Ixesha leflarid kunye neekhompyuter zenza imeko yakhe emnyama: eRussia, phantse ikota yabemi baphethwe kakhulu okanye kakhulu. Ngokweengcali, phakathi kwezinye izinto, isifo siselula ngokukhawuleza. Ungathetha njani nomntwana malunga nobunzima?
Okokuqala, gxila kwimpilo, hayi kwiifom.
Abantwana namhlanje bajikelezwe kwelinye icala leefoto zabantu abanamalungu angenakufikelelwa, kwaye kwezinye-iifowuni zokuhamba kwaye zikhawuleze iilekese, zokutya okukhawulezayo, ukuvelisa igesi kunye nenye i-JanK.Eli ntshona lenza ukuba abantwana abaninzi bazive bengone nobunzima babo, ixhala malunga noku kwaye, ewe, ngale nto: ngokokuthintela izifo, kule minyaka ingama-30 idlulileyo, inani le Abantwana abahluphekayo ekutyeba kakhulu siphindezele, kwaye abakwishumi elivisayo banda ngowesine.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, malunga nesithathu sabantwana nabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo bafumana ubunzima. Kwaye izigidi zibandezeleka kwingxaki echaseneyo: ukutya oko kunganeli.
Ukuthetha ngobunzima bomntu nakuphi na iminyaka abangakwaziyo ukungabinamsebenzi. Kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba bathethe nomntwana othambileyo kwaye owenzakeleyo, iibhere ziphezulu kuphela - naliphi na igama elingenakukhathalela umntwana.
Ungabazali njani?
Okokuqala, ngokutsho kukaGqr Susra Hassink, uMlawuli weZiko leMfundo laseMelika loPhedi lezinto ezisempilweni, abazali ngokwabo ababuqiqiyo kwaye bamkelwe yinto yokuba ubunzima bentsapho ngumbuzo wosapho. Abantwana abathathe isigqibo malunga nendlela yesondlo okanye umthambo-bahlaba kwiimeko ababenazo.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ubambe nayiphi na incoko, abazali bafanele bajonge ubuso bezonyango. Ngokufuthi abantu abadala abathandanayo abakwazi ukubhekisa kumntwana wabo. Nokuba ogqirha bahlala bephosakele.
"Uyintoni, yintoni! Akanamanqatha! Ufana naloo nto, mmmmm, enkulu! "
Ke abazali baya kumenzela i-Arma umzimba wesalathiso sesalathiso somzimba kunye nokuthobela izikhombisi zophuhliso lweminyaka yobudala, kwaye ungaxhomekeki kwizinto zawo.
Umntwana
Kweli xesha, isenzo sibaluleke ngakumbi kunengxoxo. Susa nje ukusuka ekhaya into engacwangciswanga kukutya. Ukususela ebutsheni, abantwana bafumana imikhwa kunye namasiko eentsapho zabo - bacinga kakhulu kwaye baqwalasele kakhulu, ukuze bathethe ngento oyenzayo, ubuya kuthetha ntoni ngaxeshanye. Ke kwangaphambi kokuba ube nencoko malunga "nezahlulo ezincinci", "ukutya okusempilweni" kunye "nemikhwa eluncedo yokutya", qala uzisebenzisa ngokwakho.
isikolo esiphakamileyo
I-Schocheldren idlula kwiinguqu ezininzi zemoto kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zinomdla kakhulu kuyo yonke into. Awunakuvakalisa iifom zomntu, ivolumu egqithisileyo okanye i-hoodoooo egqithisileyo - sonke sikhula kwaye siphuhlile ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa abazali banokuqalisa ukufunda abantwana ukuba balawule ngokwabo umzimba kunye nempilo, buza ukuba bayakhubeka njani na esikolweni ngenxa yefomu yomzimba ombi okanye ubunzima obukhulu. Kodwa eyona ngcinga iphambili ihlala ifana - lo ngumbuzo wosapho ukuba wonke umntu ugqiba kunye.
Abatsha
Ngolutsha, kuyavakala ukwenza incoko malunga nempilo njengenxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi, yiza malunga notat'omkhulu, obenoxinzelelo olukhulu, abenexinzelelo olo lwalukutya bonke ubomi bakhe Kuba wayenesifo seswekile ubomi bakhe bonke. Ukongeza, unokuthetha ngemikhwa eluncedo: Ekukhetheni ukutya okunempilo kwimibutho kude kube yiyure eyongeziweyo endaweni yokuhlala phambi kweTV.
Nakuphi na iminyaka apho kungabikho ntlawulo okanye ingqumbo. Le ncoko ayisiyonto eyenziwa ngumntwana, kwaye ithuba lokuba selula kuye kwaye ube ngowazi ukuba utya. Kwaye khumbula ukuba akukho mntu ugqibelele. Ukuba iba nzima ngokupheleleyo, ke musa ukunikezela, xhasa kwaye uye kwinjongo kunye.