Malunga nolwalamano phakathi komkhwekazi kunye nomkhwekazi abanomama baqulunqwe ngeengoma, badubula i-anecdotes kwaye babhale i-anecdotes, yile ntombi nje - amahobe ayonzi lula. Ingxaki yaphakade 'yoMthetho--gazana ongathandekiyo' iyaqhubeka. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ngandlel 'ithile isombulula le ngxabano? Ngokuqinisekileyo! Eyona nto iphambili kukukhetha amaqhinga afanelekileyo kwaye unamathela kwimithetho emininzi.
Imithetho emibini ephambili kuwo wonke umolokazana
Inombolo ye-1Into yokuqala yokuqonda umolokazana, kukuba umkhwekazi akayi kuyixela imfazwe, kodwa ngenxa yendawo ayithabathela entliziyweni yonyana wakhe amthandayo. Kutshanje, yayingumama owayengumfazi ophambili kubomi bonyana wakhe, kwaye ngoku isidenge sinamathela kwihenyukazi - umfazi. Ke ngoko, akufuneki uzame ukutshintsha umama wakho othandwayo, kwanele ukuhlala nje umfazi wakhe onothando.
Inombolo yesi-2.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula izikhalazo rhoqo ngendoda yakhe konina, kwinto ayithethayo, ngaba nayiphi na ingxelo engalunganga kwicala lakhe - yonke le nto itshabalalisa ubudlelwane bakho nomntu omthandayo. Ewe, sele umntu omdala kunye nenkwenkwe ezimeleyo, kodwa umama, kodwa uya kuhlala ehleli oyena mntu usondeleyo nowomguli ongavunyelwanga ukuba amngcikiva kuye nabani na.
Umgaqo ofanayo usebenza kwelinye icala-ukomeleza nokwenza ubudlelwane noninazala, yonke into iya kusebenza naye intanda. Mhlawumbi akathethi ngayo, kodwa naye akathandeki ukujonga izikhubekiso zakho.
Umkhwekazi wegolide
Ngaba ucinga ukuba zikhona kuphela kwindalo iphela? Kwaye apha akunjalo! Imeko yophuhliso enjalo kunokwenzeka phantsi kweemeko ezithile, umzekelo, ukuba: • Uhlala phantsi kophahla ohlukeneyo. Ilungile xa usapho olutsha luye lufudukela kwenye indawo ephilayo, oko akusoloko kulithuba elinjalo. Ngaphandle koko, ukungcungcutheka rhoqo kuyakhuseleka. Ingqondo ezimbini ekhitshini nazo zinjalo. Ukuthanda izinto eziphakamisayo, imikhwa, iindlela zokupheka, indlela yokucoca nangakumbi - yonke le nto iya kwahluka, kwaye iNcwadi yoMkhweli "njengendawo engahambelaniyo Okokugqibela. Kodwa ke, kufuneka kubekho ukhuselwe apha, okanye zama ukwakha i-itrolomatic ngoncumo olubanzi.
• Ukongeza kumyeni wakho kusapho kukho abanye abantwana. Ewe, ewe, ukuba kukho omnye umntu, ke unethamsanqa kakhulu. Ke awuyi kuba "ukhethe" unyana okuphela, kwaye umkhwekazi uya kuba ngumntu onokuphosa uthando nokukhathalela.
• Ishishini lomntu lokufumana umthetho kunye nomntu oxakeke kakhulu. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba uneshishini lakhe okanye ulibale kakhulu, awayehlala elayisha rhoqo. Kule meko, akasayi kuba nexesha elaneleyo lokukhwela kusapho lwakho kwaye enze isimilo.
Kodwa yonke into yahlukile ngokupheleleyo ukuba: • Uhlala noninazala. • Indoda yakho ngumntwana omnye kusapho. • Umntwana owuthandayo omncinci okanye olindelwe ixesha elide kakhulu. • Ukuthanda uMama ukhwele kwaye wamphakamisa wedwa, ngelixa usebenza kwiMisebenzi emi-5. • Umhlala-phantsi umlobi-umkhwekazi-umkhwetha ongumdla kunye nomntu osimahla, ngaphandle kokuthanda izinto zokuzonwabisa.
Ezona zinto zininzi zetyala lakho, kuya kuba nzima ukumisela ubudlelwane, kodwa akukho tyala lingenathemba!
Ungadibana njani noMama kamama
Intlonelo sisixhobo esomeleleyo. Musa ukwenziwa malunga neenkani, ezinokuthathwa kumkhwekazi.
Ungaphenduli krwada kubakrele, zama ukuhlala unengqondo kwaye unembeko. Ukuba uhlaselo lwentywili luya kubakho rhoqo kwaye alunangqondo, olunokwenzeka, oku kuyakuqaphela umyeni wakho, akunakwenzeka ukuba athi cwaka kwaye athethe nonina.
Zama ukufumana into efanayo phakathi kwakho.
Ngenxa yomehluko kubudala, kuya kuba lula, kodwa ayizukubakho. Mhlawumbi unomdla kwimidlalo, okanye uyathanda ukuya kuthenga? Okanye mhlawumbi uyathanda ukupheka?
Zama ukwahlula abanye umdla wakhe, buza imibuzo yakhe kwimixholo apho uyingcali phi. Mememe kwi-cinema okanye kwithiyetha ngokuthatha inxaxheba komdlali wakhe amthandayo, tyelela i-salon yobuhle okanye i-SPA kunye. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngaphandle kwento yokuba nguninazala, ongumfazi okokuqala, ungumfazi onemidla efanelekileyo kunye neminqweno.
Ungaze ukhangele intanda yakho kuMama wakhe
Amadoda anyamezelayo izilayidi zabasetyhini, kwaye xa abafazi ababini abathandayo babandakanyekile koku, akukho nto siyithethayo. Xa kwelinye icala lomfazi, kodwa omnye umama, kunzima kuye ukwamkela icala lomntu, kuba zombini iindlela zokuphucula ziyalahleka. Kwaye nokuba yena ngamanye amaxesha uyayivumela ngokwakhe amabinzana angafakwanga ngunina, oku akuthethi ukuba uvumelekile kwaye wena.
Ngapha koko, akunakwenzeka ukuba ubeke intanda yakho ngaphambi kokuba ukhetha "okanye mna, nina" bafazi banokuba lukhulu, kwaye umama ngulowo uyabonakala. Kwaye ukwenzela ukuba agudise ubudlelwane kunye nomthetho onomama kwaye angayimisi indlela yokuqhushumba - Nokuba uhlala ngaphandle - ngamanye amaxesha ubiza impilo yakhe, malunga nempilo yakhe, uya kuba intle.
Makhe ndiqonde umkhwekazi ongumfazi ukuba uyafuna wena
Umamazala unzima kakhulu ukuba inkwenkwe ithandekayo, eyakho ikhulisa ngothando kwaye inyamekele ixesha elide, ngequbuliso yamshiya. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, wayehlala kuye kwaye waziva eswele. Kwaye ngoku uyaziqonda ukuba ulahliwe kwaye akafuneki, kuba iingxaki ziqala.
Unokuthoba iziphumo zokwaphula ngokwakho - inkxalabo yakho ngayo. Zonke iifowuni ezifanayo kunye nonxibelelwano, zibuze ngamanye amaxesha ukuba zikuncede ngento ethile, makaqonde ukuba ungubani umntu ofanelekileyo. Isibakala sokuba unokubonakala ngathi unzima, kuya kuba mnandi kuye. Sukuzama ukudibanisa nomntu ochasene nomkhwekazi
Nokuba bendifuna ukwenza le nto, akunakwenzeka ukwenza oku. Ezo zinto azifani ngokuzinza kwaye ngaxa linye imeko inokuthi iguqukele kuwe. Ngamanye amaxesha, kunjalo, ungaxoxa ngephupha, umzekelo, uRusokazni umkhwekazi, kodwa ungahambi kude. Buyisela igama emva kokuvezwa kwalololu hlobo kwaye kusekwe ubudlelwane phantse akunakwenzeka.
Sukufumana ukuncoma kunye nokucutha amandla onina
Nguwuphi umfazi ongazithandiyo? Kwaye xa amazwi amnandi avela kumkhwenyana-ngumdla othandekayo. Ewe kunjalo, akukho mfuneko yokuba udumise ngayo yonke into kwaye rhoqo, kungenjalo iya kukhankanya, kwaye akukho mntu uyithandayo. Incopho yesakhono somthetho-umntu - ngamanye amaxesha siyakuqonda ukungafezeki kwabo kunye nokuphakama komkhwekazi osentweni. Ewe kunjalo kunokuba yinto engathandekiyo kwaye inzima - impembelelo yale nto imangalisayo.
SUKUFUNDA BABANTWANA
Uninzi lwabasetyhini bazama ukusebenzisa i-artillery enzima kwaye baqalise ukungqubana nabantwana - beka i-taboo yakhe ekunxibelelaneni nomakhulu wakhe, wabazisela, njl njl. Khumbula ubudlelwane bakho noomama yinto enye, unabanye abantu. Yabantwana, ulindoda emveli, ngunyokheli wabo kwaye akabekeki tyala ngento yokuba abantu abadala abanakubekwa ityala. Ezi ngcebiso ziphambili ziya kunceda ekufutshane nakumamazala kwaye ziqonde iinjongo zokuziphatha kwayo.
Njengomthetho, ezona zinzima zinzima kakhulu ekuqaleni kobomi bosapho. Ixesha elingaphezulu, xa abantu beqhelene, bayakhathazeka ngeempawu zabo bonke, ubudlelwane baqala ukuziphucula. Kwaye khumbula, ukwenza isigqibo sokutshata nomntu omthandayo, uyazamkela ngokuzenzekelayo zonke izalamane zakhe.