Wonke umzali okungenani bawa kwimeko apho kuye kwafuneka ukuba aqalise umntwana wakhe. Rhoqo imeko ikwivenkile ifanelekile i-hysteria kwaye icaphukise abanye abathengi kwihambo yakhe. Uninzi lwabazali luyayazi indlela ekunzima ngayo ukulawula umntwana onekratshi. Ngethamsanqa, imeko ilungisiwe. Malunga nendlela yokufumana indlela yokufumana umntwana onenkani, funda kweli nqaku.
Sebenzisa izibonelelo ze-Posches Peschery
Umntwana uhlala ephila. Ukukhwaza umntwana akuyi kuphulaphula kwiimpikiswano zakho kunye nokuqiqa. Ukuthetha umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala owala ukwehla kwe-carousel, ukuba uza kubuya apha kwiveki ezayo, ayinamsebenzi. Ngaye, kwiveki elandelayo ayiqinisekanga kakhulu. Kule meko, akunyanzelekanga ukuba uwele umntwana. I-psyche yabantwana ilungiselelwe ngendlela yokuba ikwazi ukutshintshela ngokukhawuleza kwisenzo esinye ukuya kwenye. Thatha lo msebenzi kwaye, ngelixa ugcina uzolile, zama ukuyitshintsha ngokulula.Zithintelwe
Abanye abazali batshayelwe kukuba umntwana akazithobeli. Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo into yokuba ekuqaleni umntwana akwazi ukujamelana ne-okricketion kunye ne-okhring, kodwa kungekudala ubuyeyona yakho buyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye akazange ayeke ukunikela ingqalelo. Ukuba awufuni ukuba ilizwi lakho limkhonze umntwana onemvelaphi evakalayo, khumbula ukuba ukukhuliswa kwabantwana yinkqubo efuna unyamezelo kunye nokuthintela.
Thetha ulibale malunga nengxaki
Musa ukugqiba ekuziphatheni kakubi komntwana wakho. Abanye abazali bakhumbula imini yonke malunga nendlela ekuseni iti yeti egalelwe iti kwaye iphoselwe kuphela iimpahla, kodwa nemozulu. Imihla yonke bayazithabatha ezi zinto zimbi kwaye bacinge ngendlela yokusebenzisa isohlwayo. Khumbula ukuba lo ngumzabalazo ongalinganiyo. Musa ukulwa nendoda encinci. Kungcono kakhulu ukuya epakini okanye ufunde incwadi enomdla kunye. Ngethamsanqa, abantwana bathatha ingqalelo ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kungekudala balibala yonke ingxaki.Uqeqesho
Uninzi lwabantwana abaqhelanga nje uqeqesho. Kodwa ngumyalelo kunye nombutho obenza baqokelele abantwana abaqokelelweyo nabathobelayo. Fundisa umntwana wakho kwinto yokuba kubalulekile ukuba unamathele kumhla wosuku kwaye uzame ukungaphoswa yi-kindergarten ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo. Umyalelo ofakwe kwi-kindergargarten ufundisa umntwana kuqeqesho.
Ukudumisa ngokuziphatha okuhle
Abantwana basabela ngenzondelelo kwindumiso. Dumisani kwaye uzukise ngawo onke umthetho olungileyo. Ilizwi elihle yeyona ndlela yemilingo ekujonganeni nabantwana. Ungalibali umhlathi odlulileyo. Uqeqesho. Yiba nobubele kuwe. Abazali bahlala bezigqobhoza ngenxa yokuziphatha kakubi komntwana. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi bayalibala ukuba indlela yokuziphatha embi ayisoloko inxulunyaniswa nokusilela kwemfundo. Umntwana wakho nje ngumntu onesimilo esinelukhuni, esiqhubekayo, cinga ngayo.