Yonke into iphelile. Uthando Alusekho. Iitamatisi ezibotshwe. Kunye nemali ... yeyiphi imali? Ngoba? YANTONI?..
Ubungqina bokuqala bokuba umntu othile unyanzelekile ukuba ahlawule umxholo emva kokuba ubomi obudibeneyo buphelile, kusekho iikhowudi zeHammmurapi. ISiqendu 137, Umzekelo, uthi: "Ukuba umntu ufuna ukumshiya umfazi wakhe, ukuba abuyele ibhafu, aze anikele isiqingatha segadi, igadi, kwaye akhule abantwana babo; Emva kokuba ekhulekisa abantwana bakhe, kufuneka ayinike indlalifa enye, ufanele ukuba nayo yonke into ebinikwa abantwana bakhe, emva koko umyeni abethanda ukuba umtshata naye. "
Umthetho waseRoma waseRoma onyanzelekileyo ukuba ube nabantwana abazalwa emtshatweni, nokuba lo mtshato uwe (njengoko sikhumbula, amaRoma ayenezona iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zomtshato osemthethweni, kwaye uninzi lwazo lwavumela ngokupheleleyo uqhawulo-mtshato).
Imithetho ye-Discucius, ngokuchaseneyo, inyanzelekile ukuba igcinwe utata wabo.
Imithetho yaseYurophu yexesha elitsha inokuphelisa kwaye igcine umyeni emva koqhawulo-mtshato, kwaye ngokuchasene noko, kwaye "owayezimisele abangabhalwanga kwimvumelwano yomtshato, kodwa," oqhele ukuqhelana nenqanaba le Ubomi. " Inyani iyaziwa xa i-Russia yahlawulwa ekulibambeni ukulibaziseka kwi-adidiy yindoda yaseFransi, nangona yayikufuneka kakhulu.
Imithetho yaseRussia yanamhlanje iyonke, ngokubanzi, isengqiqweni. I-Alimony kufuneka ihlawule umntu onamandla owomeleleyo ukuba amagqabi ngaphandle kwenkathalo ekhubazekileyo apho babephambi kosapho. Lo ngumntwana ongumzali, umntwana endala onomzali wakudala okanye ogulayo, iqabane elineqabane eligulayo. Njengoko sibona, kuphela izalamane kuphela zenqanaba lokuqala ziphantsi kokunyanzelwa. Akunakwenzeka ukwenza umakhulu wakhe, dade nomtshana.
Ingabonakala ngathi yonke into icacile. Kodwa akunamsebenzi nokuba kungenjalo. I-Guitt izele ngabasetyhini kunye nendoda eyakhayo malunga nokuba ngubani, ngubani, ukuba ngubani umntu osemthethweni ngokusemthethweni. Olona phawu lubalulekileyo esilubambayo, olubhaliwe ngendoda ecaphukileyo, kwaye uthelekisa umntwana ngemoto, othathwe ngokudibeneyo ngetyala. Yonke into ibingayi kuba yiyo ilize kude kube lixesha lokuba umbhali aqale ukukhalaza malunga nokungakwazi ukuthengisa le moto ngokupheleleyo okanye ngeenkcukacha. Ngeenkcukacha, Karl!
Ewe, umamkeli we-alimony (umntwana) uqalisa ukuvela njengohlobo oluthile lwefenitshala, enkosi apho umntu anokuncwina khona. Kwaye le mbono ibonisa inqanaba lokwenyani lokucinga kwabantu abaninzi ehlabathini, kungekuphela nje kumazwe.
Kodwa, ngokungaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, kukho ukutya okuziinkozo eziphilileyo kwiimpikiswano zomqhubi. Eli ligama "mboleko". Nasiphi na i-alimony yintlawulo yemali mboleko ethathiweyo (kwaye ide ichithwe) ixesha elide. Kulula ukuyiqonda le nto ka-Alimony kubazali. Uyakhula? Apha, nikela kakhulu.
Umntwana uhlala eyokuthenga ngetyala. Ngalo lonke ixesha umntu engaziimitha ezinyaweni zakhe, kufuneka utyale imali, kwaye utyale imali, kwaye utyale imali. Kwaye yintoni esiphelweni? Ngenxa yoko, umntu omtsha. Kwaye wena? Awuyonto yento (ngaphandle kwe-alimoning ye-allus). Unokuthelekiswa nolwakhiwo lwebhulorho, icawe, ipaki okanye ilitye lesikhumbuzo kwimali yakho: awungekhe ubeke epokothweni yam, ungayityi, ngaphandle kokuba umqondiso ngegama lakho unokuqiniswa. Qaphela ukuba kwaye waphule ukuba isiphumo asihambelani, asiyi kukunika. Isibakala sokuba unayo ezimbini le projekthi, ungayenzi ipropathi yakho. Ngokumangalisayo.
Makhe sibone ukuba ufuna ntoni umntwana onemiqathango kwisixeko esichumileyo saseRussia ukuxhasa le mpilo-ntle. Masithi umntwana sele ehamba egadini okanye esikolweni, kodwa akakafiki kwiminyaka eli-12. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana ngenyanga kufuneka ahlawule isixa samawaka angama-2- 4-4 kwiZiko; Umntwana ufuna iimpahla ngobudala, umntwana kufuneka abondliwe. Siza kuthatha idatha yokubala ye-State: Ubuncinci bokutya kwi-3 kwikota yesi-3 ye-9396 ruble ngenyanga. Hlawula isiqingatha sale mali yexabiso inokuba neJanitor.
Kwaye bonke? Nokuba kwenzeka njani. Umntwana ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eli-12 ubudala, njengoko sonke sikhumbula, awunakushiya enye. Kuyimfuneko ukumkhathalela. Entluzweni (kwisiqhelo sezinto), lo msebenzi uphathwa kumalungu osapho phakathi kwabo, okanye umntu osebenza wodwa, efunda kancinci kwaye engaphumi kakhulu kunenye, apho ilungelo lokufumana iicookies. Kodwa ngoku ayinamdla ngathi indlela ekusonjululwe ngayo kusapho, sixoxa nendlela yokwahlulahlula ngokulinganayo.
Umntwana kufuneka aqokelelwe kwaye ashiyele egadini okanye kwisikolo samashumi amabini anesihlanu ngenyanga, ezisa kwi-creargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargargart? Ungalufumana njani ukufumana ukuba ixabisa malini? Sicacisa ixabiso lexabiso le-babicitter. (Njengoko uyazi, nawuphi na umsebenzi umi kangako njengoko kufuneka uhlawulele ukuba ungayenzi). Ke, ngaphandle kweentsuku zokuhamba, kuphela ngeentsuku zomsebenzi, iiyure ezingama-5-6 ezisebenzayo zithatha iiyure ezingama-5-6 zomsebenzi. I-125-150 yokusebenza iiyure ngenyanga. Lowo mzali ungamelana nomntwana kwiintsuku zokusebenza kufuneka, kwithiyori, kwisiqingatha ngeli xesha, uqesha umzali wesibini njengomongikazi owenzayo umzali wesibini owenzayo ). Nokuba ungene ngempelaveki kunye ne-arvitile ye-arvi engafezekanga, sele inemali eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Ngokubanzi, sinovelwano ngokunzulu nangokunyaniseka kwabo bantu sele bebandakanyekile kwiprojekthi ye-demographic "Umntwana", engadityaniswanga, phantsi kwento ebhalisayo. Khawufane ucinge-i-aunt yaseburhulumenteni iyeza kuwe kwaye inika amandla okuphumeza kokwakhiwa kwethiyetha ethandekayo. Ngokupheleleyo imali yakho kunye neqabane lakho. Ngokufaka iminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwengama-30. Hayi, akuyi kuba nakho ukutsiba. Ewe, iprojekthi inokuba nzima, iya kuba ziingxaki zakho. Ugcwaliswe kakhulu neqabane kwaye ukhwaza ngovuyo "Ewe-A !!!" "
Ke, nawuphi na umzali lowo wenze. Umntu othile unethamsanqa, kwaye umsebenzi wakho we-ART qho ngonyaka nangaphezulu amehlo, kwaye iinzame zinikela ngokucacileyo. Kwaye umntu wayenomthakali, eshiya iqabane langaphambili zonke iintlawulo zambini.
URhulumente ngoku ubeka i-amonyony ukuba abantwana, abazali, abatshatileyo, hayi ngenqanaba le-"eliqhelene nelungu losapho elikhubazekileyo", kodwa lingakanani imali enokuthathwa kwi-ofisini ". Ukuba ipesenti eqhelekileyo ebalwe ngumvuzo osemthethweni iphantsi kakhulu kangangokuba ayifikeleli kwisiqingatha se-ruble encinci, emva koko unokucela iintlawulo ngenqanaba elimiselweyo, lihlala i-5 lamawaka ruble. Nangona kunjalo, kwaye kukukrola - umsebenzi wonke. Kwaye nalapha ukuba umzali ohlala naye uthandana naye ulivuselela umntwana ngokwalo kunye nentlalo-ntle yakhe, kwaye ungayisebenzisi ngenye indlela kwaye ungenise ngenye indlela.
Ngabazali abaye bashiya abantwana kwaye abangakukhumbulanga amashumi eminyaka malunga nabo, onomdla, uninzi luhlala luvela kwiimeko zokubuyiswa kwe-alimeny kubantwana. Kwaye kunokuba luncedo kakhulu ekupheliseni umzali olithuba elinjalo. Nangona kunjalo, imeko nganye yetyala lika-Alimon kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo ngokwahlukeneyo. Njengawo nawuphi na omnye umntu ohlawula amatyala.