Nje ukuba umntu obhinqileyo afikelele kwiminyaka ethile ethile okanye atshate, uMbutho ujonga umsebenzi wakhe wokumenza umngxunya entloko ", kwaye uza kuzala umntwana?" Siqokelele imiqondiso eli-10 ukuba iba kwangoko. Ungasifumana isibini - ngenkalipho sathumela inkalipho yenkalipho!
Ufunda amanqaku avela kudidi "Onjani ukuba umama omncinci wokuzalwa komntwana ohluthwe
Kwaye awufumani mandla ocinga ukuba kukho into ephikisayo kuzo zonke ezi zinto zimangalisayo. Unosizi ngabo bonke: Umzimba wakho, ixesha lamahhala, amaqela, ukuhamba, ukuhamba, ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa kwaye konke okuncinci kunye nokuzikhusela.Kwenzeka njani ukuba kwabelane ngepipi yokugqibela ebhokisini? Kwaye ukuba intombi iyakhula kwaye ihambe iye kwi (kunye nezaphulelo!) Izihlangu zakho ozithandayo? Kwaye ukuba unyana ukhule kwaye uye komnye umfazi ?! Ewe, hayi, awuzange ubhalisile kuyo!
Uwedwa
Vuma - ukwenzela ukuzala umntwana, umntu akafuneki ngokukodwa. Kwaye ngokubanzi, kukholelwa ukuba kungcono ukuba azale, kuba ayiyi kuba yiyo nantoni na emntwaneni wakho. Ewe kunjalo akuyi kubakho. Kodwa ekuqaleni umntwana ibali malunga nokuqhubeka kohlobo lwakho kunye nendoda yakho. Malunga nothando olufuna indawo eyongezelelweyo yokwenza isicelo. Ukongeza, umfazi ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye iminyaka yokuqala yobomi bomntwana ihlelelekile. Ewe kunjalo, ungajamelana nayo yonke into (awuyitshisi apha? Amahashe akasayi kutsiba?), Kodwa kungcono ukuba kukho umntu oncedayo okanye ahlule imisebenzi nawe.
Uzimela izihlobo
Isikhokelo, ngokoluvo lwabo, iingxoxo ezingenakufikeleleka 'ngathi "awuyiqondi ukuba yintoni uthando lokwenene kunye nolonwabo lokwenene!", "Kwaye ngubani oza kukunika iglasi yamanzi ?! " njl. Uyasimelana nokucinga ukuba sele uzale emva. Njengokuziqhelanisa nemidlalo, umnqweno onjalo uvutha emva komgca othe tyaba emva kokuzalwa komntwana, ukuba ezi ngxoxo zicaphukisayo, zine-boddle yakho entlokweni yakho. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba unyamezele ukungakhathali malunga nobomi bakho obukhethekileyo nobodwa. Wena, ekugqibeleni, umntu ophilayo, engathethi ukuba akhuthazi.Ungaphantsi kwe-18.
Ewe kunjalo, apha eRussia bonke bakhuselwe ngokwesondo kuthi ga kwiminyaka eli-16 ubudala - kodwa, ukunyaniseka, ukuba yimfesane, kukuba yimfesane, Iziqwengana kunye ne-poop. Ugcwele amandla kunye namandla, unokuqeqesha i-Everest enye ngasekhohlo kwaye ngokubanzi uye kwi-antarctica ukunceda iipenguins. Ewe kunjalo, kukho amantombazana asele ene-14 equlethwe isicwangciso esicacileyo, kubandakanya umyeni wakhe, abantwana kunye nenjana ye-bulldo kwithuba ukuya kuthi ga kwi-21, kodwa kungcono ukucinga kakuhle. Kukho into enjalo: abantwana bahlala ngonaphakade.
Bantwana yiLikaKi
Uqinisekile kwaye uyazi ngqo into eya kuvela umntwana wakho ekukhanyiseni, wonke umntu ojikeleze ngokukhawuleza, wasasaza ujikeleze i-Conutti kunye neClutch Champagne! Uyithatha ezandleni zakho, uya kuncuma! Kwaye uya kuya kwikamva eliqaqambileyo, apho uya kuyisika khona imifanekiso ethandekayo kwi-Instagram, bhala izithuba ezimnandi malunga noyolo, kwaye umbonisa ingelosi! Dorha, Funda uMatritast. Okokuqala, ukukhulelwa kunye nokuzalwa komntwana luxinzelelo lwe-colossal kumzimba (kunye nokuzalwa komntwana ligazi, i-racise * i-rasilo, i-racise * idle, ilala, i-PoSSE kwaye ilala. Yonke into. Okwesithathu, awulali ngokwaneleyo. Kusekusekuseni, okwesihlanu, isithandathu, nesithandathu, ukuze ndoyilahle imifanekiso ye-idyllic entlokweni yentloko entloko, kwaye, bakuchitha, iLikaka ". Ephakathi kwethu kwi-adamoni bebetha intloko yakhe ecaleni kodonga.Wakha umsebenzi
Ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nabantwana kunzima, kodwa unako. Kodwa omabini la matyala afuna ukugxininisa kakhulu, iiqokelelo kunye namaxhoba. Ke musa ukubonakala ngathi yimvakalelo ye-blackmail efana "ne-tick tick tick, kwaye malunga nomsebenzi othile!" -Unelungelo lokuthatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi ibalulekile kuwe. Kunye namayeza, ngendlela, ayifanelekanga. Umzekelo, umfoti odumileyo u-Anrie Leibovitz wazala umntwana wokuqala nge-50, kwaye uziva ngathi yingcali, kwaye uziva ulungile.
Awufuni ukuba abantwana
Awufuni nje. Okanye uyafuna, kodwa hayi ngoku. Kwaye unelungelo elipheleleyo layo!Awukhe ulungele utshintsho
Ngaphezu koko, ukutshintsha zombini ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Awukhe ulungele ukuba sesichengeni kwaye uxhomekeke kakhulu, uye wasondela xa ucinga ngento onokuthi wenze iimpazamo, uyoyika ukuba "(ukuba ubunolwalamano naye). Okanye mhlawumbi unexhala malunga nexesha lokuthandana oliphupha ngalo lonke ubomi bam, kwaye akukho mnqweno wokumvumela ukuba umntwana abe kule nyani, nto leyo, ukuba ubomi bam bubeka phantsi entloko kwaye ngokubanzi njenge inyikima kwiibhola ezili-10 kumgangatho weRichter. Uzinzo luhle, kubandakanya nokuba kungekudala kuya kuba nesithukuthezi kwaye emva koko unokucinga malunga notshintsho.
Uyoyika
Ngokwenqanaba leentlobo zoloyiko lwentsomi, oomama abanokubakho baya kunika ukungangqinelani kwabo babesabhala ngomnyango ovulekileyo kwiminyaka engama-40, kuba esoyika. Olona loyiko luphambili, ngokuqinisekileyo, luxhalabisa ukuba umfazi unokuba ngumama olungileyo okanye uyenzele lo mculo unaphakade ", uphile, wenza ntoni nomntwana wakho ?!". Ngapha koko, kuthekani ukuba wena nendoda yakho abunakunika umntwana ngento yonke eyimfuneko? Kwixesha lethu elinzima, iBackkin, umgaqo malunga namagwegwe kunye nemiphunga isebenza ngokuphazamiseka okukhulu! Kuthekani ukuba niyakhula kwaye le ndoda iyakuphosela, ngaba uza kuhlala wedwa nomntwana wakho kunye neekati ezisibhozo? Okanye uya kuba njengomama ngale "ndibeka ubomi bam bonke kuwe, kodwa indyebo !!" Uloyiko olunjalo lunokujika lube kwi-neurosis epheleleyo ngokuwa kumhlaba ochumileyo wokudakumba kweposi. Ke, mhlawumbi, kungcono ukubajonga kuqala, emva koko bacinge ngabantwana.Unokuba ngumntwana
Awuzange udlale iidoli zabantwana, awukaze ube nomdla kubantwana babanye abantu, ufuna ukuphila ngokukodwa ngolonwabo lwakho kunye nomntu othandekayo wakho kwaye awufuni kuchitha ixesha kwenye into. Ewe, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, unenkcaso enzulu ngokuchasene nokuveliswa kwabantu kwaphela. Mhlawumbi ixesha elingaphelanga isikhundla sakho siya kutshintsha, kodwa ngelixa ungacingi ngayo, kodwa uhlala namhlanje. Kwaye ilungile! Akukho nto ayifuni kwenza into konke konke, kwaye nangakumbi kuzama into enjalo njengokuzalwa komntwana. Eyona nto iphambili kukuqonda ngexesha, uya kuba ube ngumhlobo wabantwana ekugqibeleni okanye ngaxa lithile uya kubulala indlela yonyoko. Kodwa apha ungakusombulula kuphela: ubomi bakho lukhetho lwakho.