Eli linqaku elihle kakhulu nguDaniel Muravnta malunga nemfuneko yezinto ezintle ngexesha lasemini. Ngokubanzi, ukwenza nantoni na ngamandla ngamandla. Musa ukwenza nantoni na ngamandla, intombi. Ubomi bemvula.
Ndichithe ixesha elininzi ndizama ukuqonda ukuba ndenza ntoni. Kubonakala ngathi kuya kubakho izinto ezininzi ezinomdla kakhulu nabantu abajikelezileyo, kodwa endaweni yokufumana amandla kunye namandla, emva kwentlanganiso nganye ndingumaleko kwaye ndiphefumla. Ngoba? Kwaye kutheni umntu ochwayitile kwaye iiyure ezingama-24 ngemini elungele ukubandakanyeka kwabathandekayo? Kwaye kubonakala ngathi ndiyifumene impendulo kulo mbuzo. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba iya kuba luncedo kuye wonke umntu onengxaki efanayo.
Ishishini kwisingqisho esingaphakathi. Rhoqo siyayifumana amanqaku kuyo kwaye wakhe imini yethu ngolu hlobo: Izinto ngokwesicwangciso, kwaye phakathi kwabo - ukuba ixesha elincinci, ukulala, ukuba likho ixesha. Kwaye okuchaseneyo kuyimfuneko. Ekuqaleni, into oyifunayo yangaphakathi, zonke izinto ezincinci ezifuna wena, esihlala sinembambano. Kwaye emva koko "abadala" kunye "nezinto ezibalulekileyo." Ekuphela kwendlela. Ngaphandle koko, izixhobo azisoze zanele.
Qonda ukuba yintoni ekunika ukuba ungunolwazi
Hlala wenze uluhlu lwento ekunika amandla. Naziphi na izinto ezincinci. Zonke zibalulekile. Imizuzu engama-20 kwiti eyomeleleyo kunye neecookies ekuseni? Uhambe ehlathini okanye ipaki? Ishumi (kwaye hayi ngaphantsi) ukulala? Ukuhlamba yonke imihla kunye negwebu? Ukwazi ukuboleka amakhaya? Imidlalo enekati? Iyure-ezimbini-ezintathu zizolile?
Sukuzincama kwisakhelo se-stereotypes. Umzekelo: "Well, ndingumntu oxhamlayo, kufuneka ndifumane ubutyebi ekunxibelelaneni nabantu." Okanye: "Ewe, ndilala iiyure ezi-8, kufuneka ndibenexesha lokuphumla kubo." Akufanele nawuphi na umntu. Sele ulungiswe njengoko kucwangcisiwe. Kubalulekile ukuphonononga isixhobo sakho.
Yakha usuku, ukutyhala kwiiklasi zoochwephesha
Oko kukuthi, okokuqala sisasaza izinto kwishedyuli enika amandla. Kwaye emva koko konke kunjalo.
Okwangoku, ndabona ukuphazamiseka: Ewe kunjalo, ndiza kusebenza kwishedyuli endiza kuyenza naye, zonke ezi zinto ziyonwabisayo kushedwe lwasimahla, kwaye ke ndisekho izinto ezinyanzelekileyo ezinjenge gqirha ngokunjalo.
Kodwa ndiza kukudanisa: ndinomsebenzi kwishedyuli, kwaye ndingengomsebenzi omnye, kwaye ndiye kuyo yonke imihla iiyure ezili-10 ukuya kwezi-12. Kunye nokunikezela izinto zokuhambisa izinto kucwangciso lwazo, ixesha elininzi lidlulile - iminyaka eliqela. Kwaoko akwenziwanga. Kodwa yenziwa.
Kuba ukuba awuzinikeli indawo, iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezivelisa isikhongoza, uya kuphelisa kungekudala okanye kamva. Kufanelekile. Awuyi konwaba nawona msebenzi unomdla kakhulu okanye eyona mpumelelo ibalulekileyo.
Chonga isukelo kwaye uye kuyo
Ngapha koko, yonke into ayinzima kangako. Khetha iiklasi ezimbini okanye ezintathu zolwazi owenza uninzi. Umzekelo, ikofu kusasa, ekuhambeni kweeveki ukuya kwindalo kunye nelixa lokufunda nokuzola kunye noxolo.
Zithethe ngokwakho: "Ndifuna ukusela ikofu yonke imihla ekuseni kwaye ndifunde iibhloko ngeyure, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa. Kwaye veki nganye ukuya kwindalo. Ndingenza ntoni ngale nto? " Kwaye emva koko uqale ukuya khetho.
Yintoni ekufuneka uyisele ngentsasa yekofu? Mhlawumbi iphakame ngaphambili? (Kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukufumana lula ukuvuka kwangoko, mhlawumbi iphupha lesifundo sakho ngakumbi kunokusela ikofu?). Mhlawumbi upheke kwaye uthathe nawe kwindlela eya kwi-triggle? Ukusela ekuseni emsebenzini, ukuthenga ecaleni kwevenkile yekofu -mnandi, kunye ne-cinnamon?
Yintoni efunekayo ukuze ufunde iibhlog zebhlog? Bafunde ekuseni? Mhlawumbi ngokuhlwa? Okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba ungahambi isidlo sasemini kwi-cafe, kwaye uthathe ukutya kunye nawe (okanye u-ofisini)--Ukugcina ixesha nje ngeyure, unokufikelela ngokukhuselekileyo.
Yintoni efunekayo ukuba kwindalo veki nganye? Uye ehlathini? Kwaye ukuba akukho mandla-mhlawumbi ipaki yanele? Kwaye ukuba akukho xesha, linokutyumba umhla epakini okanye kwintlanganiso yokusebenza ubuncinci? Okanye ufumane intendelezo eyenziwe ngemithi-ewe, hayi ihlathi, kodwa ubuncinci!
Akukho zinto ziphumezileyo ezifuneka ekuqaleni. Ukuba uyafuna, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubenza, kodwa ungaqala ngokupheleleyo ngamaqula. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba ngokuthe ngcembe uye waqala ukuguqula ubomi bakho kwindawo entle, kwaye ungabaleki ngemiqobo ukuze usinde.
Yakha izicwangciso ezinkulu
Musa ukoyika ukuphupha ngokuphila kakuhle konke konke ngokuzonwabisa kwakhe. Ngokuchasene noko, cinga ngayo rhoqo. Unethuba lokuqalisa ngokuphila kanye loo nto. Ngapha koko, ngaphandle kwakho, akukho mntu uya kuwuphatha lo msebenzi. Ufuna ukuhamba? Yigcine entlokweni yam kwaye ucinge kancinci-kulungile, kwaye ndingenza ntoni imali ukuba ndihlala ndihamba? Zeziphi iindlela onokukhetha kuzo? Mhlawumbi kufanele ukuba isebenze kunye nohambo lwamashishini, emva koko, yintoni, kulungile? Okanye ishedyuli yasimahla- yeyiphi indawo? Okanye mhlawumbi ndiza kugcina ivenkile yam ye-intanethi kunye nokuhamba kuya kuba yinxalenye yomsebenzi ekuvelisweni kwempahla kuye?Ngaba ufuna ukulala ixesha elide? Kulungile, masibe selokufihla, indlela yokuphinda ikwazi ukuxhobisela usuku. Mhlawumbi ugqithise umsebenzi ngokuhlwa nobusuku- Ngaba kunokwenzeka emsebenzini wakho ngoku? Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, yintoni enokwenzeka? Okanye ngaba zeziphi iimeko apho intloko iyakuvumela ukuba uza kuzo. Okanye ngaba wena uthanda ukuba ngumphathi?
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ukumiliselwa kokugqibela kwesicwangciso sakho esikhulu kunokudlulisa ixesha elininzi-eyona nto iphambili kukuyiqonda ukuba ikho indlela yokuhamba. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqale ukuhamba. Ngoba?
Ewe, kutheni kubalulekile?
Kuba awunasiphelo. Uqala - njenge-injini encinci epholileyo- amandla akho, uyifumana ecaleni, uyichitha. Kodwa akukho injini eqhelekileyo iya kusebenza ngaphandle kwe-oyile. Kwaye sisebenza-ngoluhlobo oluthile lommangaliso, amandla okuthanda, ukukhahlelela "
Kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela ukwenziwa kwe-caliti rhoqo-le yiklasi nje yezixhobo ezikunika amandla. IMicimbi yokuqala yezixhobo, ke-yonke enye into. Kwaye ke imoto yakho iya kusebenza kakuhle.
Masiqale ngoku kwaye siqale.
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