Nokuba umxholo awubonakali ngathi, kodwa ingxaki ayihambi. Izigidi zabafazi baphoswa kubudlelwane bengazi ngokupheleleyo, ngaphandle kokuzinikela ngokwabo ingxelo, ngethemba mhlawumbi. Sonke siyayiqonda kakuhle ukuba intliziyo ayisebenzi, kodwa indlela yokuhamba intliziyo enokudideka ngayo inokudideka ngenxa yoxinzelelo lwabanye! Kwaye yimalini apho kukho ingxaki!
Malunga neminqweno yemoto yakhe akufuneki imamele, kwaye sithethe.
Akufuni ufuna ukugcina indoda
Ukuba ufuna umntu osindise-Gcina iikati, izinja, ubhale ezantsi kwiZiko leNkxaso, kwizibhedlele okanye kwenye indawo, kodwa musa ukuba yindoda. Kungenjalo, iya kuba yiyo kuphela into yobomi bakho, ibuye imbuyekezo.Awuyi kuba nako ukwenza enye into, awuyi kuba nexesha okanye amandla, kwaye awuyi kumsindisa. Oku kubambisa ngaphezulu kwempumlo.
Akufanelanga ukuba unethemba ngekamva
Kuyavakala yinto engaqhelekanga, kodwa enyanisweni ichazwa nje. Le ndodana efuna ukuzisa ikamva lakho, kufuneka lilungiselele ngoku, ngenye imini kamva, xa efunda ukungasasazeki emva kosuku lokusebenza. Into awayenokuyifunda, sele efundile. Kwaye awungumama, hayi utitshala, kwaye akangomntwana, awuyi kuba nakho ukuphakamisa.
Uya kubulala ixesha elininzi ngenxa yenkcaso emangalisayo, enjengokuba lilixesha lokuba incwadi ebhale malunga nokutya okumnandi nenempilo, kodwa 'yeyakho, ndiyaqonda "kuya kulandela umkhwa wakudala. Ngokubanzi, uyazi, ukulala kunye nabo baphakamisayo, ngandlela thile bengenampilo kwaye basinika i-pedophilia, okanye i-icest.
Sukuzama ukutshintsha umama wakhe owoyikekayo
Ukuba ukhe waphulaphula amabali ngonina, Esi sisizathu sokulumkisa. Mhlawumbi amaxesha amabini kunye nakwimizuzu emizuzu eqhelekileyo, kodwa xa kungumntu ophathwayo ngeveki kwiiyure ezininzi ngeliso elijijekileyo kunye nelaphu yakho. Ngakumbi ukuba ezi zizikhalazo malunga nomntu umntu aqhubeka ephila.
Ukuba ubunganamathela kule ndoda, ngaba ubuya kucinga ukuba awuzukupheka ukutya komntu omdala okanye nceda uthathe inkunkuma - eyona nto imbi inokwenzeka kwindoda? Apha.
Kwilinge lokuzama ukukhusela intanda yakho ukusuka "uloyiko", bhala imvume yayo nayiphi na imvume yayo nayiphi na imvume yayo nayiphi na into kunye nemidlalo yekhompyuter ukuya kuthi ga kubusuku beekhompyuter ukuya kuthi ga ebusuku, kwaye ungayiqondi yonke le ndlu kunye ne Ubomi baBwabelana. Kuya kufuneka ukwenze ukuba uyeke kwenye indawo, emva koko uthathe isigqibo sokuba ungahamba njani, yintoni oza kuyithatha, kungenjalo uya kuba netyala kuwe - kungenjalo ungafumani msebenzi okanye akazange enze amaxwebhu afanelekileyo. Kungenjalo, uya kufumana usuku olunye ophumayo kwimikhosi, ngaphandle konina owoyikekayo, ukho umfazi ombi.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uphulaphule, yintoni elungileyo
Hayi, ayibi, kodwa, kodwa xa iyinene, kwaye hayi, hayi uthotho "lwento endiya kuyenza, ndikho, kodwa andindithintele." Izizathu ezingenasiphelo, ukusilela kweempazamo zabo- kwaye kwangaxeshanye ufanele ukuba bonke, kodwa bexolela bonke Bonke? Hayi ukhetho lwakho. Amagama anamagama, kodwa ubomi bugqityiwe kwizenzo.
Yenzeka kwaye inyani into ayizange ibambe, ithintelwe, kodwa hayi ixesha ngalinye.
Ukongeza, i-Govarov enjalo isungulwe kangangokuba ukuba akukho zinto zifunyenwe ngaphandle, baqala ukugxeka, kwaye emva koko babambelele. Ukuba awukhange uthethe kakhulu, wayengayi kucaphuka kwaye angasebenza ngakumbi, kodwa ngoku ... ngoku akanakukwazi, kufuneka achithe iintsuku ezimbalwa emva komdlalo / ibhotile / abahlobo. Ukuba ubeka ngaphezulu kwesiketi, hayi jean, unokuya kwindawo yemidlalo yeqonga nawe, kodwa ngoku ayikho. Okanye ngokuchaseneyo, i-jece, kuxhomekeke kuyo imilenze awayeyiphakame ngayo okanye ukubalwa koongqatyana efestileni.
Ingqondo yezityholo zakhe awusoze uqonde. Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba unyaniseke.
Umbhali wombhalo: I-Natalia Smirnova