Ngobomi bomtshato onomdla nobonwabisayo, ukuqonda nje enye nendoda yakhe akusoloko kwanele. Njengoko bekukho ukuziqhelanisa, ubudlelwane kunye nomama nabo buyazichaphazela iatmosfera kusapho lwabantu abasandul 'ukutshata. Ungazisa njani na kumkhwekazi wexesha elizayo? Indlela yokuziphatha njengentlanganiso yokuqala?
1. Lungisa impahla
Ukuya kwintlanganiso kunye nomkhwekazi wexesha elizayo, qiniseka ukuba unakekele imbonakalo yayo. Njengoko uyazi, sibhiyozelwa ziimpahla. Ke zama ukwenza umbono wokuqala woMkhwekazi ongumama ngawe unethemba.Yenza isipho esibonisa
Ungayibeka inkosi yam oyintloko yam kwintlanganiso yokuqala kunye ne-souvenir ethobekileyo, umbala webhanti okanye umkhondo othandekayo owenziwe ngezandla zakho. Apha kuya kufuneka unike intando ye-fantasy. Ungabhaka i-pie-in-coike ukuba ukwenzile. Okanye, mhlawumbi, uya kuba neetalente ekusebenzeni.
3. Cebisa uncedo lwakho ekhitshini
Ukuba intlanganiso ityelela umkhwekazi kwaye ingene endlini, uyaqonda ukuba icwangcisiwe ukuba ngumthendeleko okanye iti, qiniseka ukuba unika uncedo lukamama wakho kwikhitshi. Nawuphi na umama uyakuvuyela 'ukumnika uNyana ezandleni zomphumo onomdla.4. Dumisani, yenza ukuncoma
Unokumcaphukisa kakuhle kumkhwekazi wam ngokwenza ukuncoma unyana wakhe. Kodwa gcina engqondweni ukuba i-frank ecekeceke kakhulu ihlala iphinda ipeyinta. Ke musa ukudumisa.
5. Ukuziphatha kuthiwa
Ngamanye amaxesha umamazala-umosi ngesazela kwaye ngabom ukhuthaza umthetho-nye naye kwimbonakalo yemvakalelo. Ngale ndlela, umama wendoda uzama ukuqonda ukuba ndikhuthalele njani kwaye ndikhupha njani. Musa ukunikezela ekuvuseleleni, hlala uzolile, nokuba inkanyamba iphakama ngaphakathi kuwe. Xa umkhwekazi ebona ukuba akukho lula ukukuzisela ngokwam, uyakutshintsha uMated Maneru ngohlobo olunobuhlobo ngakumbi kwaye anobuhlobo.6. Lungiselela ibali malunga nawe
Sukuzama ukubonakala uchanekile kwaye ugqibelele ngexesha lomama wakho. Ubunzulu kunye nomda buya kuba buhlala bungxamile. Musa ukuba livila ukulungiselela ibali elincinci malunga nawe: malunga nezinto ozithandayo kunye nomsebenzi, usapho kunye nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo. Qaphela ukuba ibali lakho kufuneka lingathathi hlangothi, kwaye inkqubela yakho ayifanele inciphise. Ngamafutshane, ungavumeli ubonise ubukhulu becala okanye ubukhulu becala kwindoda yakho.
7. Lumka kwindoda yakho
Ngexesha lokuqhelana nomkhwekazi, zama ukuba yeyona nto ilungileyo, kunye noninazala nonyana wakhe. Nabani na umama uyakuvuyela ukubona ecaleni konyana wakhe umfazi onenkathalo nonothando. Nokuba uqhele ukunxibelelana nendoda ngendlela efanayo: ngokuhlekisa kwaye ubhomboloza, kungcono ukuhlehlisa unxibelelwano olunjalo de uhlale kunye. Indoda kaMama ayifanelekanga ukuba iyimfuneko ukubona ukuba loluphi uthando olushushu nolungqalileyo onalo.
Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, zama ukuziphatheka ngokwendalo nangokulula. Kwaye khumbula, umbono ombi ombi wobubi uya kuhlala uguqulwa.