Akukho bantu bafezekileyo ngokupheleleyo kubume beyona nto iphambili, oko kuthetha ukuba ayinantsingiselo ukufuna umntu oyanelisa izicelo ezili-100. Ngokobudlelwane, abantu bahlala bebeka nokunqongophala kwabo - bavala amehlo abo kuba izibonelelo kwimo yakhe ithandekayo ngakumbi.
Ukuba akukho mfuneko ishiyekileyo umntu ohlala kufutshane, emzimbeni ngomkhwa wakhe kuyaphuma ngaphandle kwakhe - ke akukho nto yakwenza naye. Kodwa ukuba ngaphandle kwayo yonke imikhwa yakhe ecaphukisayo, ukondla umntu oziva, ke kufuneka usebenze kancinci kwaye ujonge yonke enye into.Qonda ukuba yintoni engalunganga
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ezinye zendlela yomntu zinokucaphukisa kumgangatho wento eguqukayo, kodwa nokuba ihambo encinci evela kwindoda ibangela isaqhwithi kuwe, kufanelekile ukucinga ngayo. Kuyenzeka ukuba le nto ingeyonto ineengcambu ezinzima ekufuneka ifunyanwe kwaye isuswe.
Umzekelo, izolo, akazange aphendule umyalezo wakho ixesha elide kwaye waqala ukucaphuka. Ngapha koko, ukucaphukisa akusekho kwisenzo sakhe, kodwa kwiingcinga zakho malunga nezizathu ezinokubakho kule ndlela yokuziphatha. Ucinga ukuba akakukhathaleli, yena, ngokuqinisekileyo, eqinisekile ngomyalezo ... xa kuvela iimeko okufanayo, chitha ibhokisi yencoko yakho kunye nawe, ayisiyiyo le nto. Indoda iyakuthanda kwaye ihlawule ingqalelo eyaneleyo, kanye ngelo xesha wayexakekile, njl.
Ungaze ukhuphisane neentombi kumdlalo oyena mandundu
Ngelishwa, abafazi abaninzi babandezeleka kule nto. Baza kubutha kwikomityi yeti kwaye baqala: "Kwaye izolo i-Rish izitya zentaba kwaye azizange zihlambe!", "Kwaye abahlobo bam bahlala phantsi emva kwale nkampani!", Njl . Ukuthatha imithetho yomdlalo kunye nokuqhubeka nokuthetha ngentanda yakho ethandekayo, kungekudala zonke izibonelelo zakhe kuya kuya kwisicwangciso samva, kwaye kumfanekiso owukhethileyo uya kubona kuphela i-pingle yeempazamo.
Ungalwa umkhwa ombi onjalo, ngaphandle kokuthetha kwiintombi. Ngexesha elizayo, xa wonke umntu eqalisa ukukhalaza nge-sloppy kunye nokungasebenzi kakuhle kwamadoda akhe, thetha ngesitayela esithi: "Owu, kwaye izolo khange ndizisiwe. Kodwa ngokubanzi, unekhaya kwaye enenkathalo, ebehlala endiphosela izinto ezahlukeneyo! ". Ngenxa yoko, wena neqabane lakho emehlweni akho musa ukushenxisa, kwaye nabahlobo, qhubeka ukuba kwicala elinye.
Jonga i-plus kwi-minus yakhe
Olona themba lwahlukile kwi-pessimist kuba owokuqala ukusuka kwi-negatine ayolisa kwaye anovuyo apho i-pesseimest iqaqamba. Ukuba oyithandayo uneqela leentsilelo, emva koko endaweni yokucaphuka okanye ubonile, susa ozithandayo.
Ngaba ayizibandakanyanga ngokupheleleyo kwinkqubo yokulungisa kwaye ayinayo into phambi kwayo? Ngokugqibeleleyo, unethuba lokwenza yonke into njengoko unqwenelela wena-kukuthanda kwakho kwaye ngaphandle konyulo lwephephadonga kunye nezinye izinto!
Ngaba yinto engenanto? Kodwa akayi kubalwa ngothuli, kwaye unoku-odola ishedyuli yokucoca ngokwakho, ngamanye amaxesha iyazivumela ukuba uzihlaziye, ukuba uphuma kwaphela! Akathethi kakhulu? Okumangalisayo, kunokuba njalo, uyindoda yeshishini- kuya kubakho ingxaki - akazukukrokrelana, kodwa hamba nje uthathe isigqibo.
Khumbula, akukho zithuba zingafunekiyo, ngamanye amaxesha zikwizinto ezifanayo ekufuneka uzijonge kumacala awahlukeneyo, ngakumbi kubudlelwane.