Uninzi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngoku lunokumangaliswa luze luzibuze: "Sele ikho enye into emtshatweni ukuba omnye umntu engaziwa." Kwaye ukuba ngokunzulu, umntu ongakholelwa kumxholo womtshato, obude ngelishwa awutshata ngelishwa, ngebungakwazi ukuza nesizathu esinye somtshato.
Abantwana banokuqaliswa kwaye ngaphandle kwawo, kwaye ihlabathi sele liphelile kwaye lingcolile, kutheni le nto ukulinika obunye ubomi kuyo ... kodwa ke, ayingabo bonke. Kodwa kwanabo bafuna ukutshata okanye ukutshata, ngokuqinisekileyo, kude kuzo zonke iingenelo ezinokubonelelwa ngumtshato.1. Umngcipheko omncinci wokuhlaselwa kwentliziyo
Nangona abaninzi bengakuthandi ngokwenene xa iqabane likufutshane ebusuku, kodwa, ngokwemiphumo yesifundo esitsha, umtshato unciphisa umngcipheko wesifo sentliziyo. Isizathu sokuba umntu onwabe ngakumbi, kwaye ukuthoba inqanaba loxinzelelo, kuba unokuthetha nesiqingatha sakho esigqibeleleyo, ukuqonda ukuba zombini zichaphazelekayo ngokulinganayo malunga nemeko. Akusayi kuphinda kujongene neengxaki zemihla ngemihla kuphela ngamaxesha anzima, kwaye kuya kubakho umntu oya kuhlala eyixhasa. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abatshatileyo bayamdla ubomi, njengoko bekhathalelana.
2. Ihambo ekhuselekileyo
Xa kuvela usapho, apho kufuneka ninyamekele khona, nisazi ukuba kukho iqabane, niya kuhlala kulo, nithi umntu uyayeka ukuthatha izenzo ezinobungozi, njengokusetyenziswa kakhulu ukuqhuba ukuqhuba. Olu phononongo lubonise ukuba emva komtshato, abantu banokuba lula ukujongana nengozi kwaye, njengommiselo, uphephe ukuba nempilo entle. Bathanda ukukhusela kwaye bonwabile, kuba kukho abantu abathembele kubo.3. Ithuba elincinci lokubetha
Ngapha koko, kubantu abatshatileyo, umngcipheko wokubetha ngama-64% asezantsi. Izizathu ziyafana nakwimeko yokuhlaselwa kwentliziyo. Nangona kunjalo, amanani afanayo achaphazela umbono.
4. Ukubuyiselwa kwimeko yesiqhelo ngokukhawuleza emva kotyando
Emva kotyando, iqabane elinothando lisenokuba sisizathu sokuba umntu afune ukubuyisela ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye ukhathalelo luya kunceda ukuphinda kukhanye. Ukuba abantu bonwabile emtshatweni, bangamaxesha amathathu aphilileyo okungenani iminyaka eli-15. Ukulungela ukuphila ubomi obonwabisayo kunye neqabane lakho kuya kuphucula impilo xa kuthelekiswa nomntu ongatshatanga.5. Apha ngezantsi kwethuba lokugula ngengqondo
Ngokuthetha ngoku, kulula ukuba uyokuphambana xa uwedwa. Uninzi lweengcali zengqondo zipapashe amanqaku kwaye zibonisa ukuba abantu abatshatileyo bahlala benganaxinzelelo olukhulu kwaye banamathuba amancinci okuphuhlisa iziphazamiso zengqondo ezamkelweyo xa bengatshatanga okanye baqhawule umtshato. Uthando oluhlanganisana abantu luya kwanela ukuba ekugqibeleni esi sibini sonwabile.
6. Unyana obalaseleyo.
Ngubani ongathandi ukugona ngaphambi kokulala. Ngaphambi kokuba ahambe kwilizwe lephupha, unokufumana intuthuzelo kuzo zonke iingxaki ezenzeka emva kwemini, ukuba zidityaniswe ngesandla sakho kunye neqabane lakho. Xa abantu bonwabile emtshatweni, banamathuba amaninzi okulala kakuhle ebusuku (de kube selusulelo okanye iinwele).7. Ubomi obude
Zonke ezi nxalenye ziqinisekisa ukuba abantu abatshatileyo baya kuba nobomi obude, kwaye kuya kuba mnandi xa uthanda iqabane lakho kwaye ufuna ukuchitha ixesha naye. Ulonwabo sesinye sezizathu zokuba ufune ukuhlala, kwaye enye yeendlela onokuphila kade. Izifundo zibonakalise ukuba abantu abalodwa baphantse bafa bade kunabo abo bakhonzayo. Ubukho beqabane kumndilili kunye nobudala abadala ukuba kungabikho kufa kwangoko.