Ubudala beshumi elivisayo yenye yezithuba ezimbalwa zobomi bomntu omhle kakhulu! Ulutsha ngamakhwenkwe namantombazana anawo, ngokungathi kunjalo, hayi abantwana, kodwa abanabantu abadala. Eli xesha likhunjulwa, aliphindwanga njengobuntwana! Kodwa, ngelishwa, ayinguye wonke umntu oqhubeka eSerene.
Ngokuqala kweminyaka yokufikisa, kuvela iingxaki malunga nokuba ungazazi nto ngaphambi okanye ulibale, kwaye mhlawumbi babengafuni kwazi. Umntwana uyakhula, akasasazi ukuba akeziyo ukuba akanalo uluvo lwakhe, oko kukuthini kuphela abantu abadala. Unezakhe "" ", umlinganiswa owenziwa, indlela yakhe yokuphila, umbono wakhe kwizinto ezininzi. Abazali kufuneka baqondwe. Ewe kunjalo, oku akukho lula, ngakumbi oomama. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu basetyhini bayathanda ukuba bancancise abantwana, ukubakhusela, bathathe isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi eyona ntombazana inyanzelisa intombazana okanye i-guy, landela. Ewe, ngoku kuya kufuneka utshintsha ngokuthe ngcembe amaqhinga, ukwenze kwenziwe i-"Lesh", yiya emacaleni, kodwa kungabikho uphosa umntwana, ungayivumeli, ungavumeli ukuba kuvele iingxaki KwiSamotep ... Ngoku, ngokuchasene ne-vice, ngakumbi kufuneka ube kufutshane, kodwa ngononophelo, ngokungakhathali, kuhle. Ukuba unika umntwana, ke akukho nto ilungileyo iya kuphuma: Unyana okanye intombi yakho inokwenza iimpazamo, nxibelelana nenkampani embi, phosa izifundo ezimbi, cima kwiincwadi kwi-GADGETs njalo njalo.
Zama ukuhlala umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo okanye ubuncinci loo mntu unokumthemba nabani na onokuthetha naye, thetha nje, ndixelele ukuba uyamkhathalela ukuba usemnyameni umphefumlo wakhe. Phulaphula kwaye uve. Dlalelanisa ngokunyaniseka imicimbi yentombazana yakho okanye unyana wakho. Umntwana makaxelele kungekuphela nje malunga nempumelelo esikolweni, kodwa nento entsha yenzeka emini, yeyiphi incwadi awayeyifundayo, ukuba ngubani endidibana naye ... Wena, unganyanzeli, linda. Kuya kuza ilixa afike kuwe ngencoko.
Sukugxeka iizonwabisa zomntwana okwishumi elivisayo, nangakumbi, ngentlonelo, zivakalelwa ngabahlobo bakhe. Ixesha elikwishumi elivisayo lixesha lothando lokuqala, emva koko boyika kakhulu abantu abadala. Singasiqonda! Sijongene nabanye abantwana abakhubeki, bakhusele ekubandezelekeni, bakholelwe ukuba sazi ngcono ntoni kwaye siyenze njani apho siye khona. Konke oku kulungile kwaye kwenzeka ukuba. Kodwa akufuneki ulibale ukuba bobabini abantu abadala bade badlula kuyo! Khumbula uthando lwakho lwesikolo sokuqala ... Khumbula indlela awayefana ngayo nendlela ophambuke ngayo kunye negorha lenoveli lakhe! Ukhunjulwa? Khawufane ucinge ngomntwana wakho. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ukwisiphefumlo nangentloko yakhe. Musa ukothuka, vumela ulutsha olusondele olikufutshane, uhlala ulungele ukumxhasa ukuba nonke niyaqonda. Yabelana, ngamaxesha athile, kunye neenkumbulo zakho, uya kusondela omnye komnye.
Ukuba udidekile ukuthetha malunga nezo okanye ezinye izihloko ezenziwa ngumntwana okwishumi elivisayo ukuba nexhala, umnike uncwadi olufanelekileyo. Mhlawumbi emva kokufunda umntwana eyehlela imibuzo onokuxoxa ngayo kunye. Sukuba nexhala, yindalo, ungadlali-ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphumelela!