UTom Ettaoter ngoSeptemba ngo-2012 wafumanisa ukuba une-turumum engavuthayo. Kwenzeka kanye xa intombi yakhe uKelly ilwa ne-neuroblastoma. Intombazana inokwenzeka kakhulu, kodwa utata akasayi kuba kungekudala. UTom wabhala umntwana ileta evulekileyo eyamxelela yonke into awayengayithetha kwiminyaka engamashumi nakulishumi. Oku, ngokucacileyo, eyona ileta icocekileyo nechukumisayo, eyabhalwa nguyise watshata.
Telly Kelly, ndiyaxolisa ukuba andinakubukela indlela okhula ngayo, ndingathanda oku. Uninzi ootata kunye neentombi ezimashumi eminyaka ukuya kumashumi eminyaka ngaphandle kwetafile yasekhitshini, ngeekomityi zekofu ezandleni-inika icebiso, intombi inika amehlo akhe. Asinalo ixesha. Andinakukukhokelela kwiklasi yokuqala, ndikuthathe ukusuka kumhla wokuqala, hug hug xa unentliziyo yokwenzakalisa, ukukhathazeka ngawe kuvavanyo lokugqibela. Kodwa ke indoda yakho endala ikufuphi. Kwaye ndacinga ukuba ndingakunika iingcebiso. Ndiyathemba ukuba uza kukunceda kancinane. Kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba umhlaza wakho awuyi kubuya kwaye ubomi bakho buya kuba mde, ubutyebi kwaye bonwabile.Isikolo
Bonke baya kukuxelela indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba ufunde. Ndiyathemba ukuba uza kuhlala usebenza nzima. Ndifunde kakuhle, kodwa ngaba indinceda ngokwenene ebomini? Hayi ncma. Isikolo sibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa sizame kwaye sonwabe.
Amakhwenkwe
Ngoku awuboni umahluko okhethekileyo phakathi kwamakhwenkwe namantombazana, ungumhlobo bonke ngokulandelelana. Kodwa kungekudala iya kutshintsha. Uya kufumanisa ukuba amakhwenkwe anuka ngobudenge kwaye ayonakalisi. Kodwa emva koko, sele kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, uyakuqonda ukuba banokuba ziikhilomitha ezintle. Xa ukhula - ndiyathemba ukuba ayikahambisi kungekudala - uya kuba nabafana. Kwaye andinakuthetha kakhulu nabo malunga neembeko kunye neenjongo, njengoko uBawo exhomekeke. Ke likho iBhunga likaYihlo. Kunzima kakhulu ukuchaza ukuba yintoni- thanda uthando. Kodwa ubonile ukuba uhleka njani umama wakho, ukugona, ukuhlala kwisofa, kwaye le yinto kanye eyaqalwayo xa iintliziyo ziqalisiwe kwaye iintliziyo zephepha zilahlekile kwenye indawo. Zama nje ukuphindaphinda. Soloko ukhetha amakhwenkwe abafana, kunye neembeko, ngentlonipho. Khawufane ucinge indlela abasela ngayo iti kwikhitshi lethu kwaye bakhokelele incoko enesidima nathi. Ukuba ucinga ukuba lo mfo uyaphumelela- ufumene umfana onesidima. I-ALOS, ngenye imini intliziyo yakho iyaphuka. Ibuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye kuya kubonakala kuwe ukuba esi sisiphelo sehlabathi. Kodwa uya kusinda, wonke umntu ukhathazekile. Kwaye xa abantu beza kuphela, bahle. Amakhwenkwe aneemvakalelo. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba unomhlobo wenkwenkwe oya kuba nawe ngawo onke amaxesha anzima, xa amanye amakhwenkwe aya kuza ahambe, umkhathalele kwaye ungabuthathi ubuhlobo bakhe.Umtshato
Ndiphuphe, njengoko ndiya kukukhokelela esibingelelweni, ndicinge ukuba amehlo am azaliswe njani, ndininika umyeni wam. Andikwazi ukwenza le nto, uKelly, ndixoleleni. Kodwa ndiza kukujonga ngalo mhla, bonwabile kwaye ndinekratshi kuba uzifumene kwisibini esimangalisayo.
Umama
Ndiyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha uya kutshayela ngomama wakho, ngakumbi xa ungena kwiminyaka yokufikisa. Ukhumbula nje ukuba uyakuthanda kwaye uyakunqwenelela okuhle. Mama mama mama, xa kulusizi, sincedane ukuze siphile amaxesha ayoyikisayo eza xa ndimkile. Xa uba kwishumi elivisayo, uya kucinga ukuba abahlobo bakho balungile, kwaye umama akanjalo. Kodwa wazama ukwenza izisombululo ezinzima kuwe, kwaye kumphefumlo wakhe uhlala unezinto onomdla kuzo - ukuya kwinqanaba elikhulu kuneyona nto ibalaseleyo yomhlobo wakho. Hamba naye.Usapho
Akukho nto ibalulekileyo yosapho kunye neenqobo ezibizayo. Akukho kwanto.
Abahlobo
Phatha abantu njengoko bekuphatha. Hlala uyimayile nabantu abakuncedayo. Akukho nto imbiyo kunokuba ityibilika.IKrisimesi kunye nemihla yokuzalwa
KwiKrisimesi yokuqala ngaphandle kwam, ndifuna ukuba ufumane ikhandlela nomama kwaye ucinge ngam imizuzu embalwa. Kuya kuba mkhulu ukuba udanisa kunye. Uya kutsiba kwaye uqhwithela pops, ngokungathi ndisondele kwaye ndiwile ekuhlekeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kundenza ndincume. Kwaye kuya kuba kuhle, ukuba undwendwela abazali bam imini emva kweKrisimesi, baya kuba nzima. Ndishiye izipho ngayo yonke imihla yokuzalwa kwakho. Yimfesane ukuba andiyi kuba kufutshane nam xa uzivula. Ndiyanqwena uyayithanda. Kunzima ukucinga ukuba kwiminyaka eli-10, i-15 okanye engama-20. Ndiyathemba ukuba uza kuthanda umkhombandlela kunye nomdaniso ojikeleze igumbi phantsi komculo wabo.
Umsebenzi.
Ndikhumbula undixelele into ofuna ukuba yinkosana-oonongozelelo kwaye uvule iiplanethi ezintsha kwiingubo ezintle. Ngoku wena, ngokucacileyo, sele uqonde ukuba akunakwenzeka. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, izinto ezininzi zinokwenzeka. Yenza into ekuyivuyisa. Ukuba wenze into oyithandayo, ubomi buye bubonakalisa kakhulu, bumnandi ngakumbi. Kuya kufuneka uguqule amanqanaba aliqela ngaphambi kokukhetha umsebenzi. Makubenjalo. Ubomi buyedwa, kwaye ithuba lethu liyedwa.Imbeko
Sukulibala amagama omlingo- "Nceda!" Kwaye enkosi! " Ngoku sikunye nonina esikuqhubayo, kuba ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye inceda ebomini. Soloko ube nembeko, ngakumbi nabadala. Hayi abantu kwangoko ngamazwi. Ungalibali ukubhala iileta zobubele xa ufumana izipho. Kwaye ewe, iziqhulo malunga ne-poop zilungile, kuphela xa uneminyaka emihlanu ubudala.
Umatshini
Ngokwesiqhelo, ootata bafundisa ukuqhuba iintombi, kwaye bahlala besoyikisa kule nkqubo. Asizukuphumelela ngolo hlobo, kodwa uya kuzama ukufunda indlela yokukhokelwa kwangoko kangangoko - oku kuvula umhlaba phambi kwakho. Ewe, kwaye makungakuvumeli (ndiyaxolisa, sithandwa, kuyadlela).Ukuhamba
Esi seliché, kunjalo, olo hambo lwandisanda, kodwa kunjalo. Zama ukubona kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuhamba. Kodwa hayi kwisithuthuthu, kuyingozi kakhulu.
Yonwaba
Awusoze uhleke ngepesenti ezingamashumi amahlanu, uhlala kwikhulu. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyakuhlala uhleka njengononophelo. Ayenzi ingqiqo yokuzama ukungabi lusizi xa ndihamba. Ndiyazi ukuba kuya kuba nzima. Kwaye ndingathanda ukuba kufutshane kakhulu ndikuyekise kwaye ndizolile. Kodwa khumbula ibhere esiyithenge kwivenkile ethululweyo? Utshilo ukuba uza kukhathalela kwaye ungamhumi xa ndingangekhe. Lo ngumbono omkhulu.I-Sulfuur ye-chantity
Ndicela undivumele imali yokuthamba. Abantu babenobubele kuthi. Uya kuhlala ukhumbula uhambo lwethu ukuya eDisneyland. Kwaye andisokuze ndilibale ukuba bangaphi abantu abanikele imali ngonyango lwakho. Abalupheleyo bathunyelwa iposikhadi kunye netyala lika-Iremncieri ukuba baya kuziphathela. Abantu babaleke abathengi kunye neentloko zabo. Siqokelele iimali ezinkulu. Kwaye konke oku kuwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlawula amatyala. Kwaye izenzo ezilungileyo zinomphefumlo.
Yiba
Soloko uzame. Ukuphosa kukuphola. Kwaye unikezele. Ndiva iimpazamo ezimbalwa ebomini bam, kodwa andizange ndiyeke. Kwaye awusoze uyeke, uKelly.Kholelwa kuwe
Uninzi luya kukuxelela ukuba awukwazi okanye. Izigqibo ngokwayo. Unga? Uyafuna? Izinto ezinzima zihlala zisemngciphekweni omkhulu, ke kuya kufuneka ukhethe ngengqondo. Ukuba ufuna into-iphantse ihlale inokwenzeka, ke zama. Ndicinga ukuba ungafezekisa kakhulu. Kwaye ekugqibeleni ... Enkosi ngokuba, uKelly. Enkosi ngeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bam-lokuba undibiza ngokuba nguTata. Uyintombi yam, kwaye le yeyona ndibano ibalaseleyo kum. Enkosi-kuba yayinguwe ondifundise ulonwabo kunye nothando ngaphezu kwaye nawuphi na omnye umntu emhlabeni. Yonwabela ubomi bakhp. Ungangxami. Ndiza kulinda. Ndiyakuthanda, inkosazana yam, nonyoko wakho. Utata.