Elinye ngamanye amaxesha lifuna inkxaso. Ukufika komntu omkhulu kwaye womelele, uchithekile uneenyembezi, hug, wathuthuzeleka, wathi yonke into iya kulunga kwaye iphumelele sonke. Iipiksi.Ucekiswe njani ukuba zenzakalise kumnqweno wakhe onamandla wokufaka kakuhle kwaye ubangele uvuyo lwayo nayiphi na into engabazili.
Umnqweno ophambili!
Okokuqala, khumbula ukunceda okanye ukuxhasa kubalulekile ukuba ungayifuni. "Umama uthe", "Yenza konke oko," "kodwa ndiza kumnceda, emva koko" - ngenxa yezinto ezinyanisekileyo, azibalulekanga njengomnqweno wakho. Ke ngoko, phosa isithintelo sakho kwaye uqonde into enye elula: Indoda yakho esondeleyo ingena engxakini, kwaye ifuna inkxaso. Nceda.Zilungiselele yonke into
Ukuya esitolo, susa igumbi, thatha inja, upheke ukutya, ukuhlawula amatyala, ukuhlala ecaleni kwaye ubambe isandla kuyo yonke into. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abanezifo eziqatha kakhulu (umzekelo, i-oncologicals) abaziimeko ezingalindelekanga kwaye zinoxolo, ngoko ke musa ukumangaliswa ukuba uyacelwa ukuba uza kuzisa i-pinepples. Kwaye musa ukoyika. Umhlobo wakho ngoku mbi kakhulu, ke kufuneka womelele kabini.
thetha naye
Amagama anokungancedi ngaphantsi kweshishini, kodwa kufanele ukuba zichaneke. Musa ukunika iingcebiso ezingaqhelekanga ezifana "nokubamba!" (Yintoni? Kwiipaneli?), "Lungelelani!" (Ewe, kodwa ngaphandle kwengcebiso yakho, ndihlala apha kwaye ndibize iintlungu wonke umntu) okanye athethe ngokwamava am esithobisileyo, kodwa bonke basela Iphepha leklabishi kwaye lanyangwa ngosuku lwesibini. Lumka ngohlobo lwegama elithi "Ndiyayazi into oyiyo ngoku!" (Ewe, wena! Sithe ngqo kunye namawele asemva!) Kunye nencoko malunga nekamva eliqaqambileyo - umhlobo ubi apha kwaye hayi usuku emva kwengomso.Nokuba ngamagama
Endaweni yokuba "Yintoni onokunceda?" Nika amanyathelo athile okanye ubabuze. Sinjalo, sonke, amahashe avuthayo anamahashe kwaye aqaqamba, ezalisa amaqanda ngentsimbi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha awukwazi kufuna uncedo, kuba kungonwabanga, kuhle, ke into enjalo. Kodwa intuthuzelo yekhonkrithi-nceda! Hlala nabantwana, yiza ke kwiibhedi, thatha ugqirha, thetha kwifowuni - njalo njalo.
Ukutya okunempilo amandla akho
Nika nje into onokuyenza. Akukho nto imbi ngakumbi kunokuzithembisa kwaye angakwenzi oko balinde oko bakulindeleyo. Ewe kunjalo, ukuba uhamba namaqebengwana lomhlobo, kodwa apha wahlaselwa ngabaphambukeli, kodwa uthathe imali, iimpahla kunye nesithuthuthu kwaye sathatyathwa sibekude kwindawo ye-Bhabhisi (oku kulandelayo, Ukuba loo nto), ke nawe, kwaye uBeda Lowe, kodwa ukuba uyandihleka, akukho sizathu nenceba!Linda
Ukuba ucwangcisiwe kakhulu ukuxhasa umntu, kufanele ukuba ibe yirobhothi encinci. Abantu rhoqo bahlala benenkathalelo, besenza, besenza i-sullen, bacaphukise kwaye abanakunyamezeleka ngokupheleleyo. Ke galela unyamezelo (kwaye ubomvu olungileyo) kwaye jonga imeko yakho. Ngaba umnqweno onamandla wokubulala abantu ngesitulo? Lixesha lokuba uphumle.
Zikhathalele
Ewe kunjalo, awunakuhlala ebhedini yomhlobo, usigcina isandla kwaye uyemka kuphela ukuya kuPee, kodwa ngubani ofunekileyo? Ngaba iqhayiya lakho lineqhayiya elingaphakathi libeka uphawu malunga "nomhlobo olungileyo". Isigulana kwaye sisoyikeka ke, kwaye sibone isidumbu esivalekileyo ecaleni kwakhe ngamehlo akhe - ulonwabo lwe-Dubious. Kwaye nceda, ungaziva uziva unetyala ngento yokuba ungaya kwiimuvi, kwikonsathi okanye apho, kwaye umhlobo unyanzelekile ukuba axoke kwaye ubekhona. Apha, njengoko besitsho, elowo.Sukucaphukisa
Nabani na ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka abe wedwa. Ewe, uyagula, kwaye unobushushu, ewe, ubuthathaka kakhulu. Kodwa esi asisosizathu sokulungisa amehlo akhe emva kwemini nasebusuku, inesisa kwaye isolula iorenji-fuck isibini esithile.
Isitya sobomi bakho
Rhoqo yenzeka ukuba ucebise ukuba unyamezele inkunkuma - kwaye ngequbuliso uzifumana iveki yesithathu inyani yekhaya lobuhlobo. Okanye uthathe isigqibo sokuthenga amayeza- kwaye ngoku rhoqo kwiintsuku ezimbini ndifumana iingxowa ezintlanu kunye neemveliso ezivela kwivenkile enkulu ekufuphi. Kwaye enye esele iphilile, ichwayitile, ichwayitile, irumba kunye neempawu zokugula iinyanga ezimbalwa azibonisi. Olu luphawu olucacileyo, lubiza kakhulu, ukuba lixesha lokujika umama wendlela kaTeresa's kwaye uye kuwa into ethile yaseTeresa: Ngokubalisa, uya kuyifumana le ndlela, inja ayisebenzi iveki , abantwana baye balibala ukuba ujongeka njani, kwaye umyeni wam uphulukene nethemba kwaye esebenzisa iinkqubo zokuhlamba.