuyi kuqonda. Ukuba sele uTata, wakhawuleza waqonda.
Uya kuphazamisa umqolo wakho ngaphezulu kwesinye. Ukwenza umntwana, ukuphosa umntwana ngelixa ephethe umntwana ngelixa ecela ukuba awele elutheni othile umgodi. Kwaye kunjalo kanye ekufuneka udlulisele umngxunya kunye nomntwana, iingxowa ngomda wokutya emntwaneni kunye nokuhambisa ingubo yokukhupha umntwana onamathele. Kwaye xa baya kutsiba kwaye bakhwaza "isilumkiso, ngononophelo!" "Bamalunga nomntwana, hayi ngomqolo wakho." Kwaye wena, oliphawu, akasayi kufumana nto ingaqhelekanga kwaye ayilunganga kule nto.
Uza kufunda umdla wayekwazi zilinganisa xa umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo afuna ukukuxelela malunga umyalelo yehlabathi, malungana inkwenkwe kwiqela parallel, impumelelo yalo imidlalo yekhompyutha yamagama lincinane okanye alumkileyo ngutitshala Vasilisa Gennadyevna.
Ndikholelwe ukuba ngabantwana abatyhafileyo nabazizidenge? Ulibale. kungekudala uya kungena incasa, nokukhala acaphuke "Tata-Aa!" Kubantwana, ikhitshi okanye iholo iya kuba ngumculo omnandi weendlebe.
Sele imele indlela yokwazisa abantwana kwityala lakho olithandayo? Ulibale iminyaka elishumi. Ukufihla yonke into kuyabiza kuwe, yonke into oyithandayo. Iimodeli zeenqanawa, iitanki, iinqwelomoya okanye into onayo apho. Phezulu kwenqaba kwigumbi lokugcina. Iinqaba ezintathu. Yiya ebusuku kuphela kunye nesonka. Inzala yakho yosulelekile. Kuphela ngabantwana baya kubonakala ... bayayonakalisa kakhulu. Ndikholelwe, ukuba imifuziselo yakho emangalisayo baya kuhlala phambi, uya kungekudala kakhulu kufunda ukuba bakhale, hayi oneentloni abaphulaphuli.
Ewe kunjalo, uya kuba ngoyena Mtata ongxamisekileyo nonocingayo. Kodwa amaxesha ngamaxesha ngenxa yakho, ngokuchanekileyo, ngenxa yakho, umntwana uyakufumana ukuqhekeka. Kwenzeka nje. Sukuzibala kakhulu. Kodwa musa ukuphumla.
Uya kujika kubayise. "Ndingahlala ndihlala ndizolile imizuzu emihlanu?" Ndijongeka njani njengesipaji emilenzeni? Uhlambe izandla zakho? imizuzu emihlanu wegqitha isiqingatha seyure eyadlulayo, mna ukucima ukukhanya, ukulala! " Kwaye ewe, awusoze ube njalo nokuqonda ngasinye omnye kuBawo, njengokuba ngoku.
