Amadoda rhoqo angacingi ngaphesheya kwezinto abazithethayo, ngenxa yento eyenza ingqumbo enkulu kunye nezithuko. Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabameli bomgangatho oqinileyo ababoniyo, baphefumlelwe ngokunyanzelisa ukuba bangathethi mntu. Kodwa abafazi babona amabinzana angamadoda abekhe kwaye benze ezabo izigqibo. Kwaye nokuba amadoda angacaphukiyo malunga nelogic yesilivere, amanye amabinzana angcono angazibize, ngenye amaxesha anzima kubudlelwane.
1. Umfazi kufuneka athobele umntu wakhe kuyo yonke into.
Umfazi akukho nanye indoda yakhe, yena yena. Zonke izinto ezilungileyo, zikhathalelo nokujongana kufuneka zinyaniseke, kwaye zinganyanzelwa, kungenjalo aluthandweni. Indoda mayingayalela intanda yakhe, ukuba ingamnyanzeli ukuba afezekise imiyalelo yakhe, akhwaze ukuba akamameli, kuba emehlweni akhe ngokukhawuleza akhawuleza abuyele kwindoda enothando. Kwaye le binzana le-narcissist aliyi kuzithethelela izenzo zendoda, kodwa izokuphuma kuphela kwibhinqa kwaye iphinde icinge ngesibakala sokuba wayengekho endleleni ngegunya eligunyazisiweyo.2. "Bonke abafazi bayafana."
Eyona ithandwa kakhulu, isidenge kwaye inyuke yebinzana labasetyhini. Ngapha koko, ukuba bonke abafazi bafana, kutheni le ndoda yakhetha umfazi omuhle, onesidima onesidima, engeyiyo eyenye eyayixhonywa kuye ngalo lonke ixesha, ihamba ngenkampani engenayo? Ke ukhona umahluko? Kwaye ngenkangeleko nakwimigaqo yokomoya, bonke abafazi bahlukile komnye nomnye, malunga nomdla othile kuphela kunye neempawu zomntu. Ukuba umntu akakuqondi oku, kufuneka acinge ngemeko apho umfazi wakhe wathetha into efanayo ngaye. Ngaba uya kuba mnandi? Kunqabile.
3. Yintoni onokuyiqonda, ungumfazi! "
Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo akathandi ukuya kwilondolozi, jonga ibhola okanye ukubandakanyeka kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, oko akuthethi ukuba usisidenge, ngenxa yoko ayisoze ifumane ukuyifumana. Ihlala ingafanelekanga ukubonisa umntu onesini, kuba akukho mdla ucocekileyo okanye ongumfazi, kuyo yonke indawo kukho okwahlukileyo. Ke ngoko, kukho abafazi abangcono kunabantu abaninzi bekhwele koomatshini. Kwaye kukho abantu abangakwazi ukunyamezela ukuloba, kuba bakhetha ukuchitha ixesha ngenkuthalo. Wonke umntu unezakhe izilangazelelo kunye nezinto ozikhethayo, ngoko akufanelanga tyala ukuba akaqondi into.4. Le ayisiyonto eyindoda. "
Amanye amadoda akholelwa ngokunganyaniseki ukuba azidalwanga ukuze ahlambe imigangatho, hlamba iimpahla okanye upheke ukutya, kuba ayingomntu ungamadoda. Kodwa, ukuba umntu uhlala ehlala ngokwakhe? Uya kubhabha yonke imihla eluthulini nakumfihlakeleyo, inxibe izitya ezingazinzisiyo kunye ne-qhube iqhushumbisi ngeephakheji ezivela kwiimveliso ezikhawulezayo? Ibinzana elifanayo labiza ubuvila bakhe kuphela, ukungahlambuluki kunye nesimo sengqondo kumfazi njengesitya sokuhlambela. Nantsi indlela yokuziphatha kwaye ayisiyo ishishini lendoda.
5. "Ewe, ukuba ndiziva ..."
Indoda elungileyo ihlala ixhasa intanda yakhe kwaye ihlala imnceda, ukufumana umbulelo, uthando kunye nezenzo zokuphendula. Kodwa akasokuze avuthele umfazi kwinto awayeyenza kwiminyaka emihlanu eyadlulayo, nokuba lo mthetho ngokweyona ndlela ibuchaphazela ubomi bakhe. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uthando olunyanisekileyo yimvakalelo eqingqiweyo engafuni kwanto kwimbuyekezo. Ke ngoko, iingcikivo ezinjalo ngokwahlula-hlulwa, umfazi uza kuthatha i-bayonots, njengoko engafuni kuyiva impendulo yobomi bam, andifuni mntu kubameli besondo elihle.