Umfazi owomeleleyo akanguye umntu ongumlinganiswa wentsomi, kunye ne-ofisi yeshishini okanye ipolitiki. Kwi-Eyelid ye-Madyid yangoku, xa isantya sobomi sikhule ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye indlela yendlela yamanqanaba emisebenzi kufuneka "iphule ngamazinyo", amantombazana amaninzi angathanda ukuba ngamabhinqa ayomeleleyo. Kule nto, kuyimfuneko ukuba kuphuhliswe kungekuphela nje "kwishishini" kuphela, kodwa nesimo sengqondo esithile malunga neengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Ke, yintoni ongayikhathalelanga njengamanenekazi.
1. Abakhathazeki
Owu, ngaba usabuyela umva umva, uqhuba onke amathambo? Ngenxa KATHIXO. Umfazi ongumntu omdala ulumkile ngokwaneleyo ukuba aqonde ukuba wonke umntu akakholiswa (kwaye kuya kuba lula ukuthintela abathi abathiyo, kwaye bomelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba baqhubeke, ngokungathi akukho nto yenzekileyo. Uyazixabisa kakhulu kwaye akavumeli amahemuhemu amabi ukuba abephembelele ukuzithemba kwakhe.Ke ngoko, akayi kuyibopha intliziyo, ukhulula amagqabaza aliqela kwidilesi yakhe. Ngapha koko, ayinomsindo, kwaye yonke imizamo yokuyenza ibonakale ibonakale engenantsingiselo kwaye isidenge.
2. Abafikeleli ubuso babo bokwenyani
Zonke iimaski ziwe! Abafazi abanamandla bahlala behleli, nokuba ayimthandi umntu. Akukho maski, akukho zinzo zifihliweyo, akukho buxoki ... ngokungxama. Ukuba ulusizi, uya kuba lusizi ukuba uyakonwaba, ke uyonwaba nyani, ngaphandle kokuthetha.
Akukho nto banokuyifihla okanye abaneentloni. Abafazi abanamandla bayayamkela into abayiyo, bayathanda ukuba 'sisibe sokwenene "phambi kwabo bonke abantu, kwaye abayi kulungelelanisa nabani na.
3. Abakhathali nokuba abantu abaninzi bathi okanye abayenzayo
Umfazi onamandla wenze imithetho kwaye uyakholelwa ngokuqinileyo kubo. Akakhathali ukuba uza njani "uninzi", kwaye oko kubeka "isihlwele" kuye, kuba siyibona ilungile.Abafazi abanamandla baneengcinga zabo, iinkolelo, iinkolelo nokuba babambelele. Kwaye akakhathali nokuba izimvo zakhe azihambelani kwitemplate ethile, kuba uninzi alunakulunga.
4. Abakhathaleli ixesha elidlulileyo
Vumela ixesha elidlulileyo lihlale ngaphambili, kuba umntu akanakugwetywa ngeempazamo ezigqibeleleyo. Ekugqibeleni, akukho nto. Ewe, kwaye izifundo zisuswe le ndoda. Kuyaziwa kubo bonke abafazi abadala, kwaye yiyo loo nto baphila ngokwenyani.
5. Abanomdla kwiindlela zefashoni
Izithende eziphakamileyo kwifashoni ngeli xesha lonyaka? Spit! Uya kubathwala abalimi babo, kuba kufanelekile kuye.Ngamanye amagama, ukuba umfazi owomeleleyo akaluthandi uhlobo oluthile lwempahla okanye azive engakhululekanga kuyo, akazukuyinxiba. Ayizukuvumela impembelelo yefashoni yokuchaphazela isitayile kunye nentuthuzelo yakhe, yaye yenza iindlela zokuziphatha, kwaye akunjalo.
6. Abakhathali nokuba abayifumani inkxaso
Abafazi abanamandla bazimele izimeleyo. Bafundile ukuzithemba ngokwabo, bengalindeli nantoni na kuye nabani na.
7. Abazukuhlala belungile
Uza kuthetha ngqo ecaleni kwayo yonke into ecinga, kwaye umntu ufanele ukuva. Kwaye kwakhona, kutheni kufuneka uziqhelanise nomntu."Enkosi", "Nceda" kwaye "uxolo" - amagama anzima. Nangona kunjalo, umfazi owomeleleyo uyazi ukuba akanakuziqhelanisa kakhulu ukuzisebenzisa.
8. Abakhathalelanga iinethiwekhi zentlalo
Abafazi abomeleleyo bayazi ubuchule babo. Abakhathali nokuba kutheni umntu enokwenza ubuhlobo nabo kwi-facebook okanye kutheni le ndoda ingayithandi ifoto yakhe kwi-Instagram. Abalindeli kwiintsana ezilahlekileyo, husky kwizithuba zabo.
Abayenzi nje. Endaweni yoko, baphila ubomi bokwenyani.