Kusapho apho kukho abantwana, kunzima ukugcina ulungelelwano olugqibeleleyo. Abazali ngokwabo abasoloko bekwazi ukubeka esweni yonke into, kodwa emva kokucoca, yonke into ihlala ibuyela kwimeko apho yayikhona ngaphambi kokucoca, ngakumbi ukuba kukho abantwana abaliqela kusapho.
Abazali kufuneka bexelele abantwana ngemfuneko yokugcina ucoceko kwizindlu, kunye nokuhlakulela umnqweno wokugcina ucwangco.
Ukubaluleka kolungelelwano
Ekuqaleni, umntwana kufuneka adluliselwe ukuba kutheni u-oda ubalulekile. Yenza kube lula kuya kuba kwimizekelo. Inomdla iya kuba sisiphakamiso sokugcina yonke imizobo yakho kwifolda eyahlukileyo ukuze yonke impumelelo ekulula ukuba nesabelo nootatomkhulu okanye njengabahlobo nje. Xa umntwana ezama ukubambelela kwi-odolo ubuncinci kwidesktop yakhe kwaye ngokubanzi egumbini lakhe, kubalulekile ukudibanisa izinto azenzileyo.Ifanele ichaze ukuba iindwendwe azithandeki ukuba zize endlwini yabantu abanomdaka ongapheliyo. Ngexesha elizayo, ngaphambi kokufika kweendwendwe, uya kuzabalazela ukubeka yonke into endaweni yayo ukuze abahlobo bakhe babemnandi, kwaye nabo babefuna ukuza kutyelela. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde kungekuphela nje ukucoca, kubalulekile ukuhambisa ndawo, kuyafuneka ukulandela ukucoceka komzimba wakho kunye nokunxiba, kuba ubona ulwazi olungeyo .
Ukucoca ngokuzimeleyo
Ekuqaleni, umntwana kunzima ukujongana nale nto. Ixesha lokuqala kufuneka kumncede, achonge iindawo zezinto ezahlukileyo aza kuzikhumbula, kwaye kwixesha elizayo aya kuyazi ukuba wenza njani kwaye enze ntoni. Ngamanye amaxesha i-nursery ibonakala inkulu kakhulu ukuba ingayithabatha ukuyicoca kwangoko, inokwahlulwa ibe ngamacandelo ahlukeneyo kwaye icoceke ngaphakathi. Umhlobi waBantwana ubalulekile emntwaneni ukwenza igumbi njengoko lizifuna ngokwakhe. Ukuba unemibono yokucwangcisa indawo yegumbi, kufuneka ivunyelwe ukuba iyenze. Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba igumbi elihlangabezana nazo zonke izicelo zabantwana, njengomnini wakho, abantwana bazama ukugcina ngokulandelelana. Ukugcina lula kudla ngokuba ngumntwana ngaphandle kokulungisa izinto neethoyi zakhe. Kuyimfuneko ukugcwalisa amagumbi ayo neebhokisi kunye nezikhongozeli, iifolda zokuncedisa imizobo, iimagazini, njl. Kwixa elizayo, umntwana uya kuba lula ukuthatha ezo zinto azifunayo ngalo mzuzu, kwaye ungajongi Kuzo naphi na kwaye ziya kuyiqonda loo nto i-odolo ayimhle kuphela, intle, nayo ilungele. Imigaqo eluncedo kufuneka ixelwe nomntwana ukuba kulula kakhulu ukugcina ubunyulu kunye nocwangco kunokucoca. Ixesha elincinci lokuyishiya, ukuba uyazisusa ngokukhawuleza izinto zakho, emva kokutshintsha, faka izinto kwiindawo zethu, phakamisa izinto eziwileyo kunye neendawo ezinqamlezayo. Ngaphambi kokuba ufumane omnye umdlalo, kubalulekile ukususa indawo yakho yangaphambili. Ungaqala ukucoca kuyo nayiphi na indawo yegumbi elifana nelifana, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uye kwiinkqubo ezimnandi. Amaqhinga abantwana abancinci abathanda ukuxelisa abazali kakhulu abazali kakhulu, kwaye ke, ukubafundisa ukuba ba-oda, kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye uMama enotata ukuba ayigcine. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uthathe njengoko ufuna ukwenza umntwana. Ukuba umzekelo obonakalayo ungancedi, umntwana ukholelwa ukuba ukhokelo lomyalelo yinkqubo engafunekiyo, kuba iyadinisa, ungayimisi, kuya kufuneka uzame ukuyiguqula umdlalo onomdla. Umzekelo, ukuguqula ingqokelela yeethoyi kwizinto zokhuphiswano lwebhasikithi yokwenyani, apho kufuneka ubethe ibhasikithi ekhethekileyo kunye neethoyi ezahlukeneyo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kwangelo xesha, indima yebhasikithi inokudlala naziphi na iibhokisi ezisetyenziselwa ukugcina ezo thoyili.