-Ndisa indoda ?! Ngaba uyayifuna? -Idinga? - Ukwenzela ntoni? -Ndifuna nyani! Ewe, ekubeni "kuyimfuneko", kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba kutheni kunjalo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iinjongo ezahlukeneyo zibonisa iindlela ezahlukileyo zokuzifezekisa.
Nazi ezinye iindlela zokhetho: 1. Ukutsha "komdlali" omncinci "; 2. uhlala kunye, "kwaye omnye udiniwe, kwaye kunzima"; 3. "Hambani" ukutshata ukuzala umntwana, ukuqhekeza, ukwahlulahlula i-amondon; 4. Thumela kwaye uphile ngolonwabo.Ke, indlela yokufezekisa injongo yakho ...
Ukuba ufuna "kuphela ngesondo", nangona ndingazikholelwayo, - ke wena wazi yonke into: ipeyinti ebusweni bakho, ingxolo enkulu, thula ngamehlo, jonga emehlweni akho, Ndwendwela iindawo zovuyo ... yonke into! Kungekudala kuya kubakho i-mamol, ngenja yenja ... kakuhle, umntu onje uqondwa ngokungxamisekileyo 'ukuba ufakelwe "komnye umntu, emva koko utsaliwe".
Inketho yesibini iya kufuna umgudu omncinci kunye nexesha kuya kufuneka ukuba kuhle, ungazivumeli, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe, apho i-borsch (nantsi isuphu yemifuno) Uya kufezekisa eyakho - "umthengi" uya kuba ulungile. Kwaye emva koko iyavela, unokuhamba kakuhle ngenjongo yenombolo 2 uye kwenye.
Asiyi kukhetha isonka esivela kwiingcali zengqondo ezibhalela "izihloko" zabasetyhini kwaye zixele indlela yokufezekisa iinjongo No. 3 kunye №4. Inethiwekhi igcwele iingcebiso "Ungayifumana njani", "Indlela Yokufumana" Indlela Yokunyuka ", njl.
Ubukhulu becala, zonke iingcebiso zabafazi basetyhini kwicandelo "bathimba" amadoda aya kuyinciphisa, sebenzisa "i-Okthomat" ukuya kwi-1 kuye kwi-4).
Ukukhohlisa, oko kukuthi, ukuzibamba ngokwakho: ngaphandle komfanekiso obonakalayo, onomtsalane kwaye obekiweyo womfazi "wale" wanamhlanje ".
Thatha ithuba legama elithi "elingenakuzinceda", oko kukuthi, lokufezekisa ulawulo phezu kwendoda ngelixa ingqondo yakhe iyimfama "kwaye" ipholile "ngengubo. "I-Okthomat", oko kukuthi, ukufezekisa nayiphi na njongo kuluhlu.
Oku kukwenziwa kobuqhetseba: ubusela okanye ukufunyanwa kwelungelo lomntu omnye umntu ngenkohliso okanye ukuphathwa gadalala ngokuzithemba. Oko kukuthi, ukufumana izibonelelo zezinto ezibonakalayo. "Ixhoba" lazithambisa ngokwakhe amandla bomkhohlisi. Ukukopa kukugqwetha idatha esebenzayo okanye okungagqibekanga malunga nabo (idatha esebenzayo).
Imeko ye "Ixhoba": imeko yomntu onokuthi angabuthinteli ubundlobongela, okanye akazange aqonde uhlobo lwezenzo ezenziwa kunye naye ngenxa yokumiselwa kolwaphulo-mthetho , njengokudlwengula.
Uninzi lweengcali zengqondo kwicandelo lobudlelwane m kwaye w ufundisa amantombazana ukukhohlisa, ulahlekise, sebenzisa inqambi yendoda "ehlaselweyo" yokufezekisa iziphumo eziyifunayo.
Ukongeza, bafundisa abafazi njengabo bonke abakumqolo kubantu ababangqongileyo kwaye bazalise le nto ilula, kwaye bahlala bemdaka benkanuko. Iimbongi, amagcisa, abaqulunqi, i-choreophers kunye ne-choreophers zinokwenzeka kwaye zihamba ezitratweni zifuna ukuphefumlelwa, kodwa ayingabo bonke abantu ezitratweni zezikolo zokuyila.
Ewe, umfazi onjengentyatyambo ufumene ingqalelo yendoda, kodwa kungcono ukonwabele kumthombo obetha ngenxa yenu yedwa ngaphandle kokunxila. Ngaba awusoze wazi ukuba iphi kwaye yintoni kanye kanye ukuba ithathe emlonyeni.
Yintoni ecebisa oochwephesha beengqondo?
Kodwa bakucebisa ukuba bapeyintiwe, mhle, abahle, banesityhakala, bonwabile, bebesempilweni, bekhwaza, benza amabele, oko kukuthi, oko kukuthi, ubukhulu becala Intombazana / umfazi kubomi bemihla ngemihla akuyomfuneko, ukubonakala ngokuchanekileyo komfanekiso obhinqileyo, othandekayo kumadoda. Kwaye bayacetyiswa ukuba babe ngumfazi, kodwa bangayichazi into oyiyo, kodwa bathetha ngokubonakalayo kwesondo yababhinqileyo, beyibiza ngesizathu esithile. Bathetha ngo "Ukuthengisa" ubufazi ", zinike iindlela ngeendlela zokulahlekiswa nokungazithembi kunye neentliziyo zamadoda, kunye neminye imizimba.
Ngokumangalisayo, uninzi lweengcali zengqondo-abafazi bavuma ukuba ungumntu omnye okanye enye "kwimisebenzi yabo" yokuchaza amadoda ngokungafanelekanga. Ingxaki yonke yabasetyhini kunye noochwephesha bengqondo kukuba bajongane namadoda kubantwana abakhulu, ekunokufuneka bakwazi ukuzilawula ngempumelelo uvuyo lwabo.
Ndingathanda ukukhumbula ukuba kwicandelo le-psychology esetyenzisiweyo, ngakumbi i-psychology yolwalamano phakathi kwe-M kunye ne-J Fraudsters ngaphezulu kunokuba ndingathanda. Ulwalamano lwabantu - into enyanisekileyo nengapheliyo, indlela yokuphuhlisa egqwethiweyo ziindibano ezahlukeneyo kunye nokukhohlisa.
"Sales" ubufazi yi imbonakalo: manicure, iinwele entsha yonke imihla, iilokhwe "evela Couture", ukufaneleka, solarium, yokuthanjiswa, ezivenkileni ... zengqondo ngubani ngokukhuhla "intengiso" ubufazi ubanga ukuba sinako ukuqonda wena " Fowunela ubomi »Amandla amabhinqa.
Iingcali zengqondo ziyingenelo, - zixhaphaza iimvakalelo ezilula, eziphantsi zabantu eziphantsi, zifumana.
Kwaye intliziyo yabasetyhini iphendula kuyo yonke le nto ilahlekile. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, "i" "ukuthengisa" ivumela abaphetheyo ukulawula amadoda ngomzimba wabo kwaye bafumane izibonelelo ezahlukeneyo zobomi.
Kodwa akunjalo ubufazi bangaphandle, ifuna amadoda. Ukubonakala kwexesha njengentyatyambo, itshutshisa iphela, kwaye icinyiwe ngomso. Amadoda akanamdla kwimbonakalo yabasetyhini, kodwa i-Natura ye-NAURA.
Kwaye kuyo yonke imbali eyaziwayo yoluntu, indalo yabasetyhini ayitshintshanga, - iintsomi, imifanekiso, iinkolelo, iinkolelo, uncwadi lobugcisa kunye noncwadi lwembali kunye namaxwebhu embali athatyathwa kule. Kwaye abo banenzondelelo nabagcini bazo zonke iziko kunye nemigaqo yabasetyhini.
Kuphela kukungaziphathi kakuhle. Ukukhutshelwa kongezwe kwimisebenzi yabasetyhini yabantu, ngoko ke bafazi "banobubi".
Ngendlela, ubufazi wadalwa ngamadoda, ukuze uxhase umzi-mveliso kunye neefektri kwimbonakalo yawo yokubonakala kwazo ngexabiso eliphantsi kunye nokwenza ukuba abafazi balahle ingeniso yabo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abathengi bazo zonke izinto ngabafazi. Kwaye asithethi ngokutya neempahla zabantwana.
Iindima zendalo kunye neendima zabasetyhini ngoku zibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye zithatyathwa yintsomi kunye ne-surrogates. Yiyo loo nto ukungcola nokudideka kubudlelwane, kunye nokungcola kunye nobudenge kwicebiso lezengqondo.
Kunye nobufazi bokwenyani, ekutsaleni iintliziyo zabantu, sisenzo: Ukuthantamisa, ububele, ukungakhathali, ukunganyamezeleki, ukuqina, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthandeka, ukuthambekisa umntu kwaye ekugqibeleni ubuthathaka.
Ibonisa njani ubufazi?
Amadoda athi intombazana ijongeka ngathi yinwele ezinde, inxibe ingubo ende ethe kratya okanye isuti egudileyo, isuti eziphatha ngokuthozama, iqinisekile, ngengqondo yokuzithemba.
Isini kuphela yindoda kuphela, kwikhosi yobudala, xa kuyinto enokwenzeka ngokwasemzimbeni wokwabelana ngesondo. Ukuba umntu wagqiba kwelokuba abantu abaninzi babonakaliswe ekungafezekisweni kwamadoda aneziphatho zamadoda anomhlaba, akhwaza "ah" okanye "watsho ngokulula kakhulu. Usazama ukuthelekisa indlela abantu abaneekati "ze-Matshi".
Isini sendoda sibonakaliswa kukuqaqamba kwakhe, siphumelele kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi, impumelelo yayo, ifom elungileyo yomzimba, intetho entle, njl.
Kodwa ukulunga kukuthanda komfazi. Kwaye icebiso elikhulu liye lehla ukufundisa amantombazana ukubonisa ezinye iimpawu zangaphandle zokwabelana ngesondo. Amantombazana afundiswa kuphela "akhonze" iliso lendoda, oko kukuthi, ukuveza kuphela kwimeko yeemvakalelo.
Zonke iingcebiso zincitshiswa kuphela ngaphandle kobuntu bomntu. Kodwa imbonakalo yipipi yepipi. Kwaye ukuba kufikelwa njani ekufikeni xa uthatha ipipi ngenxa yesothungquthelana yayo eqaqambileyo nengaphantsi kwe-histerical okanye engaphandle kwesidenge.
Esona siphoso siqhelekileyo sabo bonke abafana kukuvavanya umhlaba wentombazana kwimbonakalo yakhe. Amadoda amancinci angenamava athoba, ukuba intombazana inomtsalane ngaphandle, emva koko ulungile kwaye uMila.
Ngobufazi, njengobudoda sineengxaki. Abafazi abaninzi bajonga i-UNEXEX, banxibe i-tattoo, ukubhoboza, ukunqunyulwa kwentshukumo, i-atchletlet yongezwe, - i-Friki kunye nabasetyhini ...
Abanye-amaxhoba otyando ngeplastiki, azama ukuxoxa "malunga" nangaphandle, angenise iimbono ze-fantaxe "couturiers" kwimpahla.
Ubuntu, kunye ne-masculinety, ayizizo iimpawu ze-innate, yonke ikhula. Ke, ukuba ufuna ukuphila ubomi bakho nendoda, akufuneki ukubambele kwaye woyise.
Ubomi buhle kwaye bungafani nakwenu. Umntu ngamnye uya kuba nesigqibo sayo. Yiba ngokwakho kwaye ungaxhomekeki ngokupheleleyo kwinkangeleko yakho. Nokuba ungazikhonza njani, uya kuqhela kuwe. Ukuba ukhangele inkangeleko kuphela, isidenge ke kukumangaliswa kukuba awukakhi kwabalinganiswa kwaye amadoda ayinye kwaye eyimfuneko. " Apho wayekubona umphefumlo wakho omangalisayo, ukuba uyifihla ngokuqinileyo ngenkangeleko eqaqambileyo.
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