Ukufezekisa impilo yeemvakalelo kwahluke kakhulu kwibhalansi yomzimba okanye yengqondo. Iimvakalelo zomntu, ngakumbi usizi, iintlungu, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, zidla ngokubonakala ngesiquphe kwaye zibizwa ngokuba "sisimemo." Ngamanye amaxesha inokuba yinto yokuba "yonke into ihamba kuyo yonke into" kwaye akukho nto ayinakwenzeka ukutshintsha nantoni na. Kukwenza kube nzima 'ukuphuma kwisangqa esivaliweyo ".
Ezi mvakalelo (ngakumbi lusizi) uphononongo ngalunye ngeendlela kwaye unokuziva ngamandla ngakumbi kumaxesha athile obomi. Kodwa ukuba iimeko ezinjalo zifana nokwahlula, ilahleko yomhlobo okanye umntu esimthandayo, imvakalelo yokusilela okanye izindlu ezihlala ixesha elide, zenzeka rhoqo, kodwa zilusizi.Kukho izinto ezi-3 ezifanele zikhunjulwe xa kuvakala
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1. Lilonke ixesha layo
Kunye namaxesha endalo, abantu bakwakhona "amaxesha" ebomini. Amaxesha athile anokubonakala ixesha elide kunabanye, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kwiimvakalelo ezinjengobuhlungu, usizi, ukulangazelela nokudakumba. Kodwa ngokufanayo ngokwemvelo, banesiqalo, kwaye baguqukele kwelinye "ixesha".
Kufanelekile ukufumana umzuzu ukukhumbula iminyaka emihlanu edlulileyo. Uninzi lwazo, wonke umntu wayenezalo kwaye ewa, kwaye mhlawumbi unyaka omnye wekhonkrithi wakhululwa ngaphezulu kwabanye. Kokwesona, isiganeko okanye unyaka kunokuba nzima ukubona "ukukhanya ekupheleni komgaqo."
Kufanele ukukholelwa ukuba kwanaxa kubonakala ngathi yonke into ihamba nzima, kukho imijikelezo ebomini. Kwaye la maxesha alungiselelwe ukukhula kwengqondo, ngokwasemzimbeni nasekunyameni nasekuntwini.
2. Isiphumo seDomino
Ngamanye amaxesha, ubomi buza kubonakala bubomi bokuba yonke into iwile njengomgca wethambo laseDomino. Kodwa kufanelekile ukucinga, mhlawumbi lendalo ifuna ukucoca indawo yenye into, kwaye akukho mntu waziyo ukuba yizalise le ndawo.Wonke umntu ungumlawuli kunye nomgcini wesondlo sobomi bakhe, ngenxa yoko kufanelekile ukuzama ukubona yonke into eyahlukileyo.
Into esingaziwayo inokuba yinto enomdla, kodwa inokwenza ixhala kunye nokungaqiniseki. Ngayiphi na imeko, le asiyiyo isiphelo, kodwa "iqhosha lokuseta" lento eza kwenzeka. Oku kucoca apho umntu afuna khona, kunye nesikhumbuzo ekusenokwenzeka ukuba kufuneka atshintshe indlela athetha ngayo.
3. Zikhekele ngokwakho
Lixesha lokuba ugqibezele ngomnqweno onenjongo yolonwabo kwaye ugxile kwinto elungileyo ngoku kwaye oko kuzisa ulonwabo. Wonke umntu uhlangabezana nosizi ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo - oololiwe, tsala, ukudanisa, ukunxibelelana nabahlobo okanye uchitha ixesha nosapho.
Kufuneka ufumane nje into eyenza umntu onwabe. Kukodwa wonke umntu, ke ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba unike ibhunga elinamanyaniso. Kufuneka ifumaneke izinto ezimbalwa ezizizisela zokomoya, ngokomzimba nangokubaluleke kakhulu, imvakalelo yokulingana ngokweemvakalelo.
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Qala ukugcina idayari kwimizuzu emi-5 ngosuku
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba umntu ufuna ukubhala okanye hayi, kuya kufuneka azame ukugcina idayari, ehlawula imizuzu emi-5 ngemini, ebhala ngayo yonke into kuye, apho kubomi bobubele kulo mhla. Ewe kunjalo, ekuqaleni kusenokubonakala ngathi unesidima, kodwa yimizuzu emi-5 kuphela onokuyibona endaweni yetheyisi yereyithisi okanye ubukele umabonwakude. Ukwamkelwa ngokulula kunokunceda ukutshintsha iimvakalelo.
Uninzi lwabarhwebi abaphumeleleyo baqala usuku lwabo ngombulelo. Ndidwelise nje izinto ezilula umntu azixabisayo yonke imihla, uqala ukuqaphela ezinye izinto afanele azithandane ngexesha lasemini. Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso zokuqalisa:
-Banini banyanzelwa ukuba bancume kwiiyure ezingama-24 ezidlulileyo, kwaye kutheni le ndoda izisa iimvakalelo ezintle;
-Kaloku kwiRadio yengoma ekhethekileyo eyakhumbuza ixesha elichwayithileyo ebomini;
-Cinga malunga nento yesidlo sakusasa kunye nendlela awawakha ngayo amandla ngayo yonke imini;
Nje ukuba umntu aqaphele izinto ezincinci apho kuya kuba nombulelo, iqala ukuba ngumkhwa wendalo, emva koko uqalisa ukuphucula zonke iimvakalelo.
Nxibelelana nomntu onokuthetha naye kwisihloko ngokubanzi
Ubukho benkxaso yinto emangalisayo, kodwa kuhlala kukho umntu onokunxibelelana naye kwinqanaba elinzulu nelinobuntu.
Iimeko kunye neemeko zomntu ngamnye zahlukile, nangona wonke umntu edla ngokukholelwa ukuba kuphela komntu onokuthi afumane iimvakalelo ezithile ngesizathu esithile, angaze abe yinto engathethekiyo yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu abanokuziva benjalo.
I-ripples yenzeka ngezizathu ezininzi, kodwa ingqondo yentlungu malunga nomntu kunye nobudlelwane phantse kuwo onke amaxesha.
Ubomi buyenzelwe ukuba bangahlali bodwa, kodwa kwinkampani yabanye.
Tshintsha umbono wakho
Cinga ngemeko xa umntu osondeleyo esifa. Kunzima ukudlulisela oku kuphelelwe lithemba kunye nokuntywiliselwa ngokuthe ngcembe kwi-pulp yeemvakalelo, ekunzima ukuba kunzima ukubuya.
Kufuneka iqondwe kwangoko ukuba akukho siphelo sale pauchn, kwaye umntu kufuneka azimise ekubeni awele kuyo, aze afumane amandla omyolelo wokuphuma enzonzobileni yokuphelelwa lithemba.
Ukutshintsha kokuqonda utshintsho yonke.
Sinika imizekelo yemicimbi ezokunceda ukutshintshela kwimbono yangoku yemeko kwiingcinga ezintle kunye nemibono:
-Unokufunda ntoni kule meko, ngesizathu sokuba yenzeke ngoku; -Ungayinceda njani into enye umntu ojamelana nayo umntu; -Ukuba yinto engeyiyo - ukuba iyanceda umntu okanye umntu.
Ifanele iqonde engqondweni ukuba ukwala kwaye usizi ziimvakalelo ezimbini ezahlukileyo. Ukuba lusizi - kuyinto yendalo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ufumane ezi mvakalelo; Kodwa ukuphikiswa ngamanye amaxesha kuye kwavela kulusizi olungathintelwanga.
Zibeke kwindawo yokuqala
Kuya kufuneka uzibeke endaweni yokuqala, ngakumbi kumaxesha anzima. Bonke abantu bahlukile, kwaye akukho sisombululo silula nesilula kwingxaki yosizi.Ukuba oku kuyanceda, ungazingqongile ngabantu, oko akunamsebenzi ukuba ungaphazamisi, okanye ukuze umntu abe novelwano. Enye inokunceda ukucima ifowuni kangangesiqingatha semini kunye nokuhla kwehlabathi liphela. Ukuba umntu ukhetha ukuba wedwa ukukhulula nayiphi na imvakalelo eneemvakalelo, okanye nje uthe cwaka kwaye ulilolo - kufuneka uyifumane.
Nje ukuba umntu eze kuye kwaye aqala ukuzibeka endaweni yokuqala, uya kuqalisa ukuvela kwamanye amabakala obomi.
Yiba nemfesane kwaye uzinikezele kuye
Ububele abusoloko bubuchule obunikiweyo ngokuzalwa, ngamanye amaxesha bubuchule obufundayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye iindawo ebomini ukuba akukho mntu unokuqonda ngokwenene nangokuqonda ngokupheleleyo ukuba akadlulanga kuyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oku kunokuba yingqondo yawo nawaphi na amava abuhlungu.
Usizi kunye nosizi ziphilile iimvakalelo zabantu ezihlaliyo ngumntu wonke. Kuhlala kungcono ukufuna uncedo kufutshane, ngakumbi umntu onxibelelana nabo.
Ukuchitha ixesha lokubonisa ububele kwabanye abantu kunye nosizi lwabo, unokuziva unxibelelwano olukhulu nalowo umntu, nokuba andikhange ndivele umsitho, ngenxa yokuba ulusizi. Ngenxa yoko, ububele buhlala bubuya.