Ngokuzalwa komntwana, abafazi abaninzi baphanga ukuba ngumama kwaye abazukuya emsebenzini, bekholelwa ukuba umyeni uza kusebenza, izalamane ziya kunceda, urhulumente. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana uya kukhula, uqala ukuya kwi-kindergarten, emva koko afundele, kwaye ukugcinwa komzali minyaka le kuncinci.
Rhoqo, abantu basetyhini bathi abasebenzi, kuba banabantwana, akufuneki ukuba baziphose, kodwa ukubanika ingqalelo enkulu kunye nokukhathalela. Kodwa abantwana bangeyonto ingako kwaye kuyimfuneko, ngakumbi xa umama enazo iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Kungekudala, uya kudinwa, oya kuqalisa ukwaphula. Ukuphumla kubantwana kubalulekile ukuze le nto kunye nokwenziwa kwabakhulisa abakhulileyo, kwaye umfazi akakwazi ukuhlala ekhaya ixesha elide, njengoko kuqalisa ukugculela kwaye kunesidima. Ukongeza, abafazi abasebenzayo babuyela emsebenzini, ukuze bangaphulukani neziqinisekiso kwaye bazisebenzele emsebenzini. Ewe, ewe, injongo yomfazi ayikho kwaphela ukuba ihlale ekhaya kwaye ibilise iBordchi, kodwa zama ukuqonda amandla akho kuwo onke amabakala. Ke ngoko, xa ibhinqa lisithi akasebenzi, kuba unabo abantwana - lo luphawu lokungaphenduli. Abantwana kufuneka basondle. Thenga iimpahla zakho, kwaye ungalibali ngokwakho. Akukho mntu uqinisekisa ukuba umyeni wakhe uya kuhlala enceda, kuba unokuhamba, aze afe. Kwaye emva koko wenze ntoni umfazi ongazinyanzeli okanye nabantwana babo?
Enye into xa umfazi etheya esebenza, kuba unabo abantwana.
Akukho mfuneko yokukhetha umsebenzi othatha usuku lonke kwaye ubuye kuyo icinyiwe ngokupheleleyo. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba umsebenzi uvuyisa, kwaye ungabi yi-cortica.
Unokwenza nokusebenza ekhaya ukuba unqwenela, kwaye ungahlali umyeni wakho entanyeni kwaye ucinge ukuba loo nto yobomi bam buya kuqhubeka. Ngokukodwa xa umfazi enabantu abadala sele bekhulile, kwaye isengumfazi wasekhaya. Yintoni i-tog ukulungisa ukungasebenzi kakuhle? Ewe, umkhomba wendlu awungomsebenzi, kuba akafumani mvuzo.
Khawuleza abantwana yeyona ndlela ilula, kwaye lo mfazi akavumeli ukuba ulivilane kwaye akafuni kutshintsha nantoni na ebomini, ecinga ukuba uya kuhlala entanyeni. Kodwa kwimeko enjalo, amandla amanqam ahlala yenzeka xa ibhinqa linyanzelekile ukuba liphume kwindawo enesiqhelo yentuthuzelo kwaye iqale yonke into ukusuka ekuqaleni. Kwaye kunzima kakhulu, kukhokelela kwi-neurosis. Umsebenzi uyadingeka kubo bonke abantu, kuba ngaphandle kwawo baqala ukuzibandakanya ne-nonsense, bacinge ngeengcinga ezingaqhelekanga. Kwaye abantwana abayi kuba ngokuchanekileyo ngaphandle kwengqwalaselo.