Rhoqo, abasetyhini bafuna ukutshata ngokukhawuleza ukuba bangaphantsi kokukhusela umntu onamandla nothembekileyo. Yiyo nje "yonwabile", ngakumbi umtshato wokuqala uphume kunqabile. Kwaye konke ngenxa yomnqweno "ngokukhawuleza", abafazi balibale ngeyona nto ibalulekileyo malunga nayo.
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Akukho mfuneko yokuba utshatele kuphela ukuze ubaleke kwiingcambu zomthonyama-Kunzima ukufumana umtshato ube mbi ngakumbi kunento egqityiweyo ngokuba mncinci kakhulu. Kwandula ke, kwelinye icala, imida iya kuqhubeka iqhekeza imida, kwaye nomyeni omncinci owetsha, owonwabela indima yakhe 'kwiNtloko yoSapho. "
Okokuqala kufuneka uzifumane kobu bomi-phendula imibuzo "Ndingubani", "Oko ndikufunayo ebomini," "ndiza kuya kwinjongo yam" nayo yonke into enesitayile Kunye nentonga engaphakathi.
Kuya kufuneka ukuba uzame isondo kuyo yonke imida yayo ivumelekile. Awonwabanga abo basetyhini abanokubakho nje ngamadoda ali-1-2 "eziphakathi", enkosi abaye baphoxekile ngokusingisileyo kwaye baqhubeke nokuxelisa ulonwabo, emva kwexesha, xa sele ugqibile ... "
Kuya kufuneka usenzele ubomi obufanelekileyo kwinkcazo yakho- ukuphila okungenani iminyaka embalwa - ewe, ewe, iminyaka yandim, hayi mna. Lungiselela kuphela oko uthandayo, hayi izikrelemnqa "ezimnandi, njengonina." Qonda kwaye wenze indlu enemeko yakho, kwaye hayi "ii-Dumbbells ziya kuma apha, kwaye apha phandle kumatshini wokuthunga-zithintele apha."
Ifanele ifundwe ukuba ihlonipha, umnqweno wabo kunye nobomi, hayi omnye umntu. Ngaba ufuna ukuchitha ngokuhlwa ukuze ubukele uthotho lwakho oluthandayo ngekomityi yeti yeti ye-tegrant? Wamkelekile! Kwaye ungazami ukwanelisa umnqweno wakhe, kuba ngequbuliso "watshintsha ingqondo, ezo zicwangciso zitshintshile, ndiza kuza kuwe ngoku" umntu obhinqileyo, endinayo Ukunikezela."
Khumbula, akukho nenekazi lokukhanya lomtshato alizanga - ligcwele ngabo kwaye lingabi naxabiso.
Ngendlela, musani ukuxabisa kuphela iminqweno yakho, kodwa nayo iyathandabuza. Khumbula ukuba unelungelo elipheleleyo lento engafuni kwaye ungakwenzi. Ukuba awufuni ukuba abantwana ngoku, okanye awufuni ukuya kwintlanganiso nabahlobo bakhe, ukutyelela umama wakhe, ukuba ungumchasi wesini esifana nesini okanye ngokwemvelo. Awudingi ukuba uze emqaleni wam kwaye unyamezele, ke ihlala ikhula. Ukufundisa ukupela 'upelo' ngaphandle kokufumana isazela nangengxaki. Yintoni eza kucinga okanye ukuba abanye ziingxaki zabo.
Yabona ukuba umsebenzi wobuqu ubaluleke ngakumbi kuwe ngaphezu komsebenzi weqabane. Akukho sidingo sokwakha inyathelo elinye lesibini, ngakumbi ukuba lo msebenzi ngulo. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuqhuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali ngokwakho, musa ukugcina kakhulu, kodwa ungasasazeli ngemali. Isakhono ngasinye sithathele ingqalelo imali oyisebenzisileyo kwindoda kwaye simthandane. Akukho mfuneko yokuba icinge ukuba ihlawule iBhili ekwi-Ivenkile yokutyela kwaye kufanele ukuba ibe nombulelo ongazenzisiyo kwaye ngoku kuyimfuneko ukuhlawula isondo- hayi! Uchithe imali kwi-cosmetics, ukususwa kweenwele, ukunxiba, izihlangu, njl. Kwaye konke ukuze avele phambi kwakhe ngobuhle-yena, ongcono, echetyiwe kwaye ephupha ngemimoya.
Vbey ngokwakho - ubungakanani bubaluleke kakhulu! Phila ngaphandle kwentloko yengcinga yokuba "uthando yeyona nto iphambili esinayo, kwaye ndiza kuyifundisa ukuze sibe nesondo esipholileyo kwaye yonke into izakulunga." Ayizukufumana!
"Uthando" luya kuwa kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba inqanaba lokungaguciwe ngokwesondo liya kudlula yonke imigangatho evumelekileyo.
Funda ukuthanda izinto ezemidlalo - Nokuba ayitsali konke, zama nje ukufumana lowo kuya kufuneka azingcamle. Kwaye, ewe, silungiselele inyani yokuba indoda iya kuthintela ezi klasi ngandlela zonke.
Ngelixa ukhululekile- funda ulwimi lwangaphandle. Kubonakala ngathi akukho xesha laneleyo - abajamelana nokunqongophala kwexesha, ke lo ngumfazi wakhe kunye namatye asandulelayo.
Funda ukuba ngabahlobo kunye nabafazi kwaye ubutyebi obu buhlobo, kuba emva koko xa kuza kubakho i-cappy epheleleyo-iya kuba luncedo kakhulu.
Ukujonga ngezimvo zakho ngobomi. Kungenxa yokuba ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabo bangabelani nabo kunzima kakhulu kwaye baphantse bangenakwenzeka, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuba nabo bajonga umbono wabo wehlabathi.
Funda ukuthanda, intlonipho kwaye uyixabise umzimba wakho, jonga impilo yakho. Kwixesha elizayo, xa efuna ukuba ngumama nenkosikazi yakhe - iya kuza.
Shenxisa yonke i-stereotypes malunga netyala labasetyhini, impilo kunye nokunjengeentloko zabo. Khumbula, kufuneka imbiza kuphela apho ndayibolekwa khona imali mboleko kunye nabani na omnye.
Qiniseka ukuba uzilungiselele isiseko sokukhusela imali kwaye ungathethi ngaye, nokuba yindoda / indoda / indoda. Kuya kubakho imali eninzi kwi-akhawunti yebhanki ukuze kwanele ubuncinci iinyanga ezintandathu zobomi. Eli tyala lokuba kuya kufuneka uthathe umntwana ezandleni zakho kwaye uye kuyo nayiphi na indawo. Amatyala obomi bosapho ahlukile, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha awela ngokukhawuleza.
Phambi komtshato, kufuneka uzame kakhulu ukuxhuma izindlu zakho, kwaye ungatyala imali kwintsebenzo. Ukuba igumbi elithenjiweyo emtshatweni - lolwakho kuphela kwaye uqhawulo-mtshato luya kuhlala lukhona. Kodwa oku koko "masithengise ngokwakho, thabatha indlu enkulu kwimali mboleko," inokujika ibe ziingxaki ezininzi.
Zurube ngokwakho empumlweni-soze ziphantsi kweemeko, musa ukuthatha amatyala kabani na, imali mboleko kunye nabanye abanqwenelekayo. Endleleni ekhwela amadoda amaninzi oqhawule umtshato ngeemoto, imali mboleko eqhubeka ihlawula abafazi bawo. Kodwa ngokukodwa uMadame wakho akwazile ukwenza imali mboleko kuthi, kwaye imoto kwi "intanda".
Ukuba umntu uyavuma ukuba kwindawo isabelo ngokulinganayo baya kuyinyamekela womntwana, ukuba bahambe naye, ukupheka kuye isidudu, yiya iintlanganiso esikolweni, ukungena abancinane, kwaye maxa wambi ukuze anikezele ngokuhlwa wakhe, kangangokuba umama Unokuhlala ezintombi kwi-cafe-akukho nto inokwenziwa yindoda enjalo.
Ekuqaleni, indoda kufuneka iqonde ukubaluleka kobuhlobo bomfazi, ngakumbi lowo uhleli ebuntwaneni. Ukuba uzama ukuphakama phakathi kwakho kunye nentombi-yamkhuthaze. Iziyalo nje nako konke, ziluvo olubi kakhulu, zikhethelele kumadoda amagumbi obuzingalisayo kunye ne-Conticts, kunye nabathandi beziselo ezishushu, nokuba zibonakala njani zintle kangakanani. Kwaye yintoni eyona nto imbi kakhulu - yabeleka kubo.
Ukuze ufunde ukuzikhusela - ngokomzimba, kwaye kwingqondo esemthethweni - abafazi abaninzi baya kuba luncedo kakhulu.
Ukufunda okungenani inqaku elincinci kwaye uqaphele ubuntu obungakhange bubonakalise ngendlela ye-alphony, i-daffodils, i-mansipilators kunye nezinye izinambuzane phantsi kwemivalo yamadoda. Ngamaxesha onke, uva, uhlala ujonga- soze ubeke emngciphekweni wempilo yakho, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ubomi. Kwaye makayive 'ingenguye "okanye" imvakalelo ilahlekile "- impilo yakho ibaluleke ngakumbi kunemvakalelo yakhe. Khohlwa "Iintsuku eziKhuselekileyo" - I-STDs ezininzi kubo injalo.
Kwisigqibo sokuzala okanye uthathe isisu-hlala uzoba uluvo lomntu. Abantwana kwixesha elizayo basenokungabi nawe-kuba akukho ngxaki, unokuthintela nabani na. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye kuphakamisa umntwana, ukuba ngequbuliso intanda iyoyika izibophelelo, nazo. Lonke uxanduva nangaliphi na icala letyala kumagxa omfazi, okuthetha isigqibo sokugqibela kufuneka siyithathe.
Kwaye okokugqibela, ungaze azale intanda yakho, kuba mama, njl. Ungabeki de ufune ukuba ngumama. Umntu ophilayo ubonakala elukhanyisweni, kwaye uzale kuphela ukukholisa umntu - umbono ombi kakhulu.