Kwaye ehlekisayo, kodwa kakhulu, waba ngumfazi malunga neentsana, kubafazi bebhinqa. Bonke abantu basetyhini, amanenekazi, abayaziyo malunga nolwahlulo lwesondo oluhle kwiinkampu ezimbini ezintle, abafazi nabafazi, bazinikele. Ungawahlula njani umfazi ovela kubafazi, indlela yokuchonga amaziko amabini ahlala kumfazi ngamnye. Imeko yomfazi vs baba ifuna umahluko. Ingaba lo mfazi wokwenene akayi kwamkela njani, kwaye manyathelo mani-iqashiso labafazi bokwenene.
1. Umfazi akabaleki
Uhamba kancinci kwaye enobuhle, ngokuthe ngcembe onyukayo, nokuba ungxamile. Akafiki ixesha lomsebenzi, ngomhla kunye neqela le-bachelorette kwi-cafe. Akafike emva kwexesha - uyalibaziseka.
Kwaye akakhweli ngaphandle komgca: umfazi akakho ngaphandle kokujika - i-parados ye-lexical. Akutsiba kwimoto yokugqibela yololiwe ophumayo, kodwa kunokuba ngoogqo. Akatyhalelwa kwindawo engaphantsi, azama ukuthatha indawo: akaphantsi kwakhe! Kuba amabhinqa afanelekileyo aphantsi kuyo yonke into - nokuba ngabafazi.
2. Umfazi akaphikisi
Uyazi: Uhlala elungile. Kwaye ukuba akulunganga, esi asisosizathu sembambano: Inelungelo lokufumana impazamo.
Ngogorha emlonyeni, into elungileyo yokungqina-hayi kwibhinqa. Ukuncama ubufazi ngemeko yento elungileyo - usuku lweBab.
Ndikunye nomhlobo nenkosi, kunye nomntwana neqabane- akazukuphikisana. Ngobulumko uyavuma, ngokuyishiya lo mbuzo, thambezela ububele. Uya kwenza yonke into ukuba angaphithiphithi emfazini: hayi ishishini labasetyhini!
3. Awuqwalasele kwaye uhlale kwi-Hut ayinyamezeli
Ulungile, uzobe zonke ezona zilungileyo: umyeni obalaseleyo okanye umthandi, oyena mkhweli ubalaseleyo kunye notata obalaseleyo. Unomsebenzi obalaseleyo, inja evunyiweyo kunye nabamelwane abahle. Kwabanye, oku kunjalo, nokuba iqabane lingumlingane wasekhaya, i-monster-monster, kwaye ebantwaneni kukho ixesha leshumi elivisayo.
Kukho amatyala akho omele axutyushwa nakwiqela labasetyhini. Ewe, kwaye kwi-babya kwi-faeti yokukhalaza iintombi, zicace gca kuwe ngezinto ze-latch - inqaku alinambulelo. Incoko ye-fatric ngaphambi kokuba ingenzi. Ayisiyonto yabasetyhini le nto, i-Baba igalela!
4. Ubambe umva
Uyayazi indlela yokugcina umva kuzo zonke iimvakalelo ezikhoyo. Bamba umva, olona lungelo luyenyuka kwikhabhoni emnyama, nokuba ibuhlungu umva. Akasebenzi phantsi kwempahla yeengxowa zomfazi, kwaye umthwalo wokunqongophala kwemali, izifo ezinesifo zabantwana kunye nesifo sosapho aziyi kunciphisa amagxa akhe.
NoBaba? Kwaye iBaba ayisiyonto ilula ubomi ekufeni ezintathu. Hayi, akanzima - nje elula ngakumbi. Ukuyixhobela, kulula ukukhalaza malunga nokufakwa krakra yekamva, i-fucking fucking, engeyiyo ezandleni zeNosha- kwaye kwangaxeshanye ndiyinxiba.
Iingcali zengqondo ziya kuyibiza ngokuba yaziwa luxanduva. Igama lomfazi alinamdla: Unoxanduva lobomi bakhe, ukuze afumane ubomi.
Umgcina nje-phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, phantsi kwayo nayiphi na iRosary, phantsi kwako konke ukubetha kwe-babii. Kuba ukugcina umqolo wakho-mhle, kulungile, lubhinqa.
5. Kungcono ukuba ube yintoni ebonakala
Ayijongi inxibe. Akadingi ukuba anxibe zonke ezona zibalaseleyo, egxininisa imeko "enxibe kakuhle." Ulungile kwaye kwibhlawu elula, kwaye malunga nesoyikiso! - UGlamorina kwi-jean yaseTshayina. Ijongeka ilungele ukungakhathalelwa kwewadi kunye nenqanaba le-wallet. Uphelelwe yifashoni-kungcono kunokubonakala ngathi "imfashoni", uya kuvuma.Ke yena:
- Ayizithenga izinto ezingafunekiyo;
- uyayazi indlela yokuphila ngayo, kodwa jonga njengenenekazi elinemilinganiselo engengapheliyo;
- Ayisi "khupha" ukusuka kumvuzo ukuya kumvuzo ukugxininisa imeko "enxibe ifashoni", njengoko amabhinqa ayinyaniso.
Kodwa umfazi akafuni uphononongo lwengqondo. Ngoba? Yonke into ilula: akanasizathu sokungqina into. Kwanakho: ukungqina ukubaluleka kwebhegi yesandla esinezandla.
6. Uyathanda ukuba ungahlekisa ...
Ibhinqa alikhangeli isizathu sokukhanya kunye nengqondo, ubukrelekrele obumangalisayo. Akabhabhali amabinzana aqingqiweyo, musa ukubaleka ngaphandle kokudinwa ngamahlaya. Unokude ade ade abe nesidenge
Uyazi: Ukulula- ingcono kunobulumko ngabom, kwaye ukufunxa ubukrelekrele ngabantu abaninzi abalula abangenayo into yokutsala.
Uyaziqonda iimpazamo kwaye iphosakele, ngenxa yokuba ilumkile - nokuba ayikho rhabaxa. Akafihli izithuba kwimfundo: Icebiso lazo aliyi kuba kukubetha kwekratshi.
Kutheni esenza? Uyazivuma ukuba ngubani na, azithande nabani na. Uthanda ubutyebi, intlupheko, ukugula, impilo. Kwaye kuthandwa izidenge. Elinye iqashiso labantu basetyhini abazizidenge, isidenge ngalo lonke uxinizelelo lwakhe.
7. Ukungoyiki ukuba ngumfazi
Uyazi ukuba imeko yomfazi nokuba lo mfazi ulizwe eliyileyo, isigxina. Kwaye ezi zii-halves ezimbini zequmrhu elinye-ye-Alas, itshintshiwe. Ke ngoko, akugwebi abo bafazi, kwaye abamfuni lo mfazi ukuba akhwaze.
Uyazi:
Abasetyhini kwifom emsulwa ayikho ngokwemvelo. Abayi kubabona esipilini.
Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo: Sonke sahlukile. Kwaye nakuphi na ukuhlelwa kobuntu basetyhini yinto yokuzivocavoca, kuvulwa kakubi, eBaba kulungile. Okanye ulungile - kwibhinqa nje.