Ubundlobongela bosapho ligama elibandakanya iindlela ezininzi zokuxhatshazwa. Iphawula unyango olukhohlakeleyo okanye lonakalise abantu abadala okanye abantwana abanokubakho kubathandekayo babo, izalamane zabo. Ubundlobongela bosapho yingxaki enzima apho izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo (ubudlelwane bomntu ngamnye kunye noluntu) zidlala indima.
Amaxhoba amakhulu Obundlobongela boSapho
1. Abafazi
Ubundlobongela boSapho yeyona nto ixhaphakileyo kulwaphulo-mthetho oluxhaphakileyo eMelika. Ngokweenkcukacha-manani, isibini ngasinye saseMelika sabathathi-nxaxheba kwiziko elinobundlobongela obuphambili ngo-1985. Abafazi babuthathaka ngokwasemzimbeni, ngoko ke lixhoba ngqo. Ngokukodwa abafazi abangenamava baphantsi koku, njengoko benganazo izimvo malunga nendlela yokuzikhusela.
2. Bantwana
Abantu abaphantsi konyango olungenamsebenzi okanye ukuba nenqanaba lentlalontle eliphantsi lihlala lizama ukukhubekisa abo basezantsi bentlalontle. Kwamanye amazwe, abantwana abaninzi bahlala benxibelelana nabazali babo ovuthazekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha babonakala bengancedi ukuba unina wabethwa njani, kwaye akukho nto inokwenziwa ukumnceda. Ibeka umthetho ubomi bakhe bonke.
Unganceda njani abafazi nabantwana bajamelana nobundlobongela?
Abafazi banokwenza yonke imigudu yokwenza imeko yosapho efudumeleyo nenobunzima kumalungu osapho lwabo. Banokucwangcisa imisebenzi edibeneyo, umzekelo, ukuhamba nosapho okanye bahambe kunye ukuthenga, kunye nokuthatha iindwendwe kwaye zilungiselele izipho zeholide ezikhethekileyo.
Abantwana kufuneka bafundise ukusonjululwa kweengxabano, ukuphathwa komsindo kunye nezinye izakhono eziza kusebenza kakuhle kubudlelwane bosapho obuzayo. Ngokubanzi, ubundlobongela basekhaya yityhefu kakhulu kuluntu luphela kwaye lubantu babantu. Kufuneka senze yonke into oyifunayo ukuyiphepha. Kwangelo xesha, kumanqaku engqondo, kuthiwa ukuba uluntu kunye nabasemagunyeni kufuneka banikele ingqalelo enkulu kule ngxaki kwaye bathathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo ukunciphisa iimeko zobundlobongela basekhaya.