Xa umntu obhinqileyo makaba ngumama, ujamelene nemvakalelo engathethekiyo ngokweemvakalelo, iimvakalelo ezinjalo, iimvakalelo ezingazange zikwenze! Ukuze angabilizwi, abantwana ngovuyo olukhulu kakhulu, kodwa, ngaphandle kobomi bomfazi, njengomthetho, awugcwele. Kwaye kwangaxeshanye, imbonakalo yomntu iphambuka umama omncinci.
Emva kwe-Euphoria, kuvela uhlobo loyiko oluvela: kodwa unamane njani ixesha lokuphumla, xa uphumla nini kwaye uthatha ixesha elincinci? Le mibuzo iphazamisekile ekuqaleni kowaphi na umama, kwanalo ilayishiweyo ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana. Masizame ukubeka yonke into kwiingqameko zengqondo? Ukuba ifunwa, ngendlela elungileyo, kuyinyani ukuba ijamelane nayo yonke imisebenzi, ngelixa ngokuqinisekileyo ikhona loo mizuzu ifunwayo engama-20 ukuya kwengama-30 ngosuku.
Ukuba unikwa uncedo, kungcono ukungamnqamli. Akukho sidingo sokuzibonakalisa umntu obhinqileyo ongenakudinwa, imini yonke emilenzeni ...
Emva kokukhulelwa, ukuzala umntwana, umfazi sele ediniwe, kwaye ukhathalelo lomntwana ngokusisigxina uyakwazi ukuthwala yonke into. Vumela okungenani uhlobo lweenkxalabo kunye nawe wahlula umntu osondeleyo.
Ukuba iingxowa-mali zivumela, yiya kwi-nanny, akunyanzelekanga ukuba iiyure ezingama-24. Kwaye iiyure ezimbalwa, ubukho bayo abunakuba yinto engathethekiyo. Kwimeko apho izalamane kunye noncedo olusondeleyo azinikezeli kwaye akunamsebenzi nokuba akukho nzima kuwe, unokuzibuza ngokwakho. Musa ukoyika ukugwetywa, musani ukoyika ukubonakala ngathi ninobuthathaka, ningoyiki, ukuba niya kuziva kakubi. Rhoqo ngamadoda afanayo akakwazi ukuqonda ukuba loluphi uhlobo lobunyhakazi, le ibhokisi yemiyalezo engenayo! Yabelana ngamava akho-siqinisekile ukuba ikufutshane nawe.
Sukufuna ukuba ngumama kunye nomfazi ofanelekileyo. Abafazi abafanelekileyo akwenzeki. Sukuzibeka ngokwakho ezintlokweni ezizakufezekisa, musa ukusukela iirekhodi! Ukuba kukho into engenaxesha lokwenza ngexesha lemini-utshintshele kule nye. Ewe kunjalo, oku akuzixabisi ezo zenzo, umzekelo, ukondla umntwana, ukutshintsha i-diaper. Aba ngabo banokulinda, bathi, ukucoca, ukuhlamba njalo njalo.
Kukho imisebenzi enokudityaniswa nomntwana. Khumbula malunga ne-slings kunye ne-kangaroo. Beka ilaphu apho, kwaye ngeli xesha, hlamba izitya okanye ulayishe umatshini wokuhlamba. Ewe kunjalo, kungcono ukuba ungahlali nomntwana kufutshane nekhompyuter. Kodwa xa ekhwela emgibeni okanye e-manneva, kuyinyani ukuba uthathe le mizuzu i-15 ukuya kwele-20 ukukhangela i-imeyile. Iyure yokuthula komntwana yile candelo likamama anokusetyenziswa ukuze kuphumle kakhulu, ukulala kancinane, funda, usele indebe yeti, thatha ishawa okanye ukuthula okanye ukuthula okanye ukuthula okanye ukuthula okanye ukuthula okanye ukuthula okanye ukuthula okanye ukuthula kunye neengcinga zakho.
Ukuhamba phantse "ukubonelela" ngokugqibeleleyo "kumama kunye ne-crumbs. Ungavumi umoya omtsha, ubiza amandla amatsha, amandla. Ukuhamba yile yinxalenye yosuku xa unokuphumla ukuya kuthi ga kumkhamo othile nomphefumlo nomphefumlo.
Ukuba kuyakuphuma awunamntu wokushiya umntwana, kodwa kufuneka uphume endlini, masithi ukuthenga, emva koko i-sling kangaroo iza kuhlangula. Umntwana uyakuvuyela ukubukela okwenzekayo ngeenxa zonke, uya kuba nezandla ezimbini zasimahla, kodwa ungalayisha iiphakheji ukuze azithwalise. Kungcono ukuthenga enye into.
Mamela ngokwakho, thanda wena kunye nomntwana wakho, musa ukuwela ngokugqithileyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kusebenza!