Amava kaMama wabantwana ababini: embi kwaye zithini iikhathuni ezintle

Kwenzeka ke ukuba abantwana bam bajonge iikhathuni ezininzi kwaye baziintloko ngendlela abafuna ngayo. Into endiyiqonde ekugqibeleni. Ukuba uqala nge-CROON, emva koko kwiikhathuni, abantwana banokufunda ukungaziphathi kakuhle. Kwaye kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhetha:

Abantwana bafunda izithunzi

Bayaqonda ukuba yiprank, umdlalo ulinde kubazali ukuba baya kubandakanywa kumdlalo. Umzekelo, umntwana wenza njenge-mamsha, iithoyi aze athi: "Nguwe wezam!" Kwaye, unokuthi, umzekelo, isampulu, ucoce, ukukuxelela ukuba kufuneka wabelane, njl. Oko kukuthi, le yinto nomdlalo ofanelekileyo. Umntwana akakwenzi apha kwaye uya kukhathazeka kakhulu ukuba uya kuthathwa njengokuziphatha kakubi ngenjongo.

Abantwana bafunda ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo ezimbi

Abantwana babelapho, kwaye kufuneka ngandlel 'ithile babeka. Umntwana unokuthatha ngaphezulu kwabakhi bendlu abakhi, kwaye mhlawumbi iManeru Parot Keschi inyuka inyuka inyuka inyuka inyuka inyuka inyuka. Hood Bai! " xhuma phantsi Okanye ukukhathaza iinkuni zeenkunkuma njengengcuka "entle, linda!" Apha, enyanisweni, ingxaki ayisiyonto ingako kwiikhathuni, kakhulu kwindlela yokuziphatha abazali bam, ukuba umntwana ungonwabanga, uyaneliseka kwaye ubonakalisa ukuba mandundu.

Umntwana unokuzama ukuphindaphinda into entle

Nantsi into efanayo ixutywe nethemba lokuba iya kubhabha. Okanye ngokwakho "ukuqubha elwandle." Le ngxaki iconjululwe kukubekwa esweni kwabantwana kunye neenkcazo, njengoko yonke into isebenza. Iinyawo ziphindaphinda into elungileyo, ngaphandle kokuqonda ngokupheleleyo. Umzekelo, iya kuzama ukusebenza kwigorha elilungileyo ukuba lisebenze kwikhaya, ukulungiselela, ukudala izinto ", ukwenza i-plan", "Barboskins" kunye nabanye abaninzi). Ungayicingela into enokuthi ithulule ingakhathalelwanga nakumntwana omncinci. Inketho-umntwana ufunda ububi iqhawe elibi kwaye uba sentweni, nangona yayilungile- mna, ngokunyaniseka, andizange ndidibane. Itshintsha imeko yakhe (nzulu, ndifunda ngoloyiko kwezinye iindawo) -andingayiboni into.

I-bismus yesibini, kunjalo, isibakala sokuba abantwana baqhelekile ukuba abantwana kwaye banokufuna iikhaphethi xa abazali befuna ukuzithatha ngakumbi. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, njengoko kunokubangela umntwana ukuba alale, Nokuba yeyodwa, ifilimu yefilimu isoooo yolile kwaye ayinabungozi. Umzekelo, ukuba ubeka enye "ilori" ngokuhlwa, baya kuhlala, baphembelele impumlo, kodwa baqhubeka bebonayo, ngokucacileyo akukho nto siyiqondayo. Kwaye enyanisweni, sele sele benesiqingatha seyure njengobukumkani bokulala. Iikhathuni ezolileyo azinazo iziphumo ezinjalo, kubonakala ngathi "lihlabathi lika-Lillaby". Ziyinyani zokulala.

Ngoku malunga nokudibanisa

Ukukhetha kweekhathuni kukhulu kakhulu namhlanje. Asixhomekekanga kwiTV, akufuneki silinde "ubusuku obuhle, abantwana" okanye "i-disney iyure ngolwesiHlanu", kwaye sinokusebenzisa isiphumo sekhathuni.

Ukukwazi kweekhathuni ukutsala umdla wabantwana ulungele ezo ndawo apho kufuneka inyibilike umntwana kwaye ukuze ihlale. Zonke ezi zii-polyclinics, iinqwelomoya, nowem-hayi "kwaye konke oko. Amalungu omzimba anokufunda lukhulu. Kubantwana bam, mncinci, umzekelo, ukhetha umzekelo wabanye abantu, kwaye unyana omkhulu funda kwikhathuni, emva koko ebantwini. Kodwa bobabini bayakuvuyela ukujonga ikhathuni malunga neekhathuni malunga neenombolo, iileta, iintaka kunye noomatshini. Okanye, yithi, ukungena kweplastiki kwiikhathuni ukusuka kwiNtaba yeGems "yintsingiselo yeZifundo" zeHlabathi ezingqongileyo ". Yintoni ekhoyo, kwaneevidiyo ezinombhiyozo wabathengi njenge-vlogov "Mnu Max" kwaye "uphosa i-katie" (hayi yedwa, kodwa yedwa uSathana) undinceda. Ngamabali ezentlalo, ngoncedo endinokumcacisela umntwana ukuba yeyiphi iPaki yamanzi, ihotele, indlela yokuziphatha kwivenkile okanye kwivenkile yokutyela.

Ekugqibeleni, njengoko bendiqinisekile, ukuba unika iibhokisi iibhokisi ukuba abantu abalungileyo ... bayayeka ukuba yimfuneko. Oko kukuthi, ngoku, umzekelo, bobabini bakulungele ukuphosa nangaliphi na ixesha, ukuba endaweni yoko ke, ukubabonisa ndawonye ukuba bakrexeze, baqube, bahambe, bamba i-fuble ye-fuble, hambani nje notata okanye utata kwaye nangokunjalo.

Into engaphumeliyo abantwana, kubonakala kum, kwaye iikhathuni ziya kuhlala ziphumelela. Ukuba ubeka ukhetho phambi komntwana: i-cartoon okanye eza kuwe iluncedo (kodwa musa ukukhwela!) - Ikhathuni iya kuhlala iphumelela. Kuba i-cartoon luhlobo lomzali. Uye wenza ngandlel 'ithile. Kwaye umzali ufuna ukuba umntwana aye ayezifundisile. Ikhathuni okanye umsebenzi onzima? Hayi, kunjalo, ikhathuni.