Ukuzama ukuseka ubomi bakho, abafazi bahlala bengazange bangenelele kwezo zikhokelo-imizamo yokubamba umntu ecaleni kwabo, abangafanelekanga, okanye baqhuba umntu onokufumana ulonwabo lwebhinqa elixabisekileyo. Ukwazisa ngeempazamo, ngelishwa, kuza emva kwexesha, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kungafiki kwaphela. Ukulungiselela ukungabunzi ngobomi bakho, kungcono ukuba ifumane i-3 yeenyaniso malunga namadoda ngaphambili.
Akunakwenzeka ukuba uzinyanzele kuthando
Ukumthanda umntu ngaphandle kokuphindaphindeka, kunzima ukwamkela isibakala sokuba akunakwenzeka ukuba woyise imvakalelo yakhe. Ke ngoko, amandla amaninzi kunye nexesha elichithwe kwinto abangayi kuphumelela.Kwaye ukuba abanyuliweyo baphela ukuba boyiswa, emva koko ibhinqa laphelelwa ngumzabalazo liya kufumana ukuphoxeka okunamandla, kuba Buyela, okungenani kulindeleke, akuyi kuhamba. Indoda egunyazisiweyo eyoyisayo ayizukubonisa uthando kunye nokukhathalela njengoko ebeya kuyenza ngokunxulumene nentokazi yakhe ethandekayo.
Umgangatho owomeleleyo wenziwe ngendlela yokuba, okokuqala, bazoba ingqalelo yabo ekubonakaleni kwabo umfazi. Kwaye ukuba akazifikeleli iimpahla zakhe zobuhle, akasayi kuba nako ukuwa eluthandweni. Ukuba umfazi ongekho kwincasa yabantu uya kuqalisa ukuvumela izinto ezifihlakeleyo, emva koko zininzi anokuthi athembele emthanda ecaleni kwakhe. Uyamthanda njengomntu, kodwa hayi njengenenekazi elihle.
Ke ngoko, kufanelekile ukuba baqonde inyaniso ebalulekileyo - indoda inokubotshwa, imenze ukuba ithande njengomntu (njengodade / njengomhlobo ongcono), kodwa imenze avakalelwe yinenekazi lentliziyo-akunakwenzeka. Le yimzimba, indalo - ukujongana nale nto ayinangqondo. Nokuba uvuya ngobukhulu abangama-36, awuyi kubangena kubo, ukuba une-39-nento enye kubudlelwane.
Wonke umntu uvakalisa uthando lwayo njengoko unako kwaye uyayazi indlela
Enye impazamo enkulu yabasetyhini - ukuvavanya amandla othando amadoda, ngokusekwe kwiimbono zabo malunga nemigangatho yothando. Isondo ngalinye lesondo linombono walo wendlela yokuthanda, indlela yokubonisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo. Ukuba indlela yokuziphatha yeqabane ayihambelani nendlela elicinga ngayo inenekazi - isigwebo sizalelwe entlokweni yakhe - "akathandi."
Sukulindela kwindoda yothando awakwaziyo ukuba iyakwazi, wonke umntu unokuqonda kwakhe uthando kwaphela. Uthando lunokuthelekiswa netalente - umntu othile ulawula ukuba uzenze kakuhle, umntu othile wenza imibongo emihle, omnye umbhali onesiphiwo. Kananjalo ngeemvakalelo-umntu othanda ukufunxa uphela kwaye umntu ujika abe yiRomao, kwaye umntu ogcina intloko "ebanda." Ukubonakaliswa kothando kuxhomekeke ekudazelweni komntu kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi.
Ke ngoko, ngaphambi kokuvavanya inqanaba lothando lwamadoda ngokunxulumene nawe, kufanelekile ukuba sisazi isimo kunye nomsindo wakhe. Ukuba okhethwe ngabakhethi, kuya kufuneka ulinde ukuba icule i-serenade phantsi kwefestile, i-Sink rose rose kwaye inike iinkwenkwezi ezivela ezulwini. Kodwa akuthethi ukuba akathandi. Ukuba uyayithanda indoda, kwaye ukufutshane nawe, wamkele ngokuziphatha kwakhe kwaye uqhubeke nothando.
Zithandane kuqala
Ukuba awuziva unomdla kuwe, akukho mntu uya kukuthanda kangangoko ndingathanda. Ibhinqa ngalinye lifanele lizinikele lizihlonelela, kwaye kuphela ke linokuba linentsingiselo. Umgangatho owomeleleyo waqala ukuba "iinkwenkwezi", kwaye ukuba inenekazi alizazi ukuba zintle kangakanani, ukuba zintle ngaphandle kangakanani na, oko kuthetha ukuba akammkeli ngokupheleleyo.
Ibhinqa elingathandekiyo-ilahlekile. Le ayisiyonto entle kakhulu, kwaye ixhoba elingenakunxibelelana nabanye ngokulinganayo. Ekuqaleni, ibeka indoda kwisikhonkwane, esele iyimpazamo enkulu. Kwaye amadoda ahlala esebenzisa le nto, kwaye kude nomfazi.