NgoNovemba 16 - USUKU LWEZAKHONO LOMlobi we-Anorexia. Kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela! I-Ashley Potender inokuxelela yonke into ngesi sifo.
Ukuxilongwa kwe "Anorexia" uAshley wamiselwa kwiminyaka eli-13 ubudala. Yaza le ntombazana yaqala ukulwa nam ebomini. Ngoku uAshley 16, kwaye ikhokelela kwibhlog enomdla ye-Instagram malunga ne-blog emnandi, ebaluleke kwaye, ebaluleke kakhulu, elungeleleneyo. Oku kuyamangalisa ngakumbi, ukuba sicinga ukuba ogqirha baqwalasele impembelelo yenethiwekhi yenye yezizathu zesifo kunye nokuvalwa kwentombazana ukuya kwi-intanethi.
Kwaye ngokwenene, i-Intanethi igcwaliswa nje ngokutsala ubunzima kunye nokuvalwa komzimba wabasetyhini-kukho ababhalisileyo ababhalisileyo ababhalisileyo, ezukisa i-Anorexia. Amantombazana okuzixhalabisa ngegram nganye yamafutha phantsi kolusu, akhuthaze omnye komnye kwizidlo ezingqongqo - injongo ye-AIRD BONITION, kwaye ikhuphe iifoto zabo.
Kodwa ukuba inethiwekhi inegalelo kakhulu, kutheni ungayisebenzisi ukuba uthethe nolutsha malunga ne-Anorexia kwaye ndingaphumela njani emva? Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, uAshley waza waqalisa ibhlog yakhe.
Ngapha koko, ayilula kakhulu. Amantombazana aphethwe yi-Anorexia akhutshelwe kwi-Intanethi- hayi kuphela kolunye ulutsha, kodwa nabantu abadala - njengamantombazana athambileyo. Ukuthetha ngobomi bakho ngaphandle koluntu lwamanye amantombazana nge-Anorexia, ukuzimisela okukhulu kuyafuneka. Kodwa uAshley akazange ayithathe. Amantombazana angamamakazi, uJill, uthi u-Ashley wayesoloko eyinkokeli, kwaye esikolweni yinyani.
I-Anorexia ihlasela umzimba okhulayo kwaye iphawuleka ngakumbi kunangaphambili. I-Ashley eneminyaka eli-13 yayingekuphela nje, wangena ngokukhula nokukhula. Kude kube ngoku, ubonakala emncinci kunangaphambili.
Umama wazama ukutshintsha kabukhali ukutya kwentombazana, ukunyanzela ukuba kukho ukutya okunamafutha, kodwa kwaqinisekisa iphobia ye-ashley. Ekugqibeleni, akazange akwazi ukutya ukutya, ekungabhalwanga ngokuthe ngqo ukuba zingakanani iikhalori kuyo. Ngequbuliso ngokwaneleyo, abazivanga ubuhlobo kunye namantombazana kuluntu lwe-anorexia.
Xa uAhley waqala ukuthatha imifanekiso ye-Instagram, yonke into etya ngosuku, kwaye ekupheleni kwemini kuphela kwiifoto zokutya, ngokwakhe wamangaliswa njani. Ukutya okoyika yena, kuba kunokwenza i-tolstoy, kodwa le ntombazana ifumaneka ngokwayo amandla okufunda "utshaba" kwaye wamangaliswa zizinto ezizidenge zokutya. Umzekelo, u-Ashley wayecinga ukuba iziqhamo zombala oqinileyo we-SULOMISEKILEYO KAKHULU kunezinye, kwaye ke ibinokwala iapile. Ukuqonda ukuba "isebenza njani" ukutya, uAshley ukuthanda ukupheka. Izitya zayo zokuvelisa ziyindlela ebalaseleyo yokuqhuba amanqatha athembisa umama wakhe ukuba angaqondakali, kwaye kwangaxeshanye banceda ukuba bahlawule emva kokuphulukana nobunzima be-oscovity. Ikwavavanya ukutya okunemizi-mveliso kubavelisi bemizi-mveliso abangabameli bangevanga kumantombazana akwishumi elivisayo.
Amawakawaka abantu abhalisela uAshley ngenxa yokupheka kwakhe. Ukholelwa ukuba akuncedisi kuphela abo bafuna ukuhamba ngokutya okunempilo ukulungiselela, kodwa abo babandezeleka kwi-Anorexia. Ngeebhloko ezininzi ezinjalo, wanekutyesheka kwaye uyabaxhasa.
Oogqirha baphawula ukuba uninzi lwezizathu zokuguqulwa kwamantombazana kwimbono yokuthotyelwa kwemigangatho yeGlosayi, njengoko i-Sphakamileyo isebenza, i-dexino inobuchule bokungabinamali ngokungapheliyo, ukungabinakho ukunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo abazali. Sukuzama ukondla abaguli nge-Anorexia ngenkani, ayikhokeleli kwanto. Thetha nabo. Xoxa ngobomi babo, fumanana nabo, 'njengokutya, ukuchitha ixesha kunye, kodwa kungabi kwiingcikivo nengxabano. Kwaye unike inkululeko encinci kunye nokwamkelwa ngakumbi.
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