Iingcali zengqondo zibhekise kwiindidi ezintlanu zotshintsho, apho nganye nganye inesivumelwano sayo. Ukwazi ngabo, ungathintela ukungabi nakho ukuphembelela komntu wakho omthandayo, kungcono ukufunda iqabane lakho.
Ingqeqesho "yothando"
Kolu hlobo lokuvutha komlomo yedwa ongenamthwalo neengxaki zobomi, kodwa ugcwele iimvakalelo, iinoveli ezifanayo. Ubuntu, osoloko ukrokrela ekukhangeleni into ebhetele. Ngokubhekisele kwiinoveli eziguqukayo, zihlala zifumana abantu abaziinkathalo zabo ngabom, kwaye kuphela ipesenti yabantu abatsalelekileyo kubo ngokuthanda kwetyala.Iindawo zokuhlala zezoloptesta zitekeze kakhulu - zonke iziyolo zigxininisiwe kubudlelwane-imeko entsha, abantu abatsha, zonke iingxaki zihlala ngokuzenzekelayo kwesinye isixeko. Abantu banokuhlangulwa ngokupheleleyo phantsi kwesenzo se-Intgnito. I-Romance izakugqitywa ekupheleni kweholide, kwaye akukho mntu uya kwazi malunga nolwalamano.
Ingcambululo njengoqhanqalazo
Ukungcatshano okunjalo kwenzeka kwiimeko apho iqabane lihambisa umnqweno wokumpompoza okhethiweyo. Rhoqo, ukungonakalisi okunjalo akwenziwanga, akunjalo, kodwa ngokucacileyo, kucacile ukuba umntu ufuna ukuvukela, xa yonke into inikezelwa, kwaye yonke into inikezelwa kwipokotho yemfumba yemfumba.
Eyona nto iphambili yale ngcalu yolo hlobo emva kokuba yenziwe ifezekisiwe, umcebisi akafumani tyala kuye, kwaye udlulisela lonke uxanduva kwiqabane lakhe "lazisa" kurhulumente onjalo.
Ingcambululo njengendlela yokugqibezela ubudlelwane
Iimeko ezinjalo kuxa ubudlelwane budiniwe ngokupheleleyo, kodwa bubunzima bokugqibelela, hayi. Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo ukuba umntu othatha inxaxheba kubudlelwane akaqondi ukuba yonke into imbi kakhulu, kuba kwimeko yesiqhelo esonjululwe ngokudityaniswa, ukuba akukho nto ingenakulungiswa. Kodwa ukuba wagqiba kwelokuba aphelise yonke into kwaye angaweli kwincoko, kulula ukuba enze inguqulelo.Kuyahlekisa, kodwa nokuba udiniwe lulwalamano kwaye ufuna ukunqanda, ukuxhomekeka okwabelayo nako akuthandi ukuthatha uxanduva ngento eyenzekayo, ngokunjalo kwiqabane lakhe ukuba iphakame ngayo yonke into kwaye iya kuqalisa kwisithuba.
Olu hlobo lokungcatsha luhlala lubuqu kunye nobuntu obufuna ukunqanda ukungqubana kunye neengxoxo ezingathandekiyo nangayiphi na indleko.
Ingcambululo ngenxa yokuziphatha kakuhle kwesondo
Eli nqanaba libandakanya ukuvutha kwenxaxheba koomama bokuziphatha okulula. Kule meko, sithetha ngabafazi abaqhelekileyo, abaya kuhlala befumana isizathu sokungathembeki kwabo. Kuba isondo elithile sisiyobisi, ngaphandle kokuba bengakwazi ukuphila, abanye yindlela yokuzithemba. Kodwa nantoni na eyona nto ingunobangela wento eyenzekayo yenzekayo. Kwaye ecaleni komntu okhululekileyo ngokwesini kubiza kakhulu - ayiyi kuyilungisa kakhulu, kwaye kuphela amasebe namasebe aya kuba ziimpondo zeqabane.
I-MABRANUST YOKUTHENGA IXESHA
Kwaye lo ngumsindo oqiqayo kubo bonke, ngentla apha, kwaye owona mbuzo uphambili ngumba uvulekileyo okanye uvaliwe. Kuyinyani, nangayiphi na imeko, i-modifier iya kuhlala kwindawo elahlekileyo. Ukuba ibumbano livulekile, xa iqabane lifunda ngezinto ezenzekayo, yena, ewe, uya kunciphisa yonke ingqalelo yonyuliweyo, kodwa ayizukuyalwa luhlobo, endaweni yoko, ngokuchaseneyo. Ngomsindo ofihlakeleyo, iqabane alizazi kwanto, ayiyi kutsala umdla kwaye ithini inqaku?
Abo bafuna ukutsala umdla womntu othandekayo, oonontlalontle bacebisa ukuba bangahambi kwinqanaba elinjengombuso. "Ukuvuka" iqabane liya kuba lingenantlonelo ecaleni, eliya kubangela ikhwele. Kodwa eli cebiso lingumntu ngamnye kwaye lixhomekeke kwiimpawu zomntu. Ukuba iqabane linomona kakhulu, umzekelo, ke loo ndlela yokuziphatha iyacaphukisa, iya kubangela ubugqwetha kwaye inokukhuthaza ikhefu lobudlelwane. Ke ngoko, kwityala elithandanayo ecaleni kwecala kufanelekile ukusebenzisa ulumke kwaye uqalise ngemida "encinci".