Ngaba ukhulele kumabali malunga neCinderella, imhlophe emhlophe kunye nokulala? Sika ubomi bakho bukhangele ubudlelwane obuhle, bukholelwa ukuba bakwindawo ethile, ewe, kwaye bacaphukile ukuba ababafumani? Sukuzibekela ityala-le template igonyiwe iminyaka emininzi, kwaye sasikholelwa kuyo.
Ukuba usesakholelwa kwiintsomi, jonga ngeenxa zonke: Bangaphi abantu phakathi kwabantu endibaziyo bahlala kunye ixesha elide kwaye ngovuyo? Mhlawumbi akunjalo kangako, kuba iintsomi ze-fairy azifaniyo nobomi bokwenyani, kwaye inzame yokuzama omnye kubo i-prood isukele.Ukubambelela kwiingqondo ezifudumeleyo kunokutshabalalisa ubudlelwane bakho. Kwaye ngendlela efanayo ungalukhumbula abo bantu ubuyakha ubuhlobo obugcweleyo, kungenxa yokuba abayifezekisi izimvo zakho malunga neyona ilungileyo. Akuyi kuba nombulelo ongazenzisiyo umntu onawe, usondele, njengokuba yena engenasikhulu.
Iintsomi ezintathu ezintle ezithintela ukuba ungathandani ngokwenene uqokelelwe koku.
1. Ukukhangela iNkosana
Qhubeka kwihashe elimhlophe ecaleni kwe-Mnu. Okanye i-Dedy Ady- Ngaba iyinto oyifunayo? Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule "Ewe," zibuze ukuba yintoni enokukunceda ufezekise eyona nto uyifunayo. Ufuna ntoni kubudlelwane? Ufuna ntoni ebomini?
Zibuze ukuba zithini ngolwalamano olufanelekileyo? Hayi komnye umntu, oko kukuthi. Mhlawumbi uyayixabisa inkanuko ye-adventure kwiqabane, okanye ufuna nje ukuba abelane nawe amakhaya amakhaya? Jonga ukuba yintoni kanye kanye oyifunayo kubudlelwane, unganikeli ingqalelo kwizimvo zabanye abantu, emva koko uya kuyifumana into oyifunayo.
2. Ukukhangela kwisiqingatha sesibini
Uninzi lukhangela umphefumlo wesalamane, amawele abo ngokomoya, abesiqingatha sabo sesibini. Ukukhangela kwesiqingatha sesibini kubandakanya umbono wokuba injongo yolwalamano kukufumana iqabane elifanelekileyo. Kodwa yintoni le nto: Ukuba ufuna umphefumlo onesisindo, iqabane lomphefumlo, indoda ekuqondayo ukusuka kwisiqingatha, kwaye ungayifumani, uyakuqala ukuzigweba kwaye cinga ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuwe.Kuthekani ukuba endaweni yokukhangela, ngaba uza kuqala uzibuza imibuzo? Usenokubuza, umzekelo: "Ukuba bendiyindoda, ubuya kuba yintoni ubomi bam?" Okanye: "Ukuba bendikule ndoda, ubomi bam bungathini na kwiminyaka emi-5, i-10 okanye engama-20?"
Ukuba uzibuza le mibuzo, uya kuqalisa ukuqonda ukuba ubomi bakho buya kuba njani ecaleni kweyona nto ilungileyo. Ngoku ungayithelekisa nento oyifunayo ebomini, kwaye ukuba imifanekiso ayihambelani, akunakulindeleka ukuba ibe yeyona nto iphambili kuwe.
3. Uhlangulo lweMishini
Mhlawumbi awukhangeli inkosana kwihashe elimhlophe - uyazi ukuba ayikho. Kodwa ngaba ukhe wazama ukuthathela ingqalelo indima ethi "Umgcini wobomi"? Ngaba ingcinga ayiza kuwe "Lo mntu unengxaki, kubonakala ngathi ndinganceda"? Abantu bahlala benza le mpazamo xa becinga ukuba banokumnceda umntu obhetele - oko kukuthi, abe ngulowo uza kuba njalo, emehlweni abo.
Ukuba uqhagamshelana neqabane lakho ngale ndlela, kudala okanye kamva utywe-emva kwayo yonke into, andithandi ukumamela isimilo okanye uthelekiso nomntu. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ulungele ukuba kufutshane nomntu onobudlelwane naye, ngaphandle kokuzama ukuyilungisa ngokwakho.
Ukuzinikela kwiitemplate ezintle akuvumeli ukuba ubone amathuba alungile phambi kwakho. Ukholo kwiyona nto ingekhoyo ingabakuthintele ekufumaneni oko ukufunayo. Khupha umbono wolwalamano oluhle, ungalindi de i-fairy thele izokundwendwela kwaye uqalise ukwenza into oyifunayo.