Ulwalamano phakathi komkhwekazi kunye nomkhwekazi sisihloko esihle kakhulu, kuba indoda endala kufuneka ithathe intombi njengendodakazi kwaye ingayiboni utshaba kuyo. Kwaye sisabhekisa kunyana wakhe njengendoda esele ingumdala kwaye izama ukudala usapho. Yintoni ekufuneka siyenzile? Ungaphazamisi! Kwaye uyibone ngokufanelekileyo. Akafanele athathe indawo yakunina walo mntwana mncinci okanye nguyise (i-icescyst yengqondo).
Ewe, ukuba umolokazana uyathandwa ngunina. Kodwa ukuba oku akwenzekanga, unokwakha ubudlelwane bethemba kunye nayo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuhlonipha kwaye yamkele amava axabisekileyo, ukuba kubomi bomtshato kuluncedo kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba umolokazana kufuneka ahlale endlwini kamama, kangangokuba intsapho intshabalalo ayitshabalalisi, kuya kufuneka uphulaphule i-Etiquette kwaye ugcine inani lemithetho engaziwayo.
1. Ukuba kukho abafazi ababini endlini, ngoko banini baninzi (ngaphandle kwengqesho ekhaya okanye emsebenzini, ngenxa yokugula). 2. Inkosikazi yakudala ayisiyiyo enye esebenza ngakumbi ekhaya okanye izuza ngakumbi, kodwa emva koomama (emva kwayo yonke loo nto, indlu yakhe). Nguwo onikwa indawo ebekekileyo kusapho nasetafileni. 3. Akukho mkhwekazi akanakubhiyozelwa imibhiyozo yosapho. 4. Xa ufuna ukusombulula lonto okanye lo mbuzo malunga nosapho, kufuneka uye kumamamazala. 5. Xa iindwendwe ezenzeka mncinci, umfazi okhulileyo akanyanzelekanga ukuba ahlale nabo etafileni kwaye wonwabe. Kodwa kufuneka uphume egumbini lakho kwaye uthi molo. Ukuba iindwendwe zangenaselula, kodwa kubadala, eli bhinqa lincinci litshatileyo liyayamkela iindwendwe kwaye lisusa imicimbi yabo. 6. Ngexesha lombhiyozo, akufuneki uthumele ukuphumla phantsi kwayo nayiphi na intelekelelo yokuthumela ukuphumla xa ethanda inkampani. 7. Ukungancedini incoko (ethe cwaka ngequbuliso) xa igumbi libandakanya igumbi likamama. 8. Umolokazi akazange afanele athethe nabantwana bakhe ukuba umakhulu angaqhelekanga ngenxa yobudala bawo. 9. Phambi kukaninazala woMkhwekazi, akukho mahloni yamadoda amadala. 10. Ungamkhumbuze umkhwekazi malunga nobudala bayo. 11. Musa ukumxelela ukuba uza kuyenza ntoni endaweni yakhe. 12. Umkhwekazi akafanele ukuba abe ngumkhwa kuphela yimicimbi yekhaya okanye ngabazukulwana. Ungumntu okhululekileyo! 13. Musa ukuthenga izinto zomthetho ezimnyama kunye ne-slippers emhlophe efana nendlela yokufa. 14. Musa ukuvumela umkhwekazi uziva ngcono endlwini ukuba ebusweni bayo uya kukhalaza ukuba ukuhlala phantsi indawo yokuhlala incinci kakhulu. 15. Umkhwekazi akafanelanga ukuba nomdla kakhulu ngobomi bosapho oluselula. 16. Ukuba umolokazana nonyana wagxotha umkhwekazi wakhe ngento ethile, akufunekanga ukuba ukhulelwe kubo. 17 Umkhwekazi ngumfazi onobulumko, ngoko ke akufuneki abhenca i-whimps yabo. 18. Umkhwekazi akafuneki ukuba alandele umolokazana. 19. Ayamkelekanga xa umkhwe kamama wenza ukuba abantu abatsha bamthobele. Okanye enomsindo xa uNyana okanye umolokazana-Am-ngumthetho kufuneka ashiye indlu ngalo nasiphi na isizathu. 20. AMANQAKU ATSHINTSHA kwaye abancinci banokuntywila ngakumbi kunokuzala ngexesha lobutsha bayo. Ke ngoko, akafanele ukuba akhawuleziswe ngala mazwi: "Nali ixesha lethu ...". 21. Umkhwekazi ongumama ufike kakubi xa egweba unyana wakhe ngaphambi kokukhwela kunye ne-visi. Ngakumbi ukuba kuyenzeka phambi kwabanye abantu! 22. Umakhwekazi akafanele ukukhankanya rhoqo. Ngakumbi ukuba lide kwaye libaleka amabali. 23. Umkhwekazi kunye nomkhwekazi kufuneka bahlonele iimvakalelo, imikhwa kunye nokuncokola omnye komnye. Musa ukugxekwa omnye komnye okanye hlezelela ukugxekwa okungafanelekanga.