Ucalucalulo kwisiseko sobunzima namhlanje kuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo. Kucingelwa ukuba kukubekek 'ityala ngenxa yokuba zinkulu. Banobuvila, kufuneka batye kancinci. Ukuba ukhulu kakhulu- uyazi ukuba yintoni.
Kodwa ungakwazi ukuba uyayazi indlela yokumelana nayo. Kuba akukho mntu uxelayo kuwe kunokuba uyenzile. Uhleli nje. Uzolile! Imifanekiso, njengoko njalo, ifikile kwintsingiselo.Uthathelwa ingqalelo ivila kwaye emdaka
Kwaye ukuba yimalini yobunzima bakho obuthethayo kuphela ngenxa yesi sizathu. Ngenxa yokuba une-rag. Kuba awukwazi ukuzithatha ngesandla. Nokuba ubunzima bakho obugqithileyo sisiphumo sesi sifo, awusenako ukuhlala ngokuzolileyo. Kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uhambe phantsi esitratweni ngophawu "Musa ukubetha, ndinesifo seswekile." Umzekelo. Ukongeza, usatsho ukuba i-esile levila. I-Holly Berry ikwiswekile yeswekile, kwaye ngubani umzobo, eh? Enjalo. Kwenziwe ntoni: Kuxhathise. Nokuba uza kuxhathisa. Ukuba uthi ulinqatha, kuba awukwazi ukuzithatha ezandleni zakho, musa ukuyiginya. Kuba yisangqa esivaliweyo. Kwi-Psychology, ekubhekiswa kuye njengoko igama elithi "ndafunda ukungakwazi". Ukuba umamele kakubi ukuthengisa okunetyhefu malunga ne-Gesika yakho -Uzakuthiwe okanye kamva uyakholelwa kwinto engakwaziyo nayiphi na into. Kwaye ubunzima obugqithisileyo buya kuba yeyona ngxaki incinci. Ke vula nje umlomo wakho kwaye ubuze ukrelekrele, yintoni esihogweni kangangokuba umntu obhinqileyo (otyholwa, pimly, onxibe ngokungazenzisiyo njl. Ewe, kuba unzima kwaye unemilinganiselo.Awukuniki ithuba lokuba nomtsalane
Ubuncinci kuhle ukunxiba - kwaye akunakwenzeka. Kuba yonke into engaphezulu kwe-52 ye-SITS ithungqwa kwi-nostalgic isitayile "Herkizon, ii-Nineties". I-RYUKI, iprinta ezimbi, iibhulethi zerabha esinqeni. Eyona nto iphambili, ungabamba i-bashochikrak, njengo-Alla Blariovna, ukrokrela kwihempe ye-strait. Kodwa inqaku alikho ukuba akukho mpahla intle yobungakanani bakho kumgaqo. Inyani yile yokuba, uzama ngengqondo ngengubo, cinga ukuba ayikho kuyo yonke into oyibonayo esipilini. Entlokweni yam, babengakubonisi, umfanekiso wawumhle entlokweni yam! Uvela phi apho? Kwinethiwekhi, ukusuka kwimovie, kwi-glossa. Le mifanekiso uyibona rhoqo kunawe, nangona kubonakala ngathi sisipili ojonge yonke imihla. Kodwa awuzigqali, kodwa imifanekiso inenyameko. Kwenziwe ntoni : Phatha i-bolyok gesing theres kwiivenkile. Akukho sidingo sokuthenga into veki nganye, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuzama. Siphikisana, uya evenkileni, xa unxiba khona? Kwaye luxinzelelo olukhulu, kuba akukho nto inokuthenga. Ngapha koko, ukuthenga kukho into, kuya kufuneka wazi iindawo, kuqala, kwaye ungowesibini - ungayibonakali indlela enye into enokubonakala ngayo, kwaye iyayazi. Bona. Rhoqo ukubona. Iza kuyeka nini ukusoyikisa umbono wakho kwiimpahla ezingaqhelekanga- ungayibhanga kwiqela le-Intanethi. Kuba sithengisa kungekuphela i-TAK kuphela, kunjalo. Kodwa kwinethiwekhi olukhetho lusekhona.Abafazi bayakukhubekisa
Ukuhamba ngenqanawa ukukhangela kwaye ugobe i-nozzle. Ukuphosa iilwimi kwaye wenze "umfazi, asinanto yakwenza nobungakanani bakho." Sijonge kuwe kwaye sihlebezi ngezintombi. Kungcono ukuba ungayi kwinethiwekhi-kukho eyoyikisayo: Rhoqo nge-pigalian yesibini, kwiiveki ezimbini njengoko ndithenga ubhaliso kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, sele ndizicingela ukuba ndikwenzele isepha kuwe. "Fu, ungatya kanjani ?! Imbi!" . Unokwenza ngathi ayikuchukumisi. Kodwa oku, kunjalo, akunjalo. Chukumisa. Ibuhlungu. Kuyakhubekisa. Kwenziwe ntoni: Ukuqonda ukuba umatshini wokuqala wokuthamba akanguye kwaye ungabi nobunzima bakho. Kwaye ayikho kubo bonke ubunzima. Nokuba ucekeceke, unokuba ngamehlo abo ngumama ongendawo, iiklabhu zasekhaya okanye isidenge nje-ngenxa yezizathu osebenza ngazo umthengisi. Le yinyani yangaphakathi-intiyo yabasetyhini ngokunxulumene nabasetyhini, i-phenomenon, iqukuqela kumbala ophumeleleyo kwizitrato zika-Biriya. I-triggers zilula njengee-kopecks ezintathu. Nje ukuba kukhuphiswano: amanenekazi ahlakulele, enza umgoduka kwabaphulaphuli abangamaweyo, mna, bathi, Asinjengoo-Godrobasin, ndinyule. Iindidi ezimbini zolawulo lwabasetyhini abakuluntu, apho umzimba womfazi usaye "imveliso". Ezintathu - "I-Samadavinovat". Ayingogonyamelo kuphela, yonke into malunga nayo yonke into. Ubuninzi? I-Samadavinovat. Kwaye andisosidenge, le ayisoze yenzeke kum! Awuyi kuzikhusela kwi-wanile squaky, ukuba uyalahleka. Kodwa ngoku ukwazi ukuba eso sizathu ayikho kwaphela.Amadoda akukhubekisa
Ngale, ekuqaleni, akubanga kubi kangako - kunqabile ukuba umntu akuxelele ukuba, zithi, ioyile. Ukuba ayingomyeni wakho, kunjalo. Okanye utata. Okanye ocinga ukuba ngumhlobo. Kwaye baya kuyithetha, kubonakala ngathi yinto entle ngaphandle. Kwaye abanye bathula. Kodwa umqeshi wendoda akazukubonelela ngendawo ukuba inenekazi elincinci liphendule ngokuvula. Indoda ayizukulingana esitratweni kwaye ayizukuthetha ukuncoma, nokuba umthandile ngokwenyani. Kodwa kwinethiwekhi, amadoda akasayi kutywinwa kwiifoni eziqaqambileyo. Esona sixhaphakileyo- "andizukubethwa!" Ngokungathi ufuna ukubetha kwabo, xoleleni iNkosi. Ndingazijonga, ndidlepana. Kwenziwe ntoni: Kwaye kwakhona kuyaqonda ukuba umatshini wokuqala wokuthamba akanguye. Kwaye iimbaleki ziphinde zezona zilula. Kanye-U "Ungandilandeli", ucime icebo "lemveliso". Ngaba uyafuna ukuba yiyo, ukukholisa ukuKhangela kukaMnumzana ubuhle bakhe? Iha, yaphukile! Zimbini-kwakhona kwakhona imbambano ye-hierarchy: Indoda ifuna ukuba (okanye ibonakale) ngendoda eyindoda, kwaye inobunzima "- kubonakala ngathi luphawu olungenakuphikiswa kwale meko. Wonke umntu makabe mncinci, emva koko kuye okungenani kuya kwaphula. Bathathu, uyakoyika. Yoyika ngokwendalo. Ngamabinzana athi "Ewe, indlela enjalo iyakukhuphela!" - hayi malunga nebhedi. Ukugcwala kunxulunyaniswa nokuvuthwa namandla. Ayinamsebenzi eyamcinezela apho - Umama, umakhulu okanye i-harththletics ye-harsh. Kubalulekile ukuba usoyika ukuba iya kuphinda. Kwaye uhlasela, ngenxa yokuba uhlaselo luzikhusela. Fu, yintoni eyona nto ayiyongxaki.Uyayilinda
Kwaye ngokwakho ityhefu. Wazithuma. I-SPRED. Isidalwa esixokayo. Ioyile, ioyile, ioyile! I-Fu. Ngokucacileyo-kufuneka unciphise umzimba. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba unciphise ubunzima, uzicelele. Le yeyona ndlela ilula kakhulu: uyandithiya ngokwakho - ujamelana noxinzelelo. Umzimba uyayiqonda into yokuba ityala ngumbhobho, kwaye uphakame kwi-cortisol yegazi. Kwaye ngequbuliso ukhuthaze ifriji-le mbutho ifuna i-buzz ukunciphisa uxinzelelo. Ukutya yi-buzz Kwaye ngoku uqokelele ukunciphisa umzimba, kodwa ngesizathu esithile umi kwaye ungqengqele iqhekeza elinobuqhetseba. Owu, usizi. Ndizakuhamba kwiibhodi. Kwenziwe ntoni : khohlisa ubuchopho. Eyona nto ilula, kunjalo, iwele eluthandweni, kodwa, Awu, lenzeki xa uceliwe. Ke, kufuneka ujonge i-buzz kwenye indawo. Kubuchule. Kwezemidlalo. Ngokubanzi, kuyo nayiphi na enye impumelelo. Oku kuthetha "Zithande." Musa ukuhlala phambi kwesipili, ubuhlungu "ndityebile, kodwa mhle." Kwaye unike ubuchopho enye ipipi, ngaphandle kokutya. Kwaye ungaze, ungaze uzidele. Hayi ngenxa yokuba ungakufanelekeli kule kwaye uLole Blah Blah. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba ingqondo yakho iya kufuna imbuyekezo. Bamba.